The former aide of Governor Ortom, Smith Takema has shared a few tips to married men on how they can handle their side chics. According to Smith Takema, most side chics who have the guts to attack the wives of the men they are dating have some motivation from the man. Smith Takema advised men to stop discussing their wives with their side chics and stop comparing their wives with their side chics. He also advised men never to eat food prepared by their side chics and also reminded men to always use condoms when they want to be intimate with their side chics to avoid any form of pregnancy. Smith Takema further advised men never to sleep over in the house of their side chics and lastly, avoid falling in love with these ladies. In his words; “Any side chick that has the guts to attack Madam is motivated by the husband of madam. Some mumu men will knack a side chick to the extent that they table their wife for ridicule with the side chick. Do not discuss your wife with a side chick, never compare your wife with a side chick no matter how the knacking carry you go reach. Never entertain any discussion with her about your wife. Avoid eating food specially prepared for you from her. Above all use a condom or make her understand that you won’t entertain pregnancy. Whatever you give her triple madam’s own. Give her limited time and don’t sleep over in her place, meet her in hotels or inns. Lastly do not fall in love with her with your heart but do it with your head.”