A 33-year-old man opens up on the struggle of finding genuine love and how his quest for a pure partner left him a virgin for all his life. Expressing his concerns on the Reddit platform, he revealed that he made a conscious decision to remain a virgin, emphasizing his desire to be with a woman he genuinely loves rather than engaging in casual hookups. Despite receiving advances from friends, he stated that he wasn’t interested, only for time to pass by quickly and one day woke up a 33-year-old virgin. His post resonated with many men, some as old as 50, who shared similar stories before finally finding the right partner. In his words; “I’m a 33 year old male and have never had sex. I’ve had the opportunity come up a few times but it was either a FWB kind of deal or a open marriage relationship, each time I declined. I guess I want my first time to be with someone I love and for it to be special. I’ve tried dating but it never really worked out so I stopped then time just got away from me.”
Reactions trailing single 33 year old man SuddenAnxieties784 said: “Your story and your thought process is exactly the same as mine. I also want the first time to be meaningful, so I never really looked for any casual stuff and only tried to look for something meaningful, but to no avail. But I must say, with each passing day my urge for some physical intimacy is increasing, be it in any form (even casual), because the loneliness is killing me man.” Monroegoodwin477 said: “Trust me at this your age don’t tell a woman you are still chaste. Maybe when you find someone you love…women love men that have experience about something and more mature about having lust and sex.” Imaginary_101 said: “You shouldn’t care what people think. Also your value doesn’t come from sex, you simply have vaule dude. We live in a misandty society that hates men.” Keldrath said: “Unless you’re with a girl from church or something who’s super traditional and wants to wait for marriage too and is looking for that specifically, yeah unfortunately it is and it’s best to just never mention it.”
According to him, going into depression has served as a means for him to understand and help those who are depressed. “I was at the verge of, I was suicidal, mahn. Trust me, I was really fcked up coz of depression. But I think I have to be there to actually help the people who are there right now to get out of that place. “I mean it will take a real person like me to go there and then make music out of it and talk about it so openly how I’m a mess, how I think and how I’m fcked up and everything. “I’m not sure you will find Afrobeats artists who do that right now. Everybody is out there saying afro beats are not so deep, ‘afrobeats are just vibes and sh*t’. Nah. That’s why everybody is just doing hype. The real music is dying”, he said. Omah Lay added that he will continue to create real music based on his experiences. 
He disclosed how he sat in his office crying like a baby over the breakup. In an attempt to help, a colleague decided to accompany him to the lady’s house to beg on his behalf but she got angry and told him not to bring people to her house. In his word; “It’s the kneeling to beg a woman that is shocking you? I have attempted to drink methylated spirit cos my then-girlfriend was breaking up with me and was caught crying in the office while covering my face with a newspaper. I think I just finished 200level that year,” “A sister-friend volunteered to follow me to her house to beg, to think I did absolutely nothing wrong, she was just done with the relationship, she said I should not bring the crowd to her house.” 
He disclosed that when the lady arrived in Calabar, they arranged to meet up. He said that when they met, the lady professed love to him expressing what she felt for him. He added that the lady begged him to take her to his place which he did and forfeited work for that day. He added that one thing led to another and he started dating the girlfriend of his best friend without him knowing till date. ..we talked, laughed enjoyed the moment.. then I had to leave them to go prepare for work as I was on night duty that day.. Once she heard I’ll soon be going she told her guy she’ll be visiting one of her aunties in another area in Calabar.. then messaged me — Real AngelManuelinho (@Angelmanuelinho) April 24, 2023 feelings for ourselves I respected my friend so much, however I called my colleague at work to please give me extra 2 hours that’ll compensate her.. then in about 10-15mins my friend’s GF called to ask where exactly I am, she located me and I was like.. — Real AngelManuelinho (@Angelmanuelinho) April 24, 2023 ..I was like this Girl so what are doing now? You said you’re going to see your Aunt” she said she’s not seeing anyone I should please take her to my house, I insisted I’ll be late for work she kept on begging, I just ordered bolt & we reached my place.. — Real AngelManuelinho (@Angelmanuelinho) April 24, 2023 On Twitter y’all make a mountain out of a hill, what’s strange about trying to not hurt a girl’s feelings? Btw I presumed twill be just that day, but she kept coming & all..resist a slim sexy Igbo Girl?🥶Make this info no reach FB ejorh o thats wher they’re💔 — Real AngelManuelinho (@Angelmanuelinho) April 24, 2023 
