“Stay single if you don’t like communication” – Solomon Buchi

"Stay single if you don't like communication" – Solomon Buchi

Renowned media personality, Solomon Buchi has stressed the significance of communication in relationships as it provides clarity. Solomon Buchi stated that single people should stay off relationship if they dislike communication in a post on X.

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Solomon Buchi He asserted that effective communication between partners is the only way to deliver the clarity that relationships need. Communicate your feelings, intentions, thoughts and disagreements. A serious relationship, in his opinion, is two people talking everything out and acknowledging that they need time to themselves even when one of them doesn’t feel like talking. In his words: “Stay single if you don’t like communication. Relationships require clarity, and clarity is provided by communication. Communicate your intentions; communicate your feelings, thoughts, your disagreements. And even when you don’t feel like communicating, communicate that you need some time. A serious relationship is two people talking everything out. Stop saying “I’m not the talking type…”. You need to talk to make it work!” SEE POST: 

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“Why you should wait for your wedding night before having sex” – Solomon Buchi

"Why you should wait for your wedding night before having sex" – Solomon Buchi

"Why you should wait for your wedding night before having sex" – Solomon Buchi

Media personality, Solomon Buchi has stated reason, why whoever cares to listen, to should wait for their wedding night before having sex. Solomon Buchi took to the microblogging platform, X, to advise the masses to get married first before having any form of sexual intercourse.

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Solomon Buchi He stated that there is a delight in waiting and falling into each other’s arm in deep passion without guilt. He added that even though it is rare these days, it is still beautiful, pious and morally satisfying. Solomon Buchi wrote: “There’s a delight in waiting for your wedding night, knowing well that you WAITED & falling into each other’s arms in deep passion without guilt. It might be rare these days, but it’s still beautiful, pious and morally satisfying. Sex consummates marriage. Marry first, then sex.” Reactions trailing Solomon Buchi’s comment on waiting till marriage before having sex Noble Ifeanyi wrote: “The pleasure of the kill is in the chase…wetin person don consummate for relationship finish what’s it about wedding night?” vanell0peee wrote: “Real” SEE POST:

Solomon Buchi slams those criticizing the large crowd at The Experience gospel concert

"Your activism is only activated when church folks gather" – Solomon Buchi slams those criticizing the large crowd at The Experience gospel concert

Media personality, Solomon Buchi has taken aim at Nigerians who criticized the large crowd present at “The Experience” gospel concert. The sizable number of Nigerians who showed up for a Christian concert in Lagos state last Friday has drawn criticism from some netizens.

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Solomon Buchi Responding to these criticisms, Solomon Buchi compared netizens reactions to Burna Boy, Davido or Wizkid’s 20,000 capacity concert and free annual gospel concert with over 65,000 people. According to him, their activism is only activated when church folks gather. He also questioned if these reactions are ordinary or a possibility of demonic infection. Solomon Buchi, in a lengthy post, wrote: ‘’Burnaboy, Davido or Wizkid sells out 20,000 capacity concerts. “Wow! My goat, I love to see black excellence.” The Experience, a FREE annual gospel music concert with over 65,000. “Nigerians and religion. Imagine if these people went to protest; Nigeria will be fine. Why don’t you say this about your fave when thousands attend their concerts?” “With all deserved disrespect, you’re out of your mind. Your activism is only activated when church folks gather. Same way you guys bully churches that build cathedrals, instead of focusing on your governors.” “When I think about this double standard against Christians, I detect a possibility of demonic infection. Is it ordinary?” “For a lot of Nigerian Christians, they don’t attend concerts all year, because there’s a lot to hustle for. Then, at the end of each year, they gather for FREE, FREE oh, to worship God, and express gratitude for the year. But you won’t stop taunting them.” “Look at it morally. Which is better? Paying for a concert where you’re led to sing “I need Igbo and shayo” or attending a free gospel concert where you express gratitude.” “From a purely artistic and musical perspective, the Experience is the most expensive gospel concert in Africa. Most of your faves cannot match up with the musical excellence that the Experience portrays.” SEE POST: Burnaboy, Davido or Wizkid sells out 20,000 capacity concerts. “Wow! My goat, I love to see black excellence.” The Experience, a FREE annual gospel music concert with over 65,000. “Nigerians and religion. Imagine if these people went to protest; Nigeria will be fine.” Why don’t… https://t.co/6GcIaKIhYe — Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) December 10, 2023

Solomon Buchi shades feminists, cites Chimamanda Adichie

"Everyone must not experience the misery that ruined you" – Solomon Buchi shades feminists, cites Chimamanda Adichie

"Everyone must not experience the misery that ruined you" – Solomon Buchi shades feminists, cites Chimamanda Adichie

Media personality, Solomon Buchi has taken to social media to shade feminists as he makes comparison to Nigerian writer, Chimamanda Adichie. Solomon stated that Chimamanda is a feminists and lauded her by listing her many achievements.

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He noted that she has won many awards, given in international forums, and she us happily married. He went on to say that she is respectful and wears decent clothes, and she has never publicly shamed her father for patriarchy. Solomon then called out other feminists, whose life goal is to camp women together and make their lives an expression of trauma.

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He concluded by advising them to heal while noting that everyone must not experience the misery that ruined them. Solomon Buchi wrote: “Chief Chimamanda Adichie is a feminist. She’s given speeches in international forums and written books. She’s won awards; she is happily married — she absolutely loves her family-she never threw her father under the bus for patriarchy. Absolutely respectful woman. Dresses decently too. But you, your life’s goal is to camp women together and make their lives an expression of your trauma. Heal and be better. Everyone must not experience the misery that ruined you.” SEE POST: Chief Chimamanda Adichie is a feminist. She’s given speeches in international forums and written books. She’s won awards; she is happily married —she absolutely loves her family—she never threw her father under the bus for patriarchy. Absolutely respectful woman. Dresses decently… — Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) November 8, 2023

“I don’t think that women should do 9-5 jobs like men do” – Solomon Buchi

"I don’t think that women should do 9-5 jobs like men do" – Solomon Buchi

Social media personality, Solomon Buchi has stated that women, in his opinion, shouldn’t do 9-5 jobs like men do. In a lengthy post he shared on his official X handle, Buchi said that it is more sustainable in the society for men to work while their wives stay-at-home with their children.

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He claimed it is “crazy” for women to work a 9–5 job given the capricious hormonal changes they undergo. Buchi said that while many women wear out that being a stay-at-home mom is a waste of education, it is essential for their children’s sake that they receive an education.

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Solomon Buchi wrote; “I don’t think that women should do 9-5 jobs like men do. I don’t think that women are built to work like men. I think that the traditional method of men working, while their wives are stay-at-home mothers is more sustainable for society. I’ll put a modern spin on it: SAHMS should have hobbies and businesses they can do from their homes. “Most women would not do a 9-5 if they had another sustainable option. Doing a 9-5 job with the capricious hormonal changes women experience is crazy. But no, feminism is here to liberate you oh, so congrats oh! “Whenever being a housewife/stay-at-home mom is placed side by side with being a working professional, many women wear out that being a stay-at-home mom is a waste of education. Why go to school to stay at home? “You need intense education to be a great stay-at-home mom. If you’re going to be spending more time with the kids, you should be a knowledge tank. How will you school the kids if you’re uneducated? Besides, being resourceful at home requires astronomical knowledge. Intelligent children who were homeschooled often have brilliant parents. “Being a stay-at-home mom is not a waste of education. It’s a different kind of usefulness.” SEE POST:

“She has been called bad names by her fellow women” – Solomon Buchi defends Maraji after she condemned indecent dressing

“She has been called bad names by her fellow women” – Solomon Buchi defends Maraji after she condemned indecent dressing

Media personality, Solomon Buchi recently defended Maraji on Twitter after she was criticised for her opinions on women’s dressing. Maraji had previously expressed her views on indecent dressing, claiming that modest dressing commands more deference and politeness from others.

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Solomon Buchi provided his viewpoint despite the criticism she received from certain ladies who called her a “pick-me” and that she didn’t encourage other women. He made the case that some outfit does not exalt God and stressed the significance of modesty in the Christian faith. He voiced concern over the misconception of decency held by certain Christian ladies.

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Solomon Buchi also pointed out that people’s fashion choices might be influenced by celebrities who advocate for less modest attire. He concluded by underlining the difficulty of teaching modesty and decency to modern women and asserting that maintaining one’s body is a crucial component of faith. In his words; “Maraji has been called unprintable names by her fellow women because she frowned upon indecent dressing. I’ve seen posts of women calling her a hater, a pick-me, etc. “Fight it, but dressing will never be relative. “There’s a way typical prostitutes dress. Women call certain outfits “ashawo dress” because it gives slutty vibes. Even the Bible validates that harlots look a certain way: “And there a woman met him, With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.” Proverbs 7:10 NKJV. “What scares me is that some Christian women think they can wear whatever they wish to. If decency is just a social construct to control women, why not walk around stark naked, as clothes are even tools of oppression too? “Many of you follow celebrities who wear rubbish, and you let them influence you, a child of God, who should be regenerated.”

“Money shouldn’t stop you from getting married” – Solomon Buchi advices men

“Money shouldn’t stop you from getting married” – Solomon Buchi advices single men

Solomon Buchi, a controversial media personality, recently expressed his opinion on Twitter that unmarried men do not need to consider their financial stability before getting married. He shared the story of his younger sister who married at the age of 22 to a man who had a good job but lost it six months later due to the impact of COVID-19.

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Media personality, Solomon Buchi
Photo Credit: Solomon Buchi Source: Twitter Solomon argues that marriage thrives on understanding, contentment, and mutual support, regardless of financial circumstances. He wrote: “My kid sis got married at 22 to my friend, 25. He was working with a top oil company; doing absolutely well for himself. Six months into marriage, he was laid off because of COVID. I know a lot of men want to have strong financial base to get married, but that’s not what you need. What you need is a partner that understands the reality that you can lose everything, and they need to be there for you. Marriage thrives on understanding and contentment—come what may, both of you will hold it together. That’s the real control and security you can have. Men, money shouldn’t stop you from getting married. It shouldn’t. I understand the societal pressure, but there’s no guarantee that all the riches you want to build can’t fly away. Life happens, and you need a woman who will embrace you when life happens. I bet that if my in-law foresaw that he’d have lost his job 6 months into marriage, he most likely wouldn’t have gotten married, till last year that he was called back. Don’t let the aspiration to have money stacked up somewhere stop you from getting married. If you have a job, accommodation & food, you can get married. It will be better if your partner also has income flow too. Stop waiting to have your house/be a millionaire before you marry. I wanted to have my house before marriage, guess who’s married & doesn’t have a house yet? “I dare say that many couples spend less than singles because there’s a strong sense of responsibility, teamwork, and accountability. My younger sister once told me that I spent more money as a single man than they spent as a family, it made me illuminated my mind. Marriage can be economical, especially when children aren’t involved, and when you cut your coat according to your cloth. It’s really not that deep. Most of our parents had only accommodation and food when they got married, and they grew with time. “Before my wedding, I brooded over the financial cost that comes with marriage, and I shared with my friend cum brother-in-law and told me that I can’t control everything, and I should just get married & face life with my wife. That’s what I’d have done as a single man, anyway. It’s a highly consumerist world, but you still tailor everything to your budget. Wed on a weekday, invite a few friends, rent the wedding dress, get a photographer friend to help you, you don’t need an exotic honeymoon immediately. Please save some money for life in marriage. “If your family complains, tell them you’re working with a budget, and if they want it bigger, they can sponsor it. Simple. Men, you don’t need the world to marry. Marry a reasonable woman; start small, never stay lazy. If you know your stuff, you will save more more in marriage. “Financial stability for marriage is having a source of income that can feed, house and clothe you; as long as it’s legitimate work. This is the sign you need to make that bold step, unless you’re generally not ready for marriage, but if it’s about finances, go and marry!” See the post below:

Life coach, Solomon Buchi defends woman who called Igbo men “insufferable and misogynistic”

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Life coach, Solomon Buchi defends woman who called Igbo men "insufferable and misogynistic"An Igbo woman took to Twitter to write her opinion about her kinsmen from the Eastern part of Nigeria. According to the lady, identified as @Aphrodiety__, Igbo men are very annoying, arrogant, and have a striking dislike for successful women. As expected, her opinion has been met with a lot of criticism and also stirred up a  whole controversy. While most ladies agree with this point, the men are unabashedly unrepentant with their egoistic and snarky responses. However, writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi Bartholomew, has come to the lady’s defence, saying that what she said about Igbo men is true, though she should try not to generalise. Solomon Buchi, who is also an Igbo man, took to his twitter page to weigh in on the controversial post and also call out his tribesmen for being control freaks. He accused Igbo men of acting like “demigods” when they have money and forcefully trying to turn their wives to housewives. He said they see women as the “lesser gender” and are obsessed with male children. He wrote, #Thread If I say that Igbos are hardworking, a lot of y’all will nod and agree with me. But if I say that Igbo men are typically misogynistic, you bash and cuss me out. Why would you agree to a conclusive positive statement and not take criticisms that way too? — Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) May 15, 2019 If I say that Igbos are hardworking, a lot of y’all will nod and agree with me. But if I say that Igbo men are typically misogynistic, you bash and cuss me out. Why would you agree to a conclusive positive statement and not take criticisms that way too? First off, there’s really a problem with selective stereotypes. Besides, stereotypes are stereotypes because they have truths in them. We will say Yoruba people love parties. Hausas are hospitable and United. Igbos are hardworking and business oriented. Yeah? Now, in that same light, there are sides to the positives too. Igbo men are highly misogynistic; this is not tribalism. This isn’t fueling ethnocentrism; this is just a truth. If you call it a generalization then let’s look at our hypocrisy.. Nigerians will come online and say the police is tough, bad and tyrannical towards the citizens. The police is mostly painted in bad light. Nobody remembers that’s stereotyping. There are freaking good police men but outnumbered by the bad ones. What am I trying to say? When someone calls out a tribe; criticizing them, don’t even come claiming its stereotyping because we all freaking stereotype and it’s not always bad! We all know every stereotype has exceptions! Do Akwa Ibom people love dog meat? Yes! Many but then not ALL! Are Nigerian politicians corrupt? Most not all! What am I saying? There’s always something peculiar to a group of people! Good and bad! Now back to the main talk.. They usually feel like they are demigods especially when they have money; they feel entitled to a woman and everything about her. Their ego is bloated and honestly usually uncouth. This is the truth. They’d tell you how they can feed you in disdain just because you refused to comply to their proposal. They’d remind you how they have someone your mate that they are taking care of. They’d get married to a woman and turn her to a housewife by force. Control you like you don’t have a mind of your own. The Igbo traditional practices don’t help. They have misogyny so entrenched in them. The woman is seen as a lesser gender. It’s prevalent with Igbos, the obsession with male children is just so much. And even when a there’s a girl child, there are Igbo sayings like: “Nwoke bu ugwu nwanyi”. This means that a man is the dignity of a woman. Like saying a woman is incomplete without a man. There are many instances. Ask women around you. Many of them will conform to you. I am not saying all Igbos are this way but trust me it’s more difficult to make a typical Igbo man to consider gender equality than any other tribe. We are very traditional. Always clenched to how our fathers did it. Always. Well, this isn’t a hate post. This is a call out post that we can do better. There are good Igbo men who are progressive. So yeah, Igbo men should strive to be more open and shed the stripes of misogyny. I know it’s how we were conditioned but you should make the difference. Gracias!

“Why marry who you don’t trust with your all?” – Solomon Buchi

"Why marry who you don't trust with your all?" – Solomon Buchi

Popular life coach, Solomon Buchi has argued that a husband’s next of kin should be his wife and not his mother.

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Buchi said this while faulting the football star, Achraf Hakimi whose wife Abuok Hiba recently found that he had deposited 80% of his salary to his mother’s account, which makes it impossible for his estranged wife to get hold of his assets. According to Buchi, a man shouldn’t go into a marriage if they do not trust their partner. He insisted that a man should have his wife as his next of kin and not his mother. See his Twitter posts below:Achraf Hakimi:

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Solomon Buchi ties the knot with his fiancee, Adeola (Photos)

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Popular Nigerian life coach, influencer and writer, Solomon Buchi, has tied the knot with his fiancee, Adeola. The life coach shared photos from their wedding on social media on Wednesday, 1st of February 2023.

Sharing photos from their wedding, he wrote a heartfelt caption acknowledging their union. In his words:

‘‘The most beautiful moment in our lives yet. I got to be joined as one with Adeola, now Adeola Solomon-Buchi- Marriage, an institution so sacred, and in the presence of family and a few friends, we tied our nuptial vows and committed to forever. #TheperfectAddition.”