Entrepreneur and ex-wife to BasketMouth, Elsie Okpocha, has advised women to stop blaming themselves because a man is cheating on them. Using Cardi B as an example, she recalled how the American rapper went on Instagram live recently while lamenting in severe pain as she got cheated on again. She claimed a lot of women might be wondering why Cardi B who is successful, funny and has a nice body would be getting cheated on. Entrepreneur and real estate agent, Elsie Okpocha. According to her, 80% of the time a man cheats, it has nothing to do with the woman. She said a woman can be beautiful, intelligent, sexy, know how to cook his favorite dishes and he will still cheat. Elsie Okpocha advised women to stop feeling bad and blaming themselves for the actions of another person. Ending the video, she advised women to marry kind partners so even if he cheats he considers you by making sure you don’t find out, never putting you in a position where you are humiliated and he doesn’t disrespect you. WATCH VIDEO HERE
Lady catches man cheating after visiting so they can go for abortion
A pregnant lady who visited her boyfriend caught him cheating after she came to see him so they can go for a third abortion at the hospital. The lady who was narrating her ordeal while standing in front of her boyfriend’s apartment recounted her ordeal to concerned neighbors who came out at the sound of the commotion that was happening outside.
Pregnant lady. According to her, her boyfriend had impregnated her twice before and they had had to abort the two, only for him to impregnate her the third time. She said that she and the guy were meant to meet at his place and when she came to his house, she found him in the company of another woman. The lady could be seen blowing hot as she kept hurling curses at the man and his mistress. Watch the video below: Lady laments that after doing two abortions for her boyfriend, he now gave her another Belle again and told her to abort it again, she went to his house to tell him to follow her to the hospital for abortion but caught him with another woman.. pic.twitter.com/SHESviHIZ8 — Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) January 4, 2024
Pregnant woman downcast as she catches her boyfriend cheating
A pregnant woman has warned her gender to avoid Urhobo men as she finds her boyfriend cheating despite making her abort twice. The distressed woman was captured outside his home late at night while asking him to open the door for her. She narrated how she has been dating him for a while and was currently pregnant for the third time because of him. He had asked her to terminate the pregnancy but she refused because she had done so twice and she was scared of becoming barren if she did so too much. The boyfriend got angry and left her so she decided to just remove the baby so they can all go their separate ways. On the day they were supposed to go to the clinic to terminate the pregnancy, the man refused to show up claiming he was unwell. She then tracked him to his house only to discover he was hosting another lady and cheating on her. WATCH VIDEO HERE
Lady promises boyfriend her salary if he stops cheating
A lady has left many shocked after sharing the drastic measure she took to stop her boyfriend from cheating on her. The lady made this public in a Tiktok trend where people share what they have gone through for love. She shared on her Tiktok account, @nantenya_fula, how she offered to give her boyfriend her salary if he stops cheating on her. Many internet users have been shocked upon hearing this information and requested to know if he changed after she gave him the money. She responded to one comment, saying that even after her sacrifice, he refused to change and stop cheating. See some reactions to the video… @tessy🌟 prayed: “may this type of love never locate me” @𝐉xsmine® ¦ ✰ ¦ 🪐 advised: “My sista you can’t love a person to that extent 😭”
@Nmfingwana wrote: “at least he was your boyfriend. I was doing this for a man who kept calling me friend 🥺🥺” @milgo added: “when come to money am ready to loose anyone 😂” @Miss K😊🇰🇪🇺🇲 said: “my sista you were paying for loyalty eeish please stand up.😂😂😂😂😂 . Don’t Ever go low again..” Watch video here: @nantenya_fula Don’t forget to take a spoon of cement guys #heartbreak #hurtmyfeelings #howmuchdidithurt ♬ Originalton – ✝️
Spending money secretly is equivalent to cheating
Couple. Photo Source: iStock. A Nigerian man by the name, Eke Ako has sparked a debate online as he argues that a woman who spends her money without her husband’s knowledge is being unfaithful. The man stated this in a post on his Facebook page as he rebuked women who spend their earnings without their husband’s approval.
Couple. Photo Source: iStock. According to the man, such act is synonymous to actually engaging in sxxual infidelity. Ako wrote; “FINANCIAL INFIDELITY VS S&XUAL INFIDELITY.” “Financial infidelity carries the same weight as sxxual infidelity. Your funds also belong to your husband. When you spend outside your family (your husband, children & you) without his knowledge and agreement, it is the same as sxual infidelity.” “My dear sisters who copy western marriages ignore this part. Igbo marriage remains the best. Working out differences in a marriage is not endurance.” “Marriage requires toughness, tolerance and endurance. You must decide to lose sometimes. You must also know your place.” “Also avoid the temptation of changing a natural order because you want to copy what you don’t really understand.” See his post below:
Trending video posted by teacher shows a student cheating
In a trending video which was posted online, a teacher catches her student stylishly cheating during a test. The teacher who posted the video on her Tiktok account, @june_shugar, is an NYSC corper serving at the school. In the video she posted, the entire class was writing a test and the boy was caught stylishly peeping his seatmate’s work. The teacher claimed she couldn’t punish him as she had also done worse while she was a student. The student stylishly peeping his seatmate’s answers. She admitted to eventually confronting the young student who denied it until she showed him the video evidence. See some Netizens reactions to the video… @starvinskyscana💫🐉 said: just do the boy mercy 😂 them no do for us but just mercy am 😂😂💔 @Tochi💙 wrote: E fit still be Obi cubana tomorrow @That pretty bitch🥰 said: This was me successfully last semester 😭😂Thank God for my neck tho @arinzeonuorh1 said: Look at the girl at the back running her own there 😂😂😂 @Susan Michael wrote: who never cheat, hands in the air😂 Watch video here: @june_shugar I no even know wetin i won do this boy because i do pass am when i dey school😂😂#tundeednut #teachers #instagram #instablog9ja #instablogger ♬ Uwa Mu O – Stanley Okorie
Lady sets boyfriend’s clothes on fire after alleged cheating despite taking blood oath (Video)
A Nigerian lady’s attempt to solidify love and trust through a blood covenant with her boyfriend ended in betrayal and violence, leaving a trail of scorched cloth and broken hearts. The young woman, whose identity remains undisclosed, made a disturbing revelation about the series of events that unfolded after she and her boyfriend engaged in the ancient ritual. According to the lady, she suggested the idea of a blood covenant to her boyfriend as a means of proving their love and trust for each other. After some initial hesitation, he eventually agreed to participate in the ritual, which involved cutting themselves and collecting their blood in a container. Disturbing footage of the ritual was shared on social media, capturing the moment when they sealed their bond by mixing their blood together. The act was meant to symbolize an unbreakable connection between the two individuals. However, the supposed unbreakable bond was shattered when the lady’s curiosity led her to check her boyfriend’s phone. To her dismay, she discovered incriminating messages that exposed his infidelity. The messages revealed that he was cheating on her with another girl, whom he not only engaged in a relationship with but also insulted, leaving the lady feeling hurt and betrayed. Fueled by anger and sadness, the lady took drastic action and set fire to her boyfriend’s clothes, leading to a heated confrontation between them. Regrettably, the situation escalated, and the boyfriend allegedly assaulted her, leaving her with a swollen face. The situation became so dire that the lady’s brother had to intervene and call the police for assistance. @therealmorade74 said; “Dat red hoodie and the bag my bf get d same 😂Dat how his fingers look🌚🌚 Eyin fansi mi” @heffff____ said; “Person wey love you go correct you 👏 nothing t0xic there 😍” @faith_anammah said; Why u go burn person cloth …na u buy am? @hz_ib_fundz said; “Na too much of Korean movie de cause all these nonsense😂😂” @azurioflagos_realty said; “Thank you for not disappointing us blood later flow 😂” @ennysjemima said; “ewo ekoshi lo Be like say this fuel matte eni consign una” @edunjobitmadeofficial said; “Ogun loma pa iwo ati boyfriend e, a pa boda e naa 😂😂😂😂😂” See below;
“Assisting your family secretly without your wife’s consent is cheating” – Lady argues, Nigerians react
Lady says husband assisting family without wife’s consent is cheating A lady has sparked an online debate as she claims that a man is cheating when he secretly assists his family without his wife’s consent. In a discussion about the various forms and acts of cheating and infidelity in marriages, the lady said that giving out assistance by the husband to his family is also cheating when he doesn’t seek the wife’s consent to do so. Her words read; “Assisting your family secretly without your wife consent is also cheating in marriage.”
Her statement has garnered different views from other social media users who argued in favour and against her opinion. Check out other netizens reactions … princewilson_ posited: “If aman has to “secretly” help his family/members or assist them when it’s within his power, then you should check yourself, you’re not a good wife” ajuba101 said: “If as a man, you can’t give to your family without the permission of you wife; you’re a disappointment to your family. You don’t need your woman’s consent to do anything for your family. If her family has problems, who does he tell?” timzytim5 opined: “If he has to “secretly” do it then you’re the problem.” onyinye_bakee said: “Na so ena take dey carry pikin wey person [email protected] born. | go carry my son for months u go tell am make e no help me. U lie.” ekanemaffi observed: “Some people make this marriage sound like bondage. God abeg.” xena_sage wrote “The fact he even has to “secretly” help his family says a lot about the wife.” ire_yi_mika said: “But assisting your own family isn’t cheatina right”
“Stop advising women to stick with cheating partners” — Juliet Ibrahim
Popular actress, Juliet Ibrahim says that advising women to stick in their relationships with their cheating partners is unhealthy. She said this during a chat with Saturday Beats as she addressed advising women to remain in unhappy relationships because of financial gains.
“Stop advising women to stick with cheating partners” — Juliet Ibrahim. Credit: Juliet Ibrahim/ Instagram. According to the movie Diva who recently opened up on her domestic abuse, relationships should be based on mutual love and respect and one shouldn’t remain with cheating partners simply because of some financial gains. Juliet Ibrahim said: “I firmly believe that advising someone, especially a woman, to stay in a relationship their partner’s infidelity solely for financial benefits is not a healthy or empowering approach. Each person deserves to be in a relationship based on mutual love, trust and respect. Infidelity should not be tolerated or justified based on financial considerations. “Instead, I encourage individuals to prioritise their emotional wellbeing, and make choices that align with their values and self-respect. Every individual deserves to be in a relationship that honours their worth and happiness.”
Nigerian lady left confused as boyfriend credits her with N500k after she caught him red-handed cheating on her
A Nigerian lady named Precious found herself caught in a whirlwind of emotions after her boyfriend credited her with half a million Naira (N500,000) for catching him cheating. Precious, who took to Twitter to share her story, revealed that she paid an unexpected visit to her boyfriend’s residence upon his return from a trip, armed with a spare key. To her utter dismay, she discovered him in a compromising situation with another woman, causing her to leave the house in tears. Overwhelmed by her emotions, Precious contemplated blocking her boyfriend’s phone number upon reaching her own home. However, her plans took an unexpected turn when she received a message from her remorseful partner. The message contained a surprising apology accompanied by a credit of N500,000 (five hundred thousand Naira) to compensate her for the pain and tears she had endured that night. In the message, her boyfriend expressed deep regret and vowed to make amends, promising to improve their relationship. Following this unexpected turn of events, Precious took to social media once again to share the news, expressing her confusion and disbelief at her boyfriend’s act of contrition. She wrote; “Him when I saw “baby I’m so sorry pls check your phone I just sent you 500k take it for all the tears you’ve lost tonight, I promise to do better ❤️” my broken heart moulded back immediately. I don’t know if I should forgive him or not, I’m confused 😪” See below; I left my baby’s house with tears yesterday, I was supposed to surprise him, he traveled since Tuesday and came back yesterday he called me to come over but I told him I can’t cos I’v work at hand that I needed to finish before the next morning. He wasn’t angry he just told me to — 🅱️abygirl4️⃣life🔱🔱 (@praiseoghre) July 12, 2023