Lady seeks advice after ‘mistakenly’ accusing unemployed fiancé of stealing N150K

Lady unemployed fiancé accusation

A lady’s relationship is hanging by a thread after she reportedly accused her fiancé who came to stay with her of stealing the 150,000 naira she kept at home.

Lady unemployed fiancé accusation

According to a Twitter user who shared the story, the lady is a working class lady based in Abuja. Her fiancée who is job-hunting had come to stay with her for a while pending his getting the job he came for in Abuja. When she returned from work on a Friday with 150,000 she had gotten from a deal; the next day, she couldn’t find the money and all search for it yielded no results. Since she was certain she had brought home the money, she began to accuse her man of being the one who had taken the money. The back and forth exchange became heated and she ridiculed him, calling him a pauper and other derogatory words. When she arrived work on Monday, to her shock, she found that she had left the money in her office cabinet. The tweep wrote: “How a friend ruined her relationship. You are a working-class girl, you invite your fiancée who is job hunting in Abuja to visit you in Lagos. He visits you on a Thursday. Friday while closing from work, you decided to take home the 150k u had from a deal in the office. On Saturday u started looking for the 150k in your bag, nowhere to be found. In your car, zilch. Where on earth could money fly to? Ofcourse it must be fiance, nobody visited. So you tell him bluntly to return the money and he vehemently denies. You guys exchange words during a heated argument and you call him names, a pauper who will forever remain poor and steal and told him to leave your house Sunday morning. He does, seething with anger. You called his sisters and told them, told your friends and his too. Full of anger, you arrive office Monday morning and discover you left the money in the file cabinet!”

“My husband said anytime we quarrel it affects his business” – Lady laments, seeks advice

Couple quarrel problems

A lady has gone online to lament over the marital problems she has been having with her husband.

Couple quarrel problems

The lady identified as Chichi Peters said her husband told her that whenever they have an argument over something, it tends to affect his business. Also, he begins to allegedly lose customers at his shop whenever she is upset with him over something. She added that because of this somewhat confusing and mysterious occurrence, her husband was warned not to upset her. The distraught lady sought advice on what other netizens could make of her problem. She wrote: “Good morning everyone please I need help. My husband said anytime we quarried he will have issues in his business and anytime I am not happy he will lose customers. I don’t know why he even said they told him to not offend me. I am confused. Please no insult.”

Lady seeks advice after husband asked her to donate kidney to his ailing mother

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A lady has been left in a state of dilemma after her husband insists she donates her kidney to his ailing mother. Lady seeks advice after husband asked her to donate kidney to his ailing mother The lady, 25 revealed that she is married to her husband 35, whose mother lives with them. Her mother-in-law is sick, and they have diagnosed her with kidney issues. The lady’s kidney matches that of her mother-in-law, and her husband has asked that she donates one of her kidneys to his mother. He claims he loves his mother so much and would never want anything to hurt her. He has also conditioned his wife to prove his love to him by donating one of her kidneys to his mother. Now, she seeks the opinion of the public as to how to approach the situation.

A lady has been left in a state of dilemma after her husband insists she donated one of her kidneys to his ailing mother.

She wrote: “I am 25 years old. Married to a man of 35years. We have been married for more than 2years with a child. The issue that brought me here is that my mother in law is sick (kidney problem) and it happens that mine matches her. My husband is begging me to donate one of my kidney to save his mom. He said he loves his mom so much and will not want anything to happen to her. That if love him as I claim, now is time to prove it. I refused. How can a young girl,like me that is just starting life donate a kidney to an old woman of 48years. Even if the person is my mum, she won’t even allow me to donate for her. Now hubby is acting up. Saying if anything happens to her mum, he will never forgive me. Please, am I being wicked?”

Man seeks help over wife’s habit of leaving diapers in plates

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A Twitter user has taken to the micro-blogging platform, where he cried out over his wife’s habit of leaving diapers in plates.

Man seeks help over wife who leave diapers in plates

The man who seemed fed up with the situation sought advice from Twitter users on how to approach the situation. He adds that he would not want to come across as offensive, hence the cry for help. He also added that many men out there go through this but no one speaks about it.

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Lady seeks advice over insecure fiancé who dislikes her sitting close to men in public transport

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A lady has gone online to lament over her overprotective fiancé who doesn’t allow her to sit besides men in public transport. According to the narrator, her man is kind and loving but rarely gives her breathing space.

She said that he dislikes her sitting besides other men and when he notices that such has happened, he would want them to trade places. In her words; “Hello good evening everyone please how will I handle a situation where by sa guy is jealous and over protective over his girl I have a fiance which we’re planning to get married, He is kind, loving he got everything I need in a man but my problem with him is over protective and jealous to extent if am in car, napep or any vehicle he will like to know someone sitted beside me if is a man he will disturbing the man to adjust let his body not touch me he will be requesting for a woman to sit close to me instead of a man causing quarrel or laughter in the vehicle am just tired I don’t know what to do.”

Lady seeks advice on ending relationship with boyfriend of 3 years who cares and pays her rent but not her type

Lady seeks advice on ending relationship with boyfriend of 3 years who cares and pays her rent but not her type

A lady has sought advice online on how to break it to her boyfriend of 3 years, who pays her rent and plans to marry her, that she is no longer interested in the relationship.

The lady revealed that her boyfriend is a good man; he’s caring and pays her rent but she has found it impossible to fall in love with him because he’s not her type.
She also disclosed that her boyfriend has plans to marry her but she had only gone into the relationship because he had a good heart.
In her words:
“Been with my boyfriend for 3yrs .he’s caring,pays my rent.He’s talking about marriage but truth Is l have failed to love him, Plus he’s not like my type but coz he has a good heart l decided to start a relationship with him but now l want to end this relationship? Pliz advise me.”

Mother of four seeks advice following clash between boyfriend and husband

Mother of four seeks advice following clash between boyfriend and husband

Mother of four seeks advice following clash between boyfriend and husband

A cheating mother of four cries out for advice following a clash between her husband and boyfriend over the phone.
The Canada-based woman was having an affair outside her marriage with a Nigerian with whom she meets whenever she was on a business trip in the country.
In a chat with a relationship adviser, the woman in question sought advice after being asked by her husband to choose between her business in Nigeria or her marriage.

Read the full narration below …
“I cheated on my husband and he gave me an ultimatum to choose between my marriage and my career
Good afternoon nurse chioma and house. I’m a married woman with 4children. My husband and our children are based in Canada. I only visit once in a while cos I have my business here in Nigeria.
I have a boyfriend here in Nigeria and I’ve been with him for 6 months. My husband and I did our phones in such a way that when u call one and we didn’t pick up the phone, it will divert to the other.
I have a send phone I use in communicating with my lover. My husband doesn’t know about d sim. My lover knows about my husband but I told him we are separated so that he will feel safe with me.
I don’t know how he got my main line. He called my number he was with and it wasn’t going through. He called my main line, I didn’t pick but hubby picked up. The encounter wasn’t a pleasant one.
My boyfriend was even angry for my husband encroachment by diverting my calls. Ceetee, d issue has been resolved. My boyfriend broke up with me. I promised hubby I won’t cheat again.
He said he has forgiven me but I must relocate back to Canada to be with him. I have my business here in Nigeria. He doesn’t care. He wants me to close down d business and move to Canada or I say bye bye to d marriage. What do I do?”

Embattled wife who married husband with the hope that she’ll love him with time seeks advice following disappointment

Embattled wife who married husband with the hope that she'll love him with time seeks advice following disappointment

A distraught Nigerian lady, name undisclosed, is seeking advice on what to do with her marriage which was born out of the far-fetched maxim that says, “Marry him, the love will grow.”
The lady, who sought advice from a public discussion forum, revealed that she never loved her husband prior to her marriage, and that she only agreed to marry him because of a prospect of financial security.

Noting that she was advised to marry the man by people who promised her that the love will grow with time, the embattled lady lamented that the reverse is now the case.
Her story reads: “You see this marry him, the love will grow bullshit, it doesn’t work for most people. Let’s say it’s actually “marry him, you’ll up your pretence game as time goes on”. I’m writing to you because I don’t keep friends and don’t believe in telling people deep things about me, hence why I’m posting this anonymously.
I won’t categorically say I was forced into this marriage, nah! I wasn’t. I went into it with my korokoro eyes. Though I had doubts about the “love will grow” aspect. So I asked questions. People convinced me that good men or men that love you are rare. See I’m there now and all I can say is that, love from one person isn’t enough. The person will definitely be drained, even if they don’t notice.
Asides love, I’m not even attracted to this guy. I’m attracted to guys with huge body frame and he’s the exact opposite. When I was single I used to tell my friends that spec thing doesn’t exist, it’s just fallacy. Hehehehe! E don sup!. See better marry your spec.
There is this post that trended some days back. It said….” Dating someone you don’t find attractive, when they annoy you, you are more pissed at the audacity than their actual offence.”It’s so true.
I’ve always been a one girl, one guy type of person. Not like I even hoed around sef. I just ate and visited fun places alot with my female friends. Had sex just thrice as a single girl, but I’m not sexually attracted to my husband. When I was dating someone else before him, I would never stare at another guy twice talk more of Giving my number. But now, I find myself Randomly checking guys out! Even his friends. Hey Oluwa oh! Me? Abi ashawo dey my eye before and I didn’t know? Lol. I was never this way people of God.
Now, I strongly believe that as humans, we only LOVE once. I mean loving wholeheartedly, without keeping anything back, without any fears. I just think it happens once. Then if the person serves you breakfast, other people coming will just be vibes.
people coming will just be vibes and inshallah. My own first love, his family said they don’t want an outsider, it must be within their community.So both him and his family messed up, we had to end it.
Now, I’ve been married for some years now, my husband is always thanking God for his beautiful family. Tor! It’s beautiful to him na! When he’s enjoying fine wife and fine puna! Na me f up sha. I could have jejely remained single and waited for my spec. Make both of us dey thank God for beautiful home together. I also fault my parents too, when they abandon you at age 20 to fend for yourself, and even give to them, you’ll likely get biased when someone comes with financial security and some things you can’t provide for yourself legitimately at that stage of your career no matter how you struggle.
I need advice sincerely, because All my life I’ve been a risk taker. And I’m about taking the risk of telling my husband everything I just told you guys now. I don’t have kids yet. I want to be happy genuinely, this life na once, I can’t live mine pretending. Even if it means me working hard and paying him back the money he has spent or whatever sha, I don’t mind. But I WANT TO BE HAPPY AGAIN.”

Lady seeks advice after getting dumped for denying boyfriend in front of friend who recognized him as Uber driver

Lady seeks advice after getting dumped for denying boyfriend in front of friend who recognized him as Uber driver

Lady seeks advice after getting dumped for denying boyfriend in front of friend who recognized him as Uber driver

Young lady cries out for advice after being dumped by her boyfriend for embarrassing him in front of an old friend.
In a chat with a relationship adviser, the lady in question narrated how she bought her man a call for Uber business due to unemployment.

While emphasizing on how caring and loving the man was, the lady narrated the encounter that led to a breakup note from him.
Read the full narration below …
“I met a guy who is compassionate, quiet, patient, kind, shy and very considerate. We started dating and everything was going on well. I can be super pushy and annoying.
The only problem is that he is jobless and I bought him a small car and he’s using it for Uber stuff. Even at that, he still buys me gifts and all. Though small but I know he will do more if he has the means. He treats me like a queen and he worship the ground I walk on.
My whole family love him and they are telling me how lucky I am to have him. He’s a graduate. Very intelligent. Just that Nigeria can frustrate you. He broke up with me because of the way I embarrassed him. He took me out as usual and I ran into an old time friend.
I don’t know how she recognized my boyfriend and said to him “are you not the Uber guy that took me and my friends to Benin?” She turned to me and asked if he’s my boyfriend.
I said no and I denied having anything to do with him. My friends can be lousy. Had it been I agreed, she would have asked me what I’m doing with a useless Uber guy. My boyfriend felt disappointed. I felt so bad that I couldn’t support my boyfriend.
I walked out on him just to prove my girlfriend wrong. On getting home, I saw a break up sms from him. He sent a voice note crying. I have never dated a good man who cherished me so much. My exes were so t ‘xic. Ceetee, have I made a mistake.
I’ve not told my family about this but they know I’m emotionally down. I’ve lost appetite and I feel empty without him. I called him with my brothers number cos he blocked mine and he still called my brother his pet name.
I don’t want him to know that I am the one that called so I cut the call. I know he will see this message. I don’t know if I have any chance of having him back. I truly love him.”

Man seeks advice on best way to approach fiancee and mother-in-law who publicly called out his mom for being a witch

Man seeks advice on best way to approach fiancee and mother-in-law who publicly called out his mom for being a witch

Man seeks advice on best way to approach fiancee and mother-in-law who publicly called out his mom for being a witch

Embattled man cries out for advice as his fiancee and mother-in-law confront his mother for being a witch.
In a chat with a relationship, the man whose wedding arrangement was in motion narrated how his fiancee accused his mother of chasing her in the dream.
At first, it was not much of a discussion until he received an urgent call about his fiancee who went to his mother’s how to rubbish her for being after her life.

Read the narration below …
“Please house, I want everyone to be truthful. What will you do if you are in my shoes? I’m planning my wedding to my fiancée and everyone in my family loves her so much. I’m the only son. My two elder sister’s are married and in USA.
Recently my girl started acting funny and I asked her. It took her time before she opened up that my mum is a witch. She has been having bad dreams about my mum.
This is a women that buys her clothes, make up etc. my girl ties my mum’s wrapper and my mum never complain. She’s d happiest that I’m getting married because she’s been begging me to marry. I told my girl to close that chapter. That I don’t believe in witches. This discussion was done about two weeks ago. Just this afternoon.
My sisters called my line off. I don’t go to work with phone for security reasons. I came out and saw 249 miss calls. I called them back and they told me to take d next available flight and go and meet my mum.
My girl actually went to her house with her mum and started shouting witch. Telling her to stay off her life. People gathered and where mocking my mum. They nearly beat her. If not that the Neighbours intervened. I called my girl and she said my mum deserve what she got.
That if not for me, she would have done worst. I’m angry. My sister are boiling with anger. I’m d one calming them down. They want to deal with my girl and her mum legally. Please house. How best to handle this. Post anonymous”