Lady bashes men who calculate expenses on a date

"If you don’t have money stay at home" - Lady bashes men who calculate expenses on a date

A poor Nigerian lady expresses how embarrassing it is to go on a date with men who calculate their expenses based on their pockets. A social media user identified as @Simplegbemi took to the microblogging platform, X to air her opinion about men who are not lavish spenders.

"If you don’t have money stay at home" - Lady bashes men who calculate expenses on a date

According to the lady, these kinds of men come off as embarrassing to her if they can’t spend without having to think and calculate based on their pockets. “I hate being on a table with a guy that calculates everything. If you don’t have money stay at home pls..it’s fvcking embarrassing 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️,” she wrote.

The post, however, generated a wave of reactions from other users who agreed with her while others simply bashed her for being entitled. See some reactions below … Irunnia_ said: “He will take you to a date
He will do all the talking
He will do all the paying
He still isn’t allowed to calculate what you guys ate.
Nigerian men are trying. It’s not easy.” abazwhyllzz added: “He shouldn’t calculate the bill? If his budget for the date is like 10k and you end up eating above his pocket, if he asked you to pay the balance, do you have money to complete it?” bigtimiszn noted: “What’s amusing is how you managed to make it to 2024 with this kind of brain. Like, how on earth did you enter 2024? I thought God censored people.😂😂😂.” TokyosBite opined: “On Saturday, my friends and I were out. Me and one had two bottles of a drink that cost 1200 each. We had two bottles each of the drinks we picked… tell me why 1200x 2 became 3000?
We almost paid 6000 for a 4800 drink.
Now you see why everyone should calculate everything, honey?”

“Masters in UK is the highest scam of all” — Nigerian student laments expenses (Video)

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Nigerian student taking her Masters program in the UK laments the cost of living as she concludes her experience as a scam.

"Masters in the UK is the highest scam of all" — Nigerian student breaks down expenses (Video)

A video making rounds on social media captured the lamentation of a Nigerian student in the UK and the struggles to make ends meet. The lady who works 20 hours weekly and earns £1020 monthly broke down her expenses which ends up not being enough to sustain basic needs. Here’s her breakdown; Rent – £775
Phone bill – £25
Water – £30
Electricity – £120
Broadband – £25
Netflix – £7
Apple Pay – £2.29
Food – £150
Bus Fare – £40 She, however, concluded that the idea of having a Masters degree in the UK is nothing but a scam. Her claim sparked mixed reactions from netizens; some who condemned her for exaggerating the cost of living while others advised her to cut down her expenses. “Stop discouraging people. Student houses here, bills inclusive, highest price I have seen in Sheffield is £600 despite the fact that it’s one of the most expensive place to live in the uk. Una go just come online dey lie give people. 😏,” a social media user wrote in reaction. Another user added, “Why will you be living in a house of £775 without bills included?… ( you won’t pay any bills)why will you be using £25 for phone bill when you can get a contract sim of £12 and your house go get broadband?… why can’t you use naija Netflix account 4500?…. Na you Dey live big man life ..” Watch the video below …

Man seeks advice as in-laws impose over N6M wedding expenses after paying N1.2M for fiancee’s parent’s marriage

Man seeks advice as in-laws slam over N6M wedding expenses on him after paying N1.2M for fiancee's parent's marriage

Man seeks advice as in-laws slam over N6M wedding expenses on him after paying N1.2M for fiancee's parent's marriage

Embattled young man cries out for advice as his family turns their back on him following an exhorbitant wedding fee slammed on him by his in-laws.
The man in question narrated how his in-laws insisted that he paid for a marriage for his fiancess’s parents to prove his seriousness for their daughter.

However, his parents kicked against the marriage after the in-laws budgeted an expensive wedding plans which was nonnegotiable.
Ewad the full post below …
“Please post anonymous. My wedding is in 3weeks. My fiancée and my mum got into an argument. The first day we visited my fiancée house. They told us her parents are not married.
That if I’m serious about marrying their daughter, I should first sponsor their marriage. Which I did. I spent about 1.2million to throw a small marriage ceremony for my fiancée’s parents.
My mum is still angry because of that but she saw how much I love her, she kept quiet. Now they have given us an exorbitant list. My fiancée and her parent’s wears is 3.8million. What they budgeted for food. Both the cooking and food stuffs is 2.4million and others.
My mum got angry but because she doesn’t want to embarrass anybody, my mum called my fiancée outside. My mum told her that the feeding is too costly. That she (my mum) will handle that. Just to cut Our target is 200 guests.
My fiancée told my mum to mind her business. That this is her wedding and she (fiancée) don’t need any body to interfere. My mum asked her how much is she contributing to assist. My fiancée just hissed and walked away. Mummy entered the sitting room where we were all seated, took her bag and left in anger.
My elder sister pursued her and ended up not coming back. My mum told my elder sister what happened. My elder sister called me and told me and requested that my fiancée should call my mum and apologize. I told my fiancée and she flared up and said over her dead body.
Now the whole family is in support of my mum, including my dad. They said if I get married to her, they will disown me. Wife has refused to apologize. She is even saying I’m a mummy’s boy if I choose to support my family.
My trad and wedding is in 3weeks and 4week respectively. Every plan is on hold and fiancée said she doesn’t care. What can I do in all this?”