A newly married husband is confused as his wife asks him to quit his banking job that pays 1 Million Naira because his ex-girlfriend also works there. The story was shared to the microblogging platform, X, by a close friend to the husband, @danielholkss. According to him, the couple tied the knot 8 months ago and prior to their marriage, the husband worked together with the ex-girlfriend. This has now become a problem to the wife who thinks there is a possibility of the husband and ex-girlfriend rekindling old flames. 
Although the banking job pays him very well, 1 Million Naira every month alongside other benefits, the woman still insists he should quit and join her in managing her shop. Her family has agreed to her proposition while his family asks that they are left out of the matter. He wrote; “My friend is having a big problem in his marriage. He is newly wedded of just 8 months. He works in the same bank with his ex-girlfriend. He is comfortable and well to do. He works in a bank in Nigeria and earns more than 1M monthly plus other benefits. He has opened shops for the wife in different locations, and these are doing well, too. But here is where the problem lies, his wife wants him to resign from his job, and the reason is that she is not comfortable with the husband working in the same bank with his ex. She is scared they might be getting back together, the wife’s family are involved, and they also support this. The husband’s family told him to find a way to sort it. They don’t want to be involved. Should he resign?” SEE POST HERE 
Man earning N100K salary ask lady earning N34 million to quit job and marry him. Photo credit: RejiYates. Source: Twitter The lady disclosed to him that aside from her salary, she loves her job because it makes her happy. However, the young man insisted she resigns from her job because her reason is not realistic. She tweeted, “This guy in Nigeria that knows my family asked if it would be okay for him to speak to my parents about marriage and I said no. I don’t have an interest in marrying him. “He asked why and I have my reasons. He focused on the financial reason. I simply said we aren’t in the same financial place and I don’t think it’s fair on both of us. “One, I don’t want to limit my lifestyle and he shouldn’t have to be pressured to earn more. It’s just unfair for both of us imo. He asked if I would give up my work for love and I said absolutely not. I explained I love my job, it’s something that brings me happiness and makes me who I am. It’s also part of my personal brand so it simply cannot go. “He said my reasoning is not realistic. He gave me a range of his annual salary in naira which was around 100,000 – 200,000 which is fine and I said that isn’t bad. That’s what he earns and good on him. “I gave mine in naira which is 28 million – 34 million and he said I can’t earn more than my husband. “I called him insecure and he said a man is supposed to be the provider and there is nothing insecure about that. So I told him to go and provide for someone within his bracket. He can’t provide for me so he said he will report me to my family. “I don’t care if he reports me ’cause my family would legit laugh. The mentality alone is even madness. Why can’t I earn more and why would I give up that salary and work? He said women of nowadays want to be like men. Is this what Nigerian women deal with?” Am I in the wrong here. Small story. This guy in Nigeria that knows my family asked if it would be okay for him to speak to my parents about marriage and I said no. I don’t have an interest in marrying him. He asked why and I have my reasons. He focused on the financial reason — Ok Go And Bring My Purse (@RejiYates) June 6, 2023 
