A relationship counselor has advised women against going along with the popular statement of keeping your options open if you’re young and beautiful. The man shared this on his Tiktok page, @israelonadare, where he gives advice to his followers. He explained that a lot of women nowadays are advised to not be in a committed relationship but rather keep their options open to get the best catch. The relationship counselor believes that only foolish people think that way. Instead, he implored women to hold tightly, a man who truly loves and cares for them. Although he acknowledges that while inside a relationship a man would misbehave, the woman should bear with him as he is also a human being like her. He begs women to use their head as the new men who are asking them out are single for a reason and people would treat you nicely at first when they’re looking for something. See some reactions @brownx-xsugax wrote: “Funny how I was committed and he ended up telling me to move on.” @Ademiebml said: “I dey always tell my babe anytime I show her shege say street tight…na me be the best husband material she go ever see😂” @MC CEDAR wrote: “Many single people out there are just unlucky and misunderstood too.. sometimes I think relationship is not for my type” @A🍃 reacted: “I’m never letting my man go regardless!🥺❤️” @evansetom73 added: “Everybody pretends to be an angel when they need something new, I get it” @Davej said: “Abeg no tell them.. no spoil parol for us…dem go learn the hard way😂” Watch video here @israelonadare If you are still young and beautiful , do this in your relationship #fyp #love #relationship #motivation #israelonadare ♬ original sound – Israel Onadare
Paris Saint-Germain secured a 2-0 victory over Le Havre in a Ligue 1 clash on Sunday, despite early red card awarded Gianluigi Donnarumma. The match which held at the Stade Oceane stadium in Le Havre, saw Donnarumma pick a red card for a bizarre high foot challenge 10 minutes into the game. The 24-year-old goalie misjudged the movement of the ball before landing his foot high on Le Havre’s Josue Casimir. The deadlock was broken in the 23rd minute when Kylian Mbappe struck a maestro to give Parisiens the lead.
Mbappe opened scoring for PSG – PSG on X Vitinha capped it all in the dying minute to full-time, to seal all three points for Luis Enrique’s side. PSG’s win keep them at the top of the Ligue 1 table, with 33 points, while Le Havre remain in the ninth position.
Big Brother Naija reality star and disc jockey, Tolanibaj laments how all the seven men she had dated in the past ended up dumping her after a while. Speaking in the latest episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast co-hosted by her and actress Moet Abebe, revealed how she has dated seven and thought every one of them was her future husband but they always left her.
Tolanibaj concluded that what is now left in the dating pool is “remnants,” stressing that all the good men are taken. “I feel like in the dating pool, we are left with remnants. The good ones are married. We hopped on the train too late. I have dated like seven guys and I thought they were the ones,” she said. A guest on the podcast, actor Daniel Etim-Effiong, added his voice by suggesting that it was not a mistake that all seven men dumped her if she was perfect. “Tbaj, the problem can not be all these seven guys. Maybe, the problem is you. And I bet they were more than seven,” she said. It is worth noting that Tolanibja once publicly declared that all she brings to a relationship is her sweet psssy. Watch the video below … “The probl£m might be you,” Actor Etim Effiong tells DJ TolaniBaj after she disclosed that she has been with seven guys who she thought were ‘the one’ 📹: @bahdandboujeepod pic.twitter.com/LEkXgFTPjJ — Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) December 2, 2023
Nollywood actor, Deyemi Okanlawon has sparked online reactions after stating that the world is designed to kill men. The actor made this statement on the microblogging platform X, formerly known as Twitter.
Deyemi Okanlawon He noted that the world is designed to kill men and it is worth thinking through. He wrote: “The world is designed to kill men… take a minute to think this through.” Deyemi’s statement sparked mixed reactions amongst netizens as everyone seemed to be defending their gender. Reactions trailing Deyemi Okanlawon statement chiagozie_taiwo said: “Young man, I’ve got some harsh dose of reality, no one’s coming to save you. The world isn’t sympathetic to men. Play the cards you were dealt with to the best of your abilities. Opportunities won’t fall on your lap, you’ll have to create them. Sooner you realize this, the better” __ssssunflowerrrr wrote: “So women nkor? Going through those hormonal processes still birthing kids and dealing with the aftermath and still having to be the breadwinner and everything.” nmajiaku penned: “The world is designed to kill women. So many men die due to their own mistakes or stubbornness or a bad lifestyle.” official_glorioux reacted: “Kee men how ? Apart from financial crisis what else do men go through? Y’all just come online and vent all you want” mc.oloro_ said: “Na we know wetin we dey chest on the daily💆🏽♂️” SEE POST: This world is designed to kill men… take a minute to think this through 🚶🏽♂️ — DeyemiTheActor (@_deyemi) November 30, 2023
A married woman has advised her fellow gender, telling them that a responsible woman with good home training will not bill a man she is not married to. She shared this video on her Tiktok page, @ms_raphys, where she drops relationship advice for both genders. At the start of the video, she admits that this conversation is not what a lot of women like to hear. She condemns other women who bill men, claiming it is a sign of irresponsibility and shows lack of good home training. According to her, if your parents and family are looking out for you as a woman, you wouldn’t have to beg a man you’re not married to for money. She insists that a relationship is not a money making venture and it is not your right as a woman to get paid for being in a relationship. The married woman further castigates women who request for monthly allowance from their boyfriends. See some reactions @Moh said: “Soon as you ask me for money, I just know I’m wasting my time.” @✨STAR✨ wrote: “Dey play😂😂 it’s okay for him to tell me to come over to his house but it’s not okay for me to bill him?? Am I his mother?????? 😏😏” @Mama K added: “I agree , don’t bill him. I like it when a Man gives out of the goodness of his heart. He shouldn’t have to be told, before gifting his girl money.” @The Enchiridion! said: “Relationship don turn job opportunity” @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ reacted: “Aunty Billi go think say na Understanding girlfriend talk b this” Watch video here @ms_raphys This is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp ♬ original sound – Rafiah
A young Nigerian lady breaks down in tears as she laments the poor state of the dating pool and how men only want to lay with women without commitments. A video making the rounds on social media captured the lamentation of a lady who has had a terrible experience with men.
According to the lady, most men who come her way demand sex almost immediately after the first date even after obvious lies about being intentional about their feelings. She added that commitment in relationships and intention for marriage seem to have been a thing of the past in this generation. “Am I going crazy? What is happening to this world? Every man you meet wants to have sex with you. Is this only happening to me? At this point, I am so mentally drained and weak. Before, men come with relationship, but right now, they are not coming for relationship. You meet someone today and the next thing, they are asking for a date and later to their hotel room for sex. If you go to these men’s house and go to their house, they won’t even sleep and if you refuse, they will send you out in the middle of the night,” she said in part. Watch the video below …
A man has taken to social media to tell women not to pamper or pity men but rather give them problems at all times. He made this known via his TikTok handle, @body_shock, where he made it clear that caring for a man is detrimental to the woman. This young man believes that pampering a man is like feeding a lion and the decision will come back to haunt one. In his words; “I pity for women wey dey pamper men, like I pity for you guys. You just pamper men, like when he’s angry, you’re angry. You don’t just like when he’s in a bad mood, you always want to be with him when he’s at his lowest.” “Caring for men is like feeding a lion, when he grow, he go chop you. You don’t pity men, no, you show them shege. They are to be shown maximum and premium shege.” “Men are to be shot on sight. You just dey dig your own grave if you dey care for men
You’re feeding him, you don’t know you’re feeding your downfall. When he grows, he’s going to chop you. My dear show men shege o.” Some reactions to his video: @M&E disagreed: “me i must pamper my husband no matter what you say because i want him to live longer by the grace of God.” @_pohki wrote: “This was the message I needed,this man go see a diff shade of pepper today!” @olabrity💞 said: “He sounds mean but it’s true, they’re always miserable when they’re at their lowest and they’d make it your fault for trying to be there for them.” Watch video here… @body_shock ♬ original sound – BINI BOY👺👺
A popular relationship counselor has advised men to avoid dating women who earn more than them. The relationship counselor who runs an anonymous account on the X app has always preached about staying 5 steps ahead of your woman as a man. He holds the strong opinion that as a man you shouldn’t be dependent on your woman but rather be the leader. His tweet said; “If you drive a toyota corolla, don’t date a lady that is driving a benz.
If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m.
If you’re a BSc holder, don’t date a lady that has a PhD.
If you’ve never left Nigeria before, don’t date a lady that has traveled the world.
End.” He also made a follow-up tweet where he dragged Lekki and Abuja “big boys”, while claiming their modus operandi is to wait for their women to feed them. See post below…
In an entertaining event organized by the Holy Land Prayer Ministry Onitsha, a Nigerian pastor challenged fathers to showcase their parenting skills in a lively baby bathing competition, leaving onlookers amused and impressed.
The church organized a special program where four men were called upon to showcase their babysitting skills by bathing and dressing their infants.
A video capturing the event was shared on Facebook, quickly gaining attention and sparking reactions from netizens.
The participants, given bowls of water and baby supplies, were tasked with the challenge of proving that they could competently care for their babies, replicating the tasks typically associated with mothers.
The competition turned into a spirited display of parenting prowess, with each man striving to complete the tasks accurately and efficiently.
One participant notably stood out for his speed and dexterity. The other three fathers followed suit, each showcasing their unique styles and degrees of success in the challenge.
Ofodile Gloria said; “The second man is my winner because he was careful with the child.”
Celina Cyril Olanrewaju said; “The man in green did best because of the way he is handling the baby with so much love and care.”
Chukwu Sandra said; “The man on yellow stripped material is used to the chore, and the baby is so comfortable with the dad bathing her.”
Kabirat Abubakry Sulaimon said; “I love the way the man in green carefully handles the baby.”
Onyinye Lovable said; “The man on green scored 100/100. In fact, he learned work from his mother. Kudos to him.”
Christ Iyke said; “I rate this couples program the best ever. Very interesting.”
Blessing Smart said; “This is lovely.”
Reality star and TV host, Uti Nwachukwu has warned women to stop bullying gay men who have admitted the truth about their sexuality. The actor revealed this under a comment section where an internet user had urged more men to come out of the closet and stop fooling innocent women in marriage. TV Host and Actor, Uti Nwachukwu.
Photo source: siruti / Instagram. Uti Nwachukwu did not agree with this opinion, claiming that the more women bully men who have come out, the more they will marry women to cover up. In his words; “and more women need to stop bullying the ones who have come out the closet!
The more shame u give to men the more they will marry women to cover up. Choice is yours” However many Netizens do not agree with his views, claiming that a gay man should not have to get married to an innocent woman to cover up his sexuality. See post below… Here are some reactions to Uti’s comment below: desmony1 wrote: “There’s a level to this gaslighting…. how’s this about women? Do men support them too?” dygeasy opined: “If anything women enable them more o. Check well. The biggest supporters of Bob and the other shims are women. Mr. Uti what are you trying to say gangan?” thefoodnetworknig2 reacted: “That response no jus tally… You wanna come out, come out with your full chest na😆” onyiaprudence said: “Blaming women for people’s cOwardly decisions. They have chosen to hide it because they are not proud of it. Stop getting it twisted.” jully__mk wrote: “The fact that she didn’t mention your name. Honorable Uti, is this a sign??”