A Nigerian lady has revealed how she survived getting abused severally by her ex-boyfriend. The young woman revealed that while in the relationship with her ex, everything was great until she caught him cheating on her, and when she tried to leave, he turned violent and choked her until she almost passed out. Despite her struggle, she managed to break free from his grip. But he continued to beg and plead for her forgiveness, even going so far as starving himself to make it look like he was broken and remorseful. However, she knew deep down that he would never change, and she decided to leave him for good. Two years later, she found someone who was everything her ex was not. He was kind, gentle, and would never hurt a fly. She knew that she had made the right choice, and she vowed never to fall for the same kind of trap again. Looking back, she couldn’t help but feel sorry for any woman who would fall for her ex’s charm and end up trapped in a cycle of abuse. She hoped that someday he would change, but deep down she knew that he was beyond redemption. She wrote:
“Marry someone that’s empathetic and has self-control, especially self control. I caught my ex cheating, he choked me till I almost passed out, I just freed myself for him because the more I struggled the harder his grip, when he finally let me go, he went down on his knees crying and begging, this beast doesn’t care where he’s kneeling and begging 0, he’d starve himself for days to look hungry a d broken, just so I’d forgive him, My mind was made up already. he’s still beqging me two years later, meanwhile I’m now married to someone that can’t even hurt a bird. Just one sign is enough to leave guys, don’t let these actors deceive you. if he hits you once he’ll do it again, they can’t change. I pity the woman that will fall in my ex’s trap & May God help her.” See the post below:
