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“We have beautiful daughters, please come and marry them” – African mom publicly begs men (Video)

African mom laments over the scarcity of husbands for her daughters as she publicly begs men to come and marry them. The unidentified mother took to social media to make a public service announcement over the absence of men willing to marry ladies these days.

“We have beautiful daughters, please come and marry them” – African mom publicly begs men. Credit: Instablog/Instagram. According to her, a lot of African mothers are tired of their daughters remaining unmarried as some of them are already in their early 30s. She said some young ladies go to resorts and pools taking stunning photos and claim that they have boyfriends, when indeed they’re completely single. The woman called on parents to tell their young and eligible sons to come and marry their daughters. Watch the video below:

Young men dig hole on bare ground to eat fufu and soup (Video)

A video of some young men eating fufu and soup from a cemented hole dug on the ground has sparked an uproar online. The video shared on the popular app, TikTok, captured the men eating with full concentration while gisting at the farm. “As usual, we are in the farm. You can see the fufu, see meat. We are here”, one of the farmers noted in the video. The clip has however gotten tongues wagging on social media as netizens condemned the farmers for being so unhygienic to eat on the ground. Some others claimed it could be some kind of ritual. However, a few netizens came to the defence of the young men as they insisted that eating from a hole in the ground is a common practice in some parts of Africa. @CMonroe said: “Love fufu but no way.” @Divine Touch reacted: “Which kind of soup be this oo hmm.” @omonsfloxy said: “Is dis ritual or what.” @OB commented: “Where was the food before it was transferred into the rocks.” @Femme_mysterieuse said: “Africa is Africa we are Africans.” @Robinson Prince said: “What happened to the plate or pot.” @Spiritual Knowledge reacted: “Brothers why not getting plantain or hygienic plant and eat on it dis is not safè.” @Ben reacted: “What really happened here? I don’t get it.” @Rafii said: “This is Africa my friend.” @Bang Gas said: “This is how we eat in our area of east indonesia papua.” @gothoeslikebrock commented: “Cooked in a pot. Eaten in dirt.” @Mystiquaa reacted: “It’s our culture people. Stop acting dis way.” Watch the video below: @tunaasonfa ♬ original sound – Oscar

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“Men are created by God to cheat” — Samklef (Video)

“Men are created by God to cheat” — Samklef (Video) Amidst cheating allegations trailing the notable singer, Banky W, his colleague in the entertainment industry, Samklef opines that it is a natural thing for men to cheat. In a recent conversation with renowned media personality Daddy Freeze, Samklef expressed his belief that it is natural for men to be unfaithful.

Famous singer, Samklef. Credit: Samklef / Instagram. He started by stating that Nigerians tend to be overly sensitive when discussing the subject of infidelity, and he emphasized that it is natural for men, including religious leaders, to engage in cheating. The artist known for the song ‘Molowo Noni’ cited prominent figures from the Bible such as Abraham, David, and Solomon as examples of respected polygamous men in history. “Nigerians are too emotional. We react with emotions. We dey do bad things, but we dey cover am. Nigerians should stop idolizing some people’s lives. Let people be. Pastors, Imams… Who doesn’t cheat? Na God create us to cheat,” he stated. Watch the video below … “God create us to cheat” – Samklef pic.twitter.com/EuMTkt83j7 — 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) June 25, 2023

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Men who have beards are rarely rich – Speed Darlington (Video)

Talented rapper, Speed Darlington claims that men who keep beards are rarely rich people. He argued that the top millionaires and billionaires are individuals who rarely keep beards, and challenged his fans to name a famous wealthy man who keeps beards.

Speed Darlington claims men who have beards are rarely rich. Credit: Speed Darlington/ Instagram. According to Speed Darlington, the reason why he doesn’t keep beards is because he harbours the hope of becoming named as one of the world’s richest man. To cite few individuals, the abroad-based rapper named such tycoons as Otedola and Bill Gates, to make his point. One fan, however, challenged him by calling E-Money and Speed Darlington dismissed the name, noting that he doesn’t count as one. Speed Darlington said that he’s not as famous since nobody knows him other than the Nigerian population. Watch him speak; Bearded men are rarely rich — Speed Darlington pic.twitter.com/PHVz7yvVQZ — Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) June 19, 2023

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“Don’t ask a girl out if you do not have N50K upwards” – Lady tells men

Lady avers that a man should not ask a girl out if he doesn’t have up to 50,000 naira set aside for the date. The lady identified on Twitter as @thatdammygirlie said this while reacting to a post wherein another lady, @rutie_xx, said she cannot go out on a date with a man who has N12K as budget.

“Don’t ask a girl out if you do not have N50K upwards” – Lady tells men. Photo Credit: @thatdammygirlie. Source: Twitter. “I can’t go on a date with a man who has 12k budget,” @rutie_xx wrote. @thatdammygirlie who reacted to this concurred, saying that a man should have at least 50,000 naira if he wants to ask a lady out. “i honestly think if you do not have 50k upwards, you should not ask a girl out on a date,” she said.

A flurry of reactions have chased after her opinion; adeolaperry_. wrote: “Una don turn date to ballin” officialzarah_ wrote: “That’s on period” ugoforeign wrote: “See her 3k top for her picture sef yen yen yen” sistamoms wrote: “Speak for yourself. You are not the standard madam.” tashaswavey wrote: “If a girl really likes you…she’d even take a walk with you as a date” ojes_hair wrote: “In our days we go for dates under the mango tree with zero kobo. This gen z ehhh” sexy_laise wrote: “I honestly think date should be about cutting our clothes to our sizes, the people involved should know their budget before going out” jay_scotch_autos wrote: “Since when did asking a girl out turn you brokenness alleviation?”

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“Money shouldn’t stop you from getting married” – Solomon Buchi advices men

“Money shouldn’t stop you from getting married” – Solomon Buchi advices single men

Solomon Buchi, a controversial media personality, recently expressed his opinion on Twitter that unmarried men do not need to consider their financial stability before getting married. He shared the story of his younger sister who married at the age of 22 to a man who had a good job but lost it six months later due to the impact of COVID-19.

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Photo Credit: Solomon Buchi Source: Twitter Solomon argues that marriage thrives on understanding, contentment, and mutual support, regardless of financial circumstances. He wrote: “My kid sis got married at 22 to my friend, 25. He was working with a top oil company; doing absolutely well for himself. Six months into marriage, he was laid off because of COVID. I know a lot of men want to have strong financial base to get married, but that’s not what you need. What you need is a partner that understands the reality that you can lose everything, and they need to be there for you. Marriage thrives on understanding and contentment—come what may, both of you will hold it together. That’s the real control and security you can have. Men, money shouldn’t stop you from getting married. It shouldn’t. I understand the societal pressure, but there’s no guarantee that all the riches you want to build can’t fly away. Life happens, and you need a woman who will embrace you when life happens. I bet that if my in-law foresaw that he’d have lost his job 6 months into marriage, he most likely wouldn’t have gotten married, till last year that he was called back. Don’t let the aspiration to have money stacked up somewhere stop you from getting married. If you have a job, accommodation & food, you can get married. It will be better if your partner also has income flow too. Stop waiting to have your house/be a millionaire before you marry. I wanted to have my house before marriage, guess who’s married & doesn’t have a house yet? “I dare say that many couples spend less than singles because there’s a strong sense of responsibility, teamwork, and accountability. My younger sister once told me that I spent more money as a single man than they spent as a family, it made me illuminated my mind. Marriage can be economical, especially when children aren’t involved, and when you cut your coat according to your cloth. It’s really not that deep. Most of our parents had only accommodation and food when they got married, and they grew with time. “Before my wedding, I brooded over the financial cost that comes with marriage, and I shared with my friend cum brother-in-law and told me that I can’t control everything, and I should just get married & face life with my wife. That’s what I’d have done as a single man, anyway. It’s a highly consumerist world, but you still tailor everything to your budget. Wed on a weekday, invite a few friends, rent the wedding dress, get a photographer friend to help you, you don’t need an exotic honeymoon immediately. Please save some money for life in marriage. “If your family complains, tell them you’re working with a budget, and if they want it bigger, they can sponsor it. Simple. Men, you don’t need the world to marry. Marry a reasonable woman; start small, never stay lazy. If you know your stuff, you will save more more in marriage. “Financial stability for marriage is having a source of income that can feed, house and clothe you; as long as it’s legitimate work. This is the sign you need to make that bold step, unless you’re generally not ready for marriage, but if it’s about finances, go and marry!” See the post below:

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Sam Nnabuike exposes married men, reveals disgusting things they do on social media

Nollywood actor Sam Nnbuike has exposed his fellow married men as he reveals some of the disgusting acts they do on social media. The actor has described most married men as hypocrites as he called them out over some act they indulge in while online.

Sam Nnabuike exposes married men, reveals disgusting things they do on social media. Photo credit: Sam Nnabuike Source: Google According to Sam Nnbuike, most married men are double standard in their reaction to sexual posts made by single women. Sam stated that most married men seen on social media lambasting women publicly for posting explicit or posting erotic photos run to the DMs of these women to heap praises on them while comparing their wives to these women. Taking to his Instagram story, the actor wrote, “Nigerian married men are wonderful creatures. This minute they are in the comment section insulting and casting aspersion on ladies who post s3xually provocative videos of themselves on social media but the next minute, they are in the same girl’s DM, telling her ‘wish my wife’s Yansh is like your own’. See his post below…

In other news, Apostle Johnson Suleman has revealed why most marriages fail as compared to marriages in the past. According to the man of God, most Youths ignore advice from their elderly ones due to the excessive use of technology or social media platforms. Apostle Johnson Suleman while preaching in his church stated that, unlike in the past when two families do proper investigations on each family before their children marry from the family, the situation now is different. Hence the rampant failure of marriages amongst people now.

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Lagos to fight domestic violence against men

The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency has introduced a program with the aim of raising awareness among men about their potential vulnerability to sexual and gender-based violence. In line with this, the agency encouraged male victims of domestic and sexual violence to break the culture of silence and share their experiences.

The Executive Secretary of DSVA, Titilola Vivour-Adeniyi. Credit: The Punch During the launch of the ‘The Hidden Crime, Violence Against Men’ project, which took place in Alausa, the Executive Secretary of DSVA, Titilola Vivour-Adeniyi, emphasized to the approximately 300 male participants their crucial role in the fight against SGBV in the state. Vivour-Adeniyi revealed that a recent community engagement in over 10 local government areas highlighted the necessity for education and support specifically targeting men who have experienced SGBV. She stated that the project’s objective was to ensure equal attention to all genders in the agency’s advocacy, prevention, and response efforts, emphasizing their determination to dismantle the culture of silence that allows sexual and gender-based violence to persist in society through this initiative. Similarly, the agency’s Community Engagement Officer, Ikudaisi Oluwatobi, urged men to come forward and report any instances of sexual violence within their community to eliminate this menace from the state. Oluwatobi reiterated that the primary goal of the project launch was to “raise awareness about the prevalence of gender-based violence in Lagos.” In other news, a Celestial church in the Ajah area of Lagos state was set on fire by an angry mob over allegations of finding a body with missing body parts on its premises. However, the police confirmed that the body found was not missing its parts while confirming that the labourer by the name of Dogo fell into a soakaway and was dead before reaching the hospital. A church worker was also confirmed to have fallen in the same soakaway while trying to rescue the victim but is currently hospitalized.

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Men run away when they find out I’m a virgin – Viral ex-corper

Justina Dauda, a former corps member, gained attention recently when she proudly declared that she completed her National Youth Service (NYSC) program as a virgin. The 20-year-old Political Science graduate from Taraba State University shared her story with the intention of inspiring young girls.

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Photo Credit: Justina Dauda Source: Facebook She further dedicated her special day to the Taraba State University Department of Political Science and International Relations class of 2021, expressing her prayers for more virgin corps members from the university. In an interview, Justina revealed that whenever she informs men that she is a virgin, they tend to distance themselves from her. She shared her journey, mentioning that seeing her name on the graduation list brought her immense joy as it wasn’t an easy feat. She became emotional, remembering her late father, who passed away while she was in her first year of university. Justina made a personal commitment to herself and God not to engage in any immoral acts that would compromise her virginity, especially during times of financial difficulty. She stood firm in her resolve, believing it was a way to honor her late father. In her words:
“I call myself virgin corper because I am a virgin and I made a post about it. People call me the “virgin corper”. Actually, when the graduation list was published before I graduated from the university, seeing my name made me excited because it wasn’t easy for me. I burst into tears. “At the age of 19, I was one of the youngest corps members from Taraba State. I got into the university at the age of 15. I was 19 when I arrived at the orientation camp. I lost my father when I was in my first year at the university, so my mum has been trying her best to make sure my needs are catered for. I shed tears when I remember my late dad. “When I was broke, I promised myself not to participate in any immoral act that would make me lose my virginity. It was between me and God, that I will never disgrace my late father. I took my stand and have remained intact till now. No matter the situation, nothing will happen to my virginity. I faced challenges during my service year. I met people who wanted to date me but sleep with me first. Some people will spoil your name and claim that they slept with you if you resist them, even when they’ve never had a form of intimacy with you. It takes a lot of discipline to be able to ignore temptations. Some of my friends actually mocked me and told me I won’t come back home as a virgin, why some were waiting to hear bad news about me. I was happy that I finished strong. “There is nothing wrong with making the post public in my perception. I want to motivate young girls out there and let them know that keeping one’s self is dignifying. I want to serve as an example to my younger ones; I want people to know keeping one’s virginity is not hard. It requires self-discipline and determination. It is important to be prayerful, young girls should be content as well; men nowadays want to sleep with you before giving you money. Many young girls now are not content. They want to be seen among big girls. They should also avoid early relationships. The ideal age to start a relationship is 20. I think virginity is what every woman should be proud of, whether she is a Christian or not. It is so unfortunate that some men don’t value virginity anymore. “Some men will tell you they can’t marry a virgin, and that they can’t go through the stress of deflowering a lady. I have met so many men who ran away from me because I told them I am a virgin.”

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“Don’t be afraid to fail” – Polygamous pastor encourages men to marry more

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A polygamous pastor, identified as Seraki Kemmonye Seraki has encouraged men never to fear to practice polygamy.
The Bostwana pastor who is married to two women says men should not harbor fear in their hearts when they want to marry more than one wife.
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According to him, polygamy is not as ‘pretty and nice’ as he portrays it on social media; while disclosing the numerous fights and jealousy his two wives portray at home.
This comment from the pastor comes after a follower asked if his polygamous marriage was rosy.
He said;
“I never said polygamy is easy. I mean, I live polygamy daily, I know it’s ups and down. I am not the standard of polygamy, my failures and successes do not guarantee anything to any other person out there,” he said.
“If I fail, it does not mean you will fail. I have done so many things people told me I can’t do and aced them. We live once…if you strongly believe in something, do it. At least you would have tried.”
He further said;
“Just like any family out there, we fight, and I came across a few fights! We also differ on certain issues! From simple things as naming of kids to investments! It’s a whole array of feelings! We don’t like our past, or the past! We do everything in our power to avoid the past, but this morning I realized that my past, my past with my wives have so many beautiful memories.
“Once in a while, sit alone and revisit your past with your partner, there are so many good memories over there! What is happening right now does not represent everything about you guys, at times, use your past as a spring board to love each other again! I love you Kagiso. I love you Mpho.”

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