“Leave your married ex girlfriends alone” – Activist advises men

"Leave your married ex girlfriends alone" – Activist advises men

Popular activist, Israel Joe advises men to leave their married ex girlfriends alone so they can focus on their marriage. The social commentator in a post on his Facebook page addressed the often common tendency of some guys to revisit past loves at inappropriate times.

Activist Israel Joe He said that some guys would approach their married ex girlfriends and try to bring back memories of their good times together. According to Israel Joe, if the boyfriend had loved the lady as much, he would have been the one married to her. He advised men to leave their exes alone so they can focus on building their homes with their husbands. Israel Joe wrote: “A lot of you guys out there should leave your ex-girlfriends who are married alone. Stop telling them about the memories of your relationship. She needs to focus on her marriage and love her new boyfriend who is now her husbands. If you loved her that much, you would have married her. What you didn’t value then is now another man’s treasure. Na another tin you dey find becos u know her weak point. Ladies sef should cut such people off if dem want make their marriage contain dem.”

Activist Deji warns Tinubu against making military appointments political patronage

"Military appointments should not be made as political patronage" ― Deji tells Tinubu

Nigeria’s socio-political activist, Deji Adeyanju, has warned President Bola Tinubu not to make military appointments as political patronage. According to Deji, while applauding the president for the appointments of security chiefs and especially that of Nuhu Ribadu as his National Security Adviser, NSA, he said Tinubu would get those loyal to Nigeria by sacking the new Service Chiefs if they fail to perform their duties.

"Military appointments should not be made as political patronage" ― Deji tells Tinubu

Political Activist Deji Adeyanju   Deji who bagged a law degree and made first class honours last year wrote: “I received with elation, the cheering news that President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has retired all service chiefs and appointed new ones, including the fitting appointment of Malam Nuhu Ribadu as the National Security Adviser. “The decision to appoint Nuhu Ribadu as NSA is indeed a courageous one which I personally commend. “As Nigeria gradually exits a period where political appointments, once made, were retained for the duration of their term, irrespective of the appointee’s incompetence, it is important to remind President Tinubu that military appointments are not to be made as political patronage. “If the new service chiefs fail in their duty, they should equally be sacked without much ado. Only through this means can we have service chiefs whose loyalty is to the Nigerian state.” Deji further charged all the new military appointees to eschew inter-agency conflict and corruption and help Tinubu achieve his political manifestos. He said: “I also use this medium to congratulate Mallam Nuhu Ribadu on his appointment as the National Security Adviser. Mallam Ribadu has had a stellar career, and expect that he will bring his wealth of experience to bear on the nation’s security affairs. “I call on the new service chiefs and acting Inspector General of Police to eschew inter-agency conflict and corruption. “President Bola Tinubu and all newly appointed officials must make efforts to halt the decline in every strata of our national life.”

“N400K salary is not enough to survive if you’re married” — Political activist

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A political activist identified as FS Yusuf stirs mixed reactions following his claim on how N400K salary is insufficient to sustain a married person montly. Yusuf in a tweet argued that the current economy of Nigeria cannot sustain a family to survive on a salary of N400K. He pressed on to add an if statement on how it is possible only with the help of a rich family, friends and acquaintances.

“Except everyone in your family is doing well and your friends/acquaintance are doing well, else 400K/ month is no enough especially if you are married with kids in this country. Except you have no plans to save or invest. School fees for early child education can wipe full off month salary,” he wrote. Except everyone in your family is doing well and your friends/acquaintance are doing well, else 400K/ month is no enough especially if you are married with kids in this country. Except you have no plans to save or invest. School fees for early child education can wipe full off… — FS Yusuf (@FS_Yusuf_) May 6, 2023 His claim, however, stirred mixed reactions, some of which agreed with his perspective and others disagreed. Reactions trailing N400K salary for a family person @Essay007 noted: “Unless you live in Abuja, Lagos, PH etc and live a flashy lifestyle. Many families survive on 100k – 150k with kids in private school” @OscarUnusual wrote: “I know of a family man on 15k salary a month and here is my oga Yusuf saying 400k is not enough…. Abeg make wuna comot for wuna comfort zone,no be small thing dey happened” @PastorHenryC stated: “What of us that earn 10% of that amount a month and we’re married, what are we going to do?” @fabolousmezu penned: “I totally agree with you..and people dont understand the tweet, anybody can survive on any amount if u try, but if you honestly want to live a fulfilling, comfortable life, 400k a month cannot give u that especially a person with dependants.” @royaltylight wrote: “Yusuf, how many pple are earning 400k a month in Nigeria that you know of in your circle? In Nigeria how many people you know earn 400k monthly legally through the job they do? So all those in sch, their parents earns 400k? 95 percent of s dnt earn 400k legally thru work oga.”