A relationship counselor has advised women against going along with the popular statement of keeping your options open if you’re young and beautiful. The man shared this on his Tiktok page, @israelonadare, where he gives advice to his followers. He explained that a lot of women nowadays are advised to not be in a committed relationship but rather keep their options open to get the best catch. The relationship counselor believes that only foolish people think that way. Instead, he implored women to hold tightly, a man who truly loves and cares for them. Although he acknowledges that while inside a relationship a man would misbehave, the woman should bear with him as he is also a human being like her. He begs women to use their head as the new men who are asking them out are single for a reason and people would treat you nicely at first when they’re looking for something. See some reactions @brownx-xsugax wrote: “Funny how I was committed and he ended up telling me to move on.” @Ademiebml said: “I dey always tell my babe anytime I show her shege say street tight…na me be the best husband material she go ever see😂” @MC CEDAR wrote: “Many single people out there are just unlucky and misunderstood too.. sometimes I think relationship is not for my type” @A🍃 reacted: “I’m never letting my man go regardless!🥺❤️” @evansetom73 added: “Everybody pretends to be an angel when they need something new, I get it” @Davej said: “Abeg no tell them.. no spoil parol for us…dem go learn the hard way😂” Watch video here @israelonadare If you are still young and beautiful , do this in your relationship #fyp #love #relationship #motivation #israelonadare ♬ original sound – Israel Onadare
A married woman has advised her fellow gender, telling them that a responsible woman with good home training will not bill a man she is not married to. She shared this video on her Tiktok page, @ms_raphys, where she drops relationship advice for both genders. At the start of the video, she admits that this conversation is not what a lot of women like to hear. She condemns other women who bill men, claiming it is a sign of irresponsibility and shows lack of good home training. According to her, if your parents and family are looking out for you as a woman, you wouldn’t have to beg a man you’re not married to for money. She insists that a relationship is not a money making venture and it is not your right as a woman to get paid for being in a relationship. The married woman further castigates women who request for monthly allowance from their boyfriends. See some reactions @Moh said: “Soon as you ask me for money, I just know I’m wasting my time.” @✨STAR✨ wrote: “Dey play😂😂 it’s okay for him to tell me to come over to his house but it’s not okay for me to bill him?? Am I his mother?????? 😏😏” @Mama K added: “I agree , don’t bill him. I like it when a Man gives out of the goodness of his heart. He shouldn’t have to be told, before gifting his girl money.” @The Enchiridion! said: “Relationship don turn job opportunity” @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ reacted: “Aunty Billi go think say na Understanding girlfriend talk b this” Watch video here @ms_raphys This is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp ♬ original sound – Rafiah
A man has taken to social media to tell women not to pamper or pity men but rather give them problems at all times. He made this known via his TikTok handle, @body_shock, where he made it clear that caring for a man is detrimental to the woman. This young man believes that pampering a man is like feeding a lion and the decision will come back to haunt one. In his words; “I pity for women wey dey pamper men, like I pity for you guys. You just pamper men, like when he’s angry, you’re angry. You don’t just like when he’s in a bad mood, you always want to be with him when he’s at his lowest.” “Caring for men is like feeding a lion, when he grow, he go chop you. You don’t pity men, no, you show them shege. They are to be shown maximum and premium shege.” “Men are to be shot on sight. You just dey dig your own grave if you dey care for men
You’re feeding him, you don’t know you’re feeding your downfall. When he grows, he’s going to chop you. My dear show men shege o.” Some reactions to his video: @M&E disagreed: “me i must pamper my husband no matter what you say because i want him to live longer by the grace of God.” @_pohki wrote: “This was the message I needed,this man go see a diff shade of pepper today!” @olabrity💞 said: “He sounds mean but it’s true, they’re always miserable when they’re at their lowest and they’d make it your fault for trying to be there for them.” Watch video here… @body_shock ♬ original sound – BINI BOY👺👺
A relationship guru has advised women, letting them know men are not dumb but rather know the women who will accept their bad behavior and go on to treat them horribly. He shared the video to his Tiktok page, @kingsleyeyitaproduction, where he usually makes videos advising people on dating and lifestyle. According to him, a man who doesn’t put effort to be with a woman remains that way because she tolerates it , saying men are not as dumb as they make it out to seem. Relationship guru, Kingsley Eyita. He explained in an hypothetical example that the same guy who doesn’t put effort for one woman will do the most for another woman because she doesn’t tolerate nonchalance and he would conform to her standards. The relationship guru blamed women who did not set standards and hold on to it, citing that as the reason why men act very lackadaisical with them. See some reactions below… @Geraldine Timkay🥰 said: “my friend will watch this and still make excuses for him. How can I help her ?” @Ekkua added: “I got this wisdom , and I started attracting responsible men…. Men are not complicated, don’t be over excited because a man showed interest you!!!” @S4SS-QU33N wrote: “Then they label you as dramatic or argumentative because you know how to stand your ground” @Kalizya Clara Tija M said: “I learnt this lesson abit late but better late than never,I never understood why I was treated like a door mat, I was the “understanding girlfriend” Watch video here @kingsleyeyitaproduction The goal of this video is to tell women that men are not as dumb as you might think, We know which women we can get away with bad treatment with and which women. We dare not treat badly. These women in general are women with very high standards and they enforce those standards when they need to. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology ♬ original sound – Kingsley Eyita | Life Topics.
A popular relationship counselor has advised men to avoid dating women who earn more than them. The relationship counselor who runs an anonymous account on the X app has always preached about staying 5 steps ahead of your woman as a man. He holds the strong opinion that as a man you shouldn’t be dependent on your woman but rather be the leader. His tweet said; “If you drive a toyota corolla, don’t date a lady that is driving a benz.
If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m.
If you’re a BSc holder, don’t date a lady that has a PhD.
If you’ve never left Nigeria before, don’t date a lady that has traveled the world.
End.” He also made a follow-up tweet where he dragged Lekki and Abuja “big boys”, while claiming their modus operandi is to wait for their women to feed them. See post below…
A lady has called on other women to seek God’s forgiveness after Eve sinned so that the terms of their menstruation can be reviewed. The famous artist who was inspired by menstrual cramps shared the wonderful idea on her page, @iamrenike, on the microblogging platform, X. She shared her thoughts where she feels women should come together to grow the best apple in the world and give it to God. Her menstruation terms includes God giving women menstruation for only three days and for 45 minutes in those days, women should be put to sleep while God works. She added that women can also ask God for a spiritual operation, either a BBL, breast reduction surgery or whatever the woman needs. Many women have agreed with her hilarious post in the comment section as some of them claim the menstrual cycle is quite strenuous. See post here: Some reactions below: @Favvy_bae asked: “Who will be the spokesperson? Cause I can carry placards ” @scholasticaife wrote: “Sign me up. I have had it for more than half of my life but I still can’t get use to it *Cries in menstrual cramps* 😢😢😭😭” @Lizzycute_ said: “I’m in support of this, we can add goat as burnt offering😩” @Modupeoluwa_O added: “I’m game! Like Daddy, we understand the necessity but can you make it quicker and easier? Why do we have to bleed all through the year and still have to go through the other things that come with it. We barely have a whole week to live normally every month 🤲🏾😩”
Reality star and TV host, Uti Nwachukwu has warned women to stop bullying gay men who have admitted the truth about their sexuality. The actor revealed this under a comment section where an internet user had urged more men to come out of the closet and stop fooling innocent women in marriage. TV Host and Actor, Uti Nwachukwu.
Photo source: siruti / Instagram. Uti Nwachukwu did not agree with this opinion, claiming that the more women bully men who have come out, the more they will marry women to cover up. In his words; “and more women need to stop bullying the ones who have come out the closet!
The more shame u give to men the more they will marry women to cover up. Choice is yours” However many Netizens do not agree with his views, claiming that a gay man should not have to get married to an innocent woman to cover up his sexuality. See post below… Here are some reactions to Uti’s comment below: desmony1 wrote: “There’s a level to this gaslighting…. how’s this about women? Do men support them too?” dygeasy opined: “If anything women enable them more o. Check well. The biggest supporters of Bob and the other shims are women. Mr. Uti what are you trying to say gangan?” thefoodnetworknig2 reacted: “That response no jus tally… You wanna come out, come out with your full chest na😆” onyiaprudence said: “Blaming women for people’s cOwardly decisions. They have chosen to hide it because they are not proud of it. Stop getting it twisted.” jully__mk wrote: “The fact that she didn’t mention your name. Honorable Uti, is this a sign??”
Actress, Angela Okorie. Popular actress, Angela Okorie has asserted that most of the women living in Lekki cheat in their marriages. She made the statement in a recent interview where she talked about the importance of women marrying whom the love and the recent surge of divorce and cheating among couples. Actress, Angela Okorie. In her assertion, Angela Okorie said that the reason women cheat on their husband is because they aren’t in love with them. She stated that a lot of married women in Lekki Lagos are cheating on their husbands with other men. They engage in their secret trysts while maintaining the façade of the classy wife. @IamBlaccode said: “It’s not just Lekki. Women cheat in their marriages everywhere. It’s called being human.” @AdemolaAwosanya remarked: “By their fruits, you will surely know them.” @Deraahhhhh wrote: “Everybody be saying Lekki, something is really happening there Fr” @Imade002 lamented: “Wahala no de finish for this country” Watch her speak below … “In this Lekki, you have too many women who cheat in their marriages” – Angela Okorie pic.twitter.com/7tMtBNuHhP — 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) November 19, 2023
Famous Nollywood actor, Nkechi Blessing joins the BBNaija star, Phyna Unusual to call out Blessing Okoro over ‘ashawo‘ claims against Edo women. This comes amidst the public drama between Blessing CEO and Phyna after the former alleged that Edo women are poorly raised and often forced into prostitution by their parents. Self acclaimed therapist, Blessing Okoro, a.k.a Blessing CEO. Credit: officialblessingceo / Instagram. Nkechi, however, joins the party to call the relationship adviser to order while insisting that such a generalization is ridiculously stated. She further urged her to state the amount invested in Phyna’s stay on the BBNaija show after she bragged about being part of her success. In Nkechi Blessing’s words, “Mummy Blessing CEO, you know say when you don old, you gats leave some things for children; respect your old age.”
Veteran actress, Nkechi Blessing Sunday with BBNaija star, Phyna Unusual. Credit: Phynaunusual / Instagram. Phyna, however, continued to berate the relationship adviser, “You say you vote for me, how much you spend? Bring your account number, let me send am back to you. Because you vote for me means say make I dey look as you dey curse a whole Edo state? You forget to add one thing to your capping say we Edo people no dey normal.” Watch the video below …
Reality TV Star, Angel, has advised her fellow women against doing plastic surgery without making any proper research. This is following the medical complications that has risen following the botched surgery of Jay Boogie, popular Nigerian transgender. The Ex-BBN housemate took to her Twitter to share her piece of counsel to other women who intend to carry out plastic surgery. Reality TV Star, Angel. Angel encouraged women to love their bodies but even if they insisted on surgery, they make proper research before the procedure. She said; “Please do your research before getting plastic surgery. You could really jus die for nothing. I also encourage women to please love their bodies, y’all r really beautiful and don’t let anyone even yourselves convince you otherwise but if you must, please do proper research, most of these doctors are quack” See post below: Some reactions to Angel’s post: @Purple_adire2 said: “Self love is the most important thing. When you reach that level of loving your body, I promise you, you become unstoppable.” @yasbb wrote: “it’s honestly so sad to see girls putting their lives at risk because of societal pressures” @OligboJ added: “Yeah, very true.
The person might not die, but end up looking obviously botched and ugly, which can lead to life challenge.” @OfomaUche82 said: “It’s very important to do research but most times they are more focused on the out beauty it will give them, ignoring the health challenge”