“Submission in marriage is not about your wife’s money”

"Submission in marriage is not about your wife's money" - Nigerian lawyer and pastor's wife says it's husband's duty to provide for family

Nigerian lawyer and pastor’s wife, Jemimah Ifeng, emphasized the husband’s duty to provide for the family in marriage, while acknowledging the significance of wives who wish to contribute financially on a voluntary basis. Addressing husbands directly, Ifeng highlighted that the concept of submission in marriage has nothing to do with a wife’s financial contributions. Rather, she stressed that it is the husband’s primary responsibility to ensure the well-being of the family through provision and support. Her post garnered significant attention and sparked discussions on gender roles and responsibilities within the institution of marriage. She wrote; “Husbands, Submission In Marriage Has Nothing To Do With Your Wife’s Money. It’s Your Duty To Provide, Whatever Help She Wants To Give Should Be Voluntary.” See below;

 

“If you want to share bills, be ready to share in ‘submission’ ” – Prophetess Ezenekwe tells men (Video)

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Popular life coach, Prophetess Ezenekwe has told egalitarian husbands who want to split bills to also be ready be submissive to their wives. Speaking in a recent discussion with her followers, the Prophetess addressed men who are always in the habit of wanting to split all the family bills with their partners.

“If you want to share bills, be ready to share in ‘submission” – Prophetess Ezenekwe tells men. Photo credit: Prophetess Ijeoma Ezenekwe. Source: Google. According to her, the husband might suggest that she brings a portion of the rent; in that case, the woman would be right in splitting home activities such as cooking and washing. This has generated divergent views from netizens; jamalmorgan_ wrote: “Aint sharing 50-50 with no woman when it comes to family duties… na why I Dey work hard..Wetin be babe bring your own part of the electric bill..God abeg” amaka.maya wrote: “i totally disagree, there’s nothing wrong splitting bills equally with a man, as a matter of fact, whoever has more or earns the most should pay. This is why i always say society is cruel on men. These are the things feminism stands for but how they’ve misconstrued feminism into [email protected] for men is what I really dont get.” deyemitheactor wrote: “Cooking is submission?”

Watch the video below: @officialdrijeoma If you want 50-50 share 50-50 in everything and dont complain. #marriedlife #marriagehumor #married #relationshipgoals #marriageadvice #marriagetok #datingtips ♬ original sound – Dr. Prophetess Ijeoma Ezenekwe

“There is nothing like love and submission in marriage without money; teach young men to work hard to earn” – Pastor counsels

"There is nothing like love and submission in marriage without money; teach young men to work hard to earn" – Pastor counsels

A pastor has averred that love and submission cannot exist in a relationship without the man having money.
The clergyman identified on Facebook as Dr Timothy Ogbu took to the social media platform to make the claim.
Dr Timothy advised netizens to teach their young men to be industrious in order to earn money because the amount of respect they’d get in their marriage is proportional to the amount of money they have.
In his words:
“Teach your young men to work hard in life to earn money because there is nothing like love and submission in marriage without money! Your respect is proportional to how much money you can command!”