Rita Edochie shares late in-law’s advise on mature girls as house helps and polygamy

Rita Edochie shares advice from late in-law regarding mature girls as house helps and polygamy

Veteran Nollywood actress Rita Edochie takes a solemn pledge to her late father-in-law, Odogwu Sylvester Edochie, in light of Yul Edochie embracing the tradition of polygamy. On her Instagram account, Rita Edochie posted a photograph of her late father-in-law accompanied by a message titled “Advice from My Late Father-in-Law.”

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Veteran actress, Rita Edochie. Credit: Ritaedochie / Instagram The esteemed actress revealed that her late father-in-law had once cautioned her against employing mature female house help, as it often leads to the practice of polygamy, which he strongly disapproved of. Rita Edochie expressed her profound sadness as Yul Edochie strayed from his grandfather’s legacy, a legacy that had been cherished by the older generation. She made a heartfelt promise to her late father-in-law that she would ensure Yul Edochie returns to his wife, as his words will always hold true.

Rita Edochie shares advice from late in-law regarding mature girls as house helps and polygamy

Rita Edochie’s late father-in-law mazi Ejimofor Odogwu Sylvester Edochie. Credit: Ritaedochie / Instagram In her words; “A word of advice from my late father, inlaw mazi Ejimofor Odogwu Sylvester Edochie. A father inlaw like never called me and said Rita, sir, I don’t like this idea of having mature girls as house helps because he does not want anything polygamy in his home.
He told me this because I was always having “mature girls” as my “house helps”. I said to him papa I know my husband and that is the reason I can afford to do that and his answer was toh in hausa language I said this because akwala amaro ife meaning p$nis no get sense and I quickly replied him, my husband does not have time for women outside not to talk of house maids so I know my husband papa. We ended the matter and so it remains till date little did we know that the polygamy thing would come from his grandchild, but papa, I promise you, where ever you are, it still stands as you stated it.
Trust me we are not sleeping.”  

“See wetin polygamy do you”

"See wetin polygamy do you" - Uche Maduagwu mocks Yul Edochie and Judy Austin over argument video

"See wetin polygamy do you" - Uche Maduagwu mocks Yul Edochie and Judy Austin over argument video

Nigerian actor Uche Maduagwu has mocked actor and producer Yul Edochie and his second wife Judy Austin over their recent video. Yul Edochie and his second wife, Judy Austin have made headlines once again after the actor shared a video themselves trading words and making threats to expose each other on social media.

"See wetin polygamy do you" - Uche Maduagwu mocks Yul Edochie and Judy Austin over argument video

“See wetin polygamy do you” – Uche Maduagwu mocks Yul Edochie and Judy Austin over argument video. Photo credit: Uche Maduagwu. Source: Google In the video, Judy Austin was fighting her husband, Yul Edochie of posting a video she recorded on her phone without her permission, leading to a heated verbal exchange between the couple. While defending himself, Yul Edochie stated that he posted the video because he was featured in it and Judy had failed to inform him that she was recording. Recall that the couple had a first misunderstanding where Yul was attacking his wife for not giving him the needed attention due to her phone. He captioned the first video, “I don’t understand why I cannot talk to Judy and she’ll listen to me. I’m getting tired of this whole thing. I found this video she made and I had to post it”. In reactions to the online drama between the couple, Uche Maduagwu has mocked Yul for allowing a polygamous marriage to turn him into a different person. Uche Maduagwu took to the actor’s comment section to react and wrote: “OMG, this is lack of spiritual Maturity, you Na see WETIN POLYGAMY DEY cause? Sir PETE go DEY so disappointed with this. God bless MAY.”

How polygamy became my biggest mistake ever – Journalist shares

How polygamy became my biggest mistake ever – Journalist shares

A journalist by the name Maynard Manyowa has narrated how becoming a polygamist became the biggest mistake he regrets making.

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Maynard shared his experience in reaction to a post which described polygamy as the future. He explained that he never knew peace while married to two women. According to him, he had only loved one woman and had only married the second because he didn’t want her to suffer the public disgrace of not being married. Maynard said that the union had only lasted 10 years during which he nearly lost the one he truly loved. He wrote: “As a former polygamist – I say this is bad advice. You will never know peace. I was a lousy polygamist because I only ever loved one woman. And the other was not really my Mrs but someone I didn’t want to suffer ignominy of not being married. Biggest mistake ever. Don’t do it Let me just add. When polygamy is great, it’s amazing. In fact polygamy is all good until it is all bad! I enjoyed 10 years of it. Sweet! Only issue is, in trying to keep the woman I didn’t want – I then nearly lost the one I wanted. So perhaps polygamy isn’t bad – I am.”

Avoid polygamy — Drama as body of grandma who married three husbands go missing

Avoid polygamy — Drama as body of grandma who married three husbands go missing

Grandson warns about polygamy as the body of his grandma who married three husbands during her life goes missing from the mortuary.

Avoid polygamy — Drama as body of grandma who married three husbands go missing

A Twitter user identified as @Ay_bkini took to the platform to share his experience about his grandma who practised polygamy. In a tweet, @Ay_bkini revealed that after his grandma passed, her body was kidnapped from the mortuary and has been nowhere to be found. In his words; “Omo, avoid Polygamy if you can o. My grandma married 3 husbands. Remembering that her corpse was stolen from the mortuary because of a disagreement between children cracks me up everytime. And if you must, put your house in order before you die. Ensure your children respect eachother. Don’t ever pit children against each other. My Grandma should forgive me from heaven incase I casted her. I’m still her first grandson from my Father’s father. She can’t hate her Grandson from paradise😉😉,” he wrote.

Avoid polygamy — Drama as body of grandma who married three husbands go missing

They hate polygamy but wishes to be Ned Nwoko’s wife – Rev. Kevin Ugwu

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Reverend Father Kevin Ugwu Ladies Regina Daniels Ned Nwoko

Popular priest, Reverend Father Kevin comes for ladies who claim to hate polygamy but are now wishing to be seventh wife to famous billionaire, Ned Nwoko.

The businessman is renowned for having six wives; his sixth and current last wife, Regina Daniels appears to be his favorite as he continues to spoil the actress with loads of monetary gift. She had disclosed on Thursday 26 January that her husband had gifted her 100,000 dollars. This had whet the appetite of Nigerian ladies for the rich polygamous men as some openly expressed their desire to also be wife up.

Reacting to this, Fr. Kevin blasted these ladies for claiming to detest polygamy but craving to be in Regina Daniels’ position. According to him, what they dislike isn’t the practice itself but rather a penniless practitioner of polygamy. In his words; “Those shouting that they hate polygamy are now wishing to be Ned Nwoko’s next wife. Say the truth and nobody will beat you, what you hate is not polygamy but poor polygamists. What you abhor is not old men, but poor old men.”

“Ooni didn’t like polygamy; he was made to marry more wives” – Princess Folashade Ogunwusi-Fadairo

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Princess Folashade Ogunwusi-Fadairo, the elder sister of Ooni of Ife Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, has said that her brother wasn’t interested in polygamy, but circumstances compelled him to take more wives.

The monarch disclosed this while speaking in a recent chat with Punch newspaper. It’d be recalled that the monarch made the headlines last year after he took five wives bringing the total number of wives to six.

While speaking in the interview, the princess said that while it is not her place to interfere with the affair, she believes that her brother had no interest in polygamy. Although he had no say in the matter. She said: “My opinion is that what you have to do, you just have to do it. Meanwhile, that’s his personal life, I can’t meddle in it. What I can say is that I don’t know if you were there during his wedding anniversary or so, if you heard the speech he made, it was very touching and it was something that personally he didn’t like but he had no choice, he had to do it. Where the Yoruba are coming from, polygamy is expected. And being the progenitor of the Yoruba race, inu e ni won bi wa si (we were born in it). For instance, my grandfather had eight wives, that’s paternal and my maternal grandfather had about seven or eight wives too. So, it’s something he had to do, although, I think he avoided it.” Folashade also related how it was predicted that one of her brothers would become a ruler, but she didn’t know which of them as she had three: “There were some predictions. For instance, my father had three boys and he is the last of the three boys. The prediction had been there that one of the boys would become a king but no name was mentioned and we didn’t know which one of the three it would be. In any case, we didn’t even take the prediction too seriously. You know, people will always predict, it’s left for you to believe or not to believe. The prediction came and I remember my dad gathering us together to pray for whoever it was going to be and I called my sister aside and said to her: “Do they know when the present one (king) would die? Nobody knows; so, what kind of prediction is that?” But then we joined our father in the prayers, believing that one day, it might happen and it actually happened eventually. I remember my grandfather used to call him (my brother) Adeyeye Ooni; my late mum also did the same, calling him Adeyeye Ooni. My other brothers were there but I can’t remember my grandfather or mum calling them Adegboyega Ooni or Adetunji Ooni.”

“Polygamy is the last thing you want to wish even your worst enemy” – Uche Nnanna sides with May Edochie against Yul

"Polygamy is the last thing you want to wish even your worst enemy" – Uche Nnanna sides with May Edochie against Yul

Popular actress Uche Nnanna expresses her support for Yul Edochie’s first wife, May, as she shares harrowing experience from her polygamous background.
The thespian took to her Instagram page to show her support for the embattled mother of four who had stated that she would never accept being part of a polygamous family after her husband took in a second wife and declared himself a polygamist.

Uche revealed that she comes from a polygamous family and it would be the last thing she would want to wish her worst enemy.

According to her, the second wives in a polygamous family is always at war with the first, no matter how hard one tries to maintain cordiality in the home.
See her post below:

I will not be cajoled into accepting polygamy

I will not be cajoled into accepting polygamy

May Yul-Edochie, the wife of Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie, has replied to her husband’s post asking for forgiveness amidst their polygamy saga.

A few days ago, Yul Edochie took to his Instagram page to plead with his first wife, May Edochie to accept his polygamous status and also plead for forgiveness.
However, it seems May is not ready to accept the second wife of her husband due to her belief.
In a lengthy post sighted on May Edochie’s page, she has stated that she bares no grudge against her husband as reported but will not be cajoled to accept polygamy.
She wrote,

I strongly believe that mistakes are a major part of human existence. It is our response to these errors that count. In other words, forgiveness is one thing, and righting a wrong is another.
FORGIVENESS is the highest | and most beautiful form of love for me. There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. Hence, my ability to forgive the mistakes of the past, present, and future with respect to the issue on the ground is in the interest of my mental health and inner peace.
I decided to stick to love…Hate is too great a burden to bear. I am still very much incapable of HATING anyone, let alone the father of my children. The fact remains that anyone can choose to practice POLYGAMY, but can’t be impelled to accept what was never bargained for.
To reaffirm my stands, I will not be CAJOLED into accepting polygamy, which goes against my beliefs, faith, and values.
I will not be NUMBERED in a home that we started building with love, faith, tears, hopes, and prayers in a CATHOLIC marriage of 18 years following a long-term premarital relationship.
This is also a passionate appeal to put an END to the constant “show” on the social media space where our kids are growing up unless it is absolutely necessary. Let’s prevent our lovely children from all the incessant drama series that might take a toll on them directly or indirectly amongst their peers.
May GOD in His infinite mercy and compassion guide us all in the right direction.
Merry Christmas in advance everyone!

“Stay away from polygamy; no advantage, just chaos and drama” – Pastor with two wives warn

“Stay away from polygamy; no advantage, just chaos and drama” – Pastor with two wives warn

Botswana Pastor, Seraki Kemmonye Seraki, who is legally married to two wives warns about the dangers of polygamy.

“Stay away from polygamy; no advantage, just chaos and drama” – Pastor with two wives warn

The pastor took to his Facebook page to lament the struggle of taking two wives at once while emphasizing the daily struggles he copes with.
In his words, it is one thing hearing the side talks about his choice of practising polygamy; it’s another thing going about with two wives and six kids.
While warning about the experience full of too much stress, he emphasized how he can’t buy a simple car other than a large vehicle to contain his large family.
“THERE IS NO ADVANTAGE IN POLY-FAM! I have been accused of all sorts of things, from eating two plates to swimming in extra fats like a kidney, though I cannot confirm nor deny the accusations, my dear brother don’t get tempted, there is no advantage in this thing!” he said.

“Stay away from polygamy; no advantage, just chaos and drama” – Pastor with two wives warn

Today I saw things! “T Sekati, S Sekati, P Sekati…..uhu, naare golo mo ke family ya motho a le 1”? Exclaimed the security guard! I pulled my wives together with the kids as we slid into the Immigration hall! There was some murmuring! “O irang ka bana ba ba kanakana”! “Thaaka basadi ba mothaka yo ba bantle jang, wa yaka o ba loile”!
Then the process of filling forms, quing here and there, the young boys running and sliding between their mothers legs! The girls complaining bitterly about the state of their hairs! Chaotic scenes, the life of a polygamist!
As if that was not enough, with two wives and 6 kids following me around the entire day, none of them could pick that the front of my t was backward and vice versa! “Ele gore o thotse o isitse mapele ko morago” Never felt so small,embarrassed and insulted in one sentence like this! Stay away from this thing…there is no advantage here, just chaos and drama!
I can’t even buy an SVR, or a Lambo, I have to consider cars like Super 16, Caravella, Elegrand(kana ga tweng)! How can a young child like me drive di combi bashimane ba taboga ka di GD6? What kind of life is this? Where is the joy in this you people? Zero advantage! Legale lekeletsang,” Pastor Seraki Kemmonye Seraki added to his polygamy struggle.

“Stay away from polygamy; no advantage, just chaos and drama” – Pastor with two wives warn

How polygamy brought me blessings, elevated my wives

How polygamy brought me blessings, elevated my wives

Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie, has described how embracing polygamy brought him blessings and elevated his two wives, May and Judy.
Recall that in April Yul disclosed that he has taken actress, Judy Moghalu as his second wife and welcomed a son with her.

In a lengthy Instagram post on Thursday, the father of five noted that God used the polygamy situation to bless him and his wives.
Likening himself to David in the Bible, Yul noted that he communicated with God every day.
His post reads: ”God works in mysterious ways.
Marrying a 2nd wife has brought me blessings and also elevated my two lovely wives.
“Sometimes it takes the things we see as disappointments to happen for elevation to come
“It happened many times in the bible, just like the case of Joseph. I’m a man after God’s heart. “I’m like King David in the bible. “I communicate with my God and He guides me everyday.
“I wronged my wife May from the way I went about it, and I have apologized to her sincerely from the bottom of my heart, but in the eyes of God things are different. God blesses differently. His ways are not our ways.Our destinies are different. Don’t be deceived by the white man’s culture..
“Same White people that condemn polygamy are encouraging men to marry their fellow men. In the end judgement is for God. Even white people don’t understand God fully. Nobody does, actually. That’s why He remains God.
“Many great men in the bible had one wife, many great men in the same bible also had more than one wife.
“And if that happens to be your destiny God will elevate you and elevate all that concerns you through it.
“My wife May just signed her first endorsement deal. Something that never happened all these years. And this came from what many saw as a disappointment. I have realized that God’s ways are different. Many more deals will still come to her cos she’s a wonderful person. So is my wife Judy.
“She has also been elevated. Now widely known, her career is bigger with a whole lot going for her as well. Let me not even talk about myself.
“My stardom has tripled. My name is being mentioned in places it never got to before. My children are blessed.
“Summary: The ways of God are different. Our destinies are not the same. You may not understand another man’s destiny and that’s because you’re not supposed to, except your own.
“If God gives you more than one wife it will come with blessings and elevation. Run your race and put God first in all you do. He speaks to each of us differently. Love and Peace to us all.”