A relationship counselor has advised women against going along with the popular statement of keeping your options open if you’re young and beautiful. The man shared this on his Tiktok page, @israelonadare, where he gives advice to his followers. He explained that a lot of women nowadays are advised to not be in a committed relationship but rather keep their options open to get the best catch. The relationship counselor believes that only foolish people think that way. Instead, he implored women to hold tightly, a man who truly loves and cares for them. Although he acknowledges that while inside a relationship a man would misbehave, the woman should bear with him as he is also a human being like her. He begs women to use their head as the new men who are asking them out are single for a reason and people would treat you nicely at first when they’re looking for something. See some reactions @brownx-xsugax wrote: “Funny how I was committed and he ended up telling me to move on.” @Ademiebml said: “I dey always tell my babe anytime I show her shege say street tight…na me be the best husband material she go ever see😂” @MC CEDAR wrote: “Many single people out there are just unlucky and misunderstood too.. sometimes I think relationship is not for my type” @A🍃 reacted: “I’m never letting my man go regardless!🥺❤️” @evansetom73 added: “Everybody pretends to be an angel when they need something new, I get it” @Davej said: “Abeg no tell them.. no spoil parol for us…dem go learn the hard way😂” Watch video here @israelonadare If you are still young and beautiful , do this in your relationship #fyp #love #relationship #motivation #israelonadare ♬ original sound – Israel Onadare
Relationship counselor tell men to avoid women who out-earn them
A popular relationship counselor has advised men to avoid dating women who earn more than them. The relationship counselor who runs an anonymous account on the X app has always preached about staying 5 steps ahead of your woman as a man. He holds the strong opinion that as a man you shouldn’t be dependent on your woman but rather be the leader. His tweet said; “If you drive a toyota corolla, don’t date a lady that is driving a benz.
If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m.
If you’re a BSc holder, don’t date a lady that has a PhD.
If you’ve never left Nigeria before, don’t date a lady that has traveled the world.
End.” He also made a follow-up tweet where he dragged Lekki and Abuja “big boys”, while claiming their modus operandi is to wait for their women to feed them. See post below…
“Once a man pays your bride price, he has paid for your life” — Marriage counselor
Marriage counselor stirs reactions following claims that a woman’s life is tied to the bride price paid by her husband.
A relationship expert identified as Jane Chukwu on Facebook made the claim in a post while advising women on how to keep a marriage. She argued that the payment of bride price by the man seals the complete ownership of his partners life, hence, the need for a woman to please her husband. “Forget civilization and feminist brouhaha, when a man pays your bride price, he has automatically paid for your life and the life you live isn’t yours anymore, the life you now have is to please him and make him happy all the days of his life,” she wrote.
See some reactions that followed … deyemitheactor: “Who is this one now? Even me wey be traditional man no fit gree for this rubbish! 🤦🏽♂️” offical_lulu: “Just marry a man that won’t think like this Aunty here. Thank you 😒” davidchisom60: “Meaning a woman automatically has sold herself to you because you are operating “slav3 trade” better know that marriage is built on a relationship. The better you understand that you work out the submission through love and commitment the better for you.” leochard1: “What if them return the bride price? Does that mean they returned your life? 👏👏”
Why you should avoid first daughters if you’re still a man starting life – Counselor advises men, netizens react
A relationship therapist has counseled men starting life to avoid dating first daughters.
The man, identified as John Doe, alludes that first daughters usually experience a lot of pressure from their families and thus, wouldn’t wait, or won’t be willing to wait for a man to make it.
He advises men to steer clear of first daughters, save for first daughters who come from a comfortable family.
He wrote:
“I married the last child of a large Tamlly. She’s barely 2 yrs younger.
I was able to date her for 9 yrs before i could do that.
She had no family pressure whatsoever. She waited.
Avoid 1st daughters if you’re still a man starting life.
Except her family is comfortable.
End.”
His submission has garnered a negative reception from netizens;
uchejennifer999 wrote: “Dating someone’s daughter for 9years..you should be arrested”
teeto__olayeni wrote: “Today it’s first daughter’s @ Tomorrow it’s single mothers Next tomorrow it’s under 25 girls It’s always one person. Una no dey tire??????”