A 70 year old man, Francis Van-Lare, is currently trending as he releases names of 219 women who he slept with as a way to celebrate his birthday. The man who is ex-husband to relationship counselor, Amara Nwosu, took to his Facebook account to share their names in batches. According to him, this is how he chooses to celebrate the milestone of his 70th birthday. He initially intended to post their pictures alongside their names, but Facebook did not allow him to. The man has promised to write a book next year where their names and photos would be arranged in accordingly. He specified in the list, the women who were experts at particular sex styles. This list has attracted lots of attention and many Netizens have taken to the comments to share their thoughts. See post below
Some reactions here @od_manuel asked: “What’s the essence of doing this? As long as he doesn’t have their surnames, it means nothing.” @Callipers_ cried: “I just saw my Landlady’s name on the list 😭” @ayanfenikky wrote: “That one na big achievement for him” @Mansaah_Musa reacted: “Lmao 🤣 Baba said next year, he will attach photos.
It really will not make sense at all if he should attach photos” @AjaoSelim said: “This one still get strength nah ment 😂”
Pastor advises women to have access to husband’s phone
Pastor Femi Lazarus has advised the women in his congregation to not marry a man whose phone they cannot have access to. He warned women against subscribing to the idea that for them to have peace they should not go through their husbands’ phone. The pastor further explained that although he is at Ibadan, his devices is Lagos have his WhatsApp installed and his wife has liberty to see his chats. Pastor Femi Lazarus. According to him, many spouses should be accountable to themselves and have spiritual fathers or mothers who can call them to order if they go wrong. Some reactions to the video below oluwakemi._o said: “She can’t go thru your phone cos is private but u can go thru her private part hun??? Make it make sense.” veronicasdaughter wrote: “Nothing pains me more than the teaching women are given. Ur husband phone be like onions, if u open am, u go cry. Akuko. So I can open ur boxers but not ur phone? Marriage never hungry una.” asangba_jenny asked: “What do I need his phone password for? Special advisers everywhere” damilola_a_ reacted: “Apostle Lazarus steady shaking tables. This generation is not ready.” misshembe added: “I’ve never felt the need to check anybodys phone honestly.” Watch video here
Women find good men boring
A Twitter user has taken to his page to make a comparison between the wives of Afrobeat artist Davido and his assistant, Isreal DMW. Recall that Isreal DMW and his estranged wife, Sheila made headlines after they took to their page to drag each other over what caused their marriage to fail. Reflecting on the current incident, a Twitter user identified as Shadaya Knight disclosed that the wife of Isreal DMW divorced him even though he didn’t have a record of domestic abuse, no cheating allegations, and no baby mamas. However, highlighting the records of the boss of Isreal, Davido, he said that Davido has a record of cheating and having multiple baby mamas but his wife, Chioma is proud of him and supports him.
Isreal DMW, Personal aide of Davido. source: Instagram He tweeted, “Israel DMW records: • no domestic abuse • no cheating allegations • no baby mamas Result – wife packed out of his wife and divorced him Davido records: • multiple cheating allegations • multiple baby mamas Result – wife is proud of him and supporting him Lesson – women find good men boring. A woman would rather forgive sins of masculinity but punish the good deeds of weakness Learn OR perish!!!”
“Marry women who earn higher than you” – Daddy Freeze updates men
Renowned media personality, Daddy Freeze has shared a fresh update as he advises men to marry women who earn higher than them. In a video posted on social media, Daddy Freeze updated men with reasons why they ought to marry wealthier women. Daddy Freeze He advised men to be bold and make request from ladies of what they can offer to them and also inquire how much they can get for monthly allowance. According to him, a woman who cannot pay you monthly allowance is not worth your time. Daddy Freeze cited sons of some influential men and how they also married daughters of other wealthy men. He noted that it is high time men begin to rate women the same way they are rated. See netizens reactions below: mizkimorahprecious wrote: “Na respect and submission una talk ohh. Men love respect and submissi0n. Which one come be monthly allowance again now. Una don start.” iameniolamyde penned: “Daddy freeze , I rej£ct this for myself , I’m a giv£r and a giv£r I’ll forever be , My eg0 no go even let me ask woman for money. Where I come from nah we Dey take absolute care of wom£n.” desmony1 said: “Words like this only groom weak men, we are not wired to be weak we are kings. I’m a king 👑” WATCH VIDEO:
Relationship counselor advise women to stick with good men
A relationship counselor has advised women against going along with the popular statement of keeping your options open if you’re young and beautiful. The man shared this on his Tiktok page, @israelonadare, where he gives advice to his followers. He explained that a lot of women nowadays are advised to not be in a committed relationship but rather keep their options open to get the best catch. The relationship counselor believes that only foolish people think that way. Instead, he implored women to hold tightly, a man who truly loves and cares for them. Although he acknowledges that while inside a relationship a man would misbehave, the woman should bear with him as he is also a human being like her. He begs women to use their head as the new men who are asking them out are single for a reason and people would treat you nicely at first when they’re looking for something. See some reactions @brownx-xsugax wrote: “Funny how I was committed and he ended up telling me to move on.” @Ademiebml said: “I dey always tell my babe anytime I show her shege say street tight…na me be the best husband material she go ever see😂” @MC CEDAR wrote: “Many single people out there are just unlucky and misunderstood too.. sometimes I think relationship is not for my type” @A🍃 reacted: “I’m never letting my man go regardless!🥺❤️” @evansetom73 added: “Everybody pretends to be an angel when they need something new, I get it” @Davej said: “Abeg no tell them.. no spoil parol for us…dem go learn the hard way😂” Watch video here @israelonadare If you are still young and beautiful , do this in your relationship #fyp #love #relationship #motivation #israelonadare ♬ original sound – Israel Onadare
Married woman drags women who bill men they are not married to
A married woman has advised her fellow gender, telling them that a responsible woman with good home training will not bill a man she is not married to. She shared this video on her Tiktok page, @ms_raphys, where she drops relationship advice for both genders. At the start of the video, she admits that this conversation is not what a lot of women like to hear. She condemns other women who bill men, claiming it is a sign of irresponsibility and shows lack of good home training. According to her, if your parents and family are looking out for you as a woman, you wouldn’t have to beg a man you’re not married to for money. She insists that a relationship is not a money making venture and it is not your right as a woman to get paid for being in a relationship. The married woman further castigates women who request for monthly allowance from their boyfriends. See some reactions @Moh said: “Soon as you ask me for money, I just know I’m wasting my time.” @✨STAR✨ wrote: “Dey play😂😂 it’s okay for him to tell me to come over to his house but it’s not okay for me to bill him?? Am I his mother?????? 😏😏” @Mama K added: “I agree , don’t bill him. I like it when a Man gives out of the goodness of his heart. He shouldn’t have to be told, before gifting his girl money.” @The Enchiridion! said: “Relationship don turn job opportunity” @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ reacted: “Aunty Billi go think say na Understanding girlfriend talk b this” Watch video here @ms_raphys This is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp ♬ original sound – Rafiah
Man advises women to stop pampering men
A man has taken to social media to tell women not to pamper or pity men but rather give them problems at all times. He made this known via his TikTok handle, @body_shock, where he made it clear that caring for a man is detrimental to the woman. This young man believes that pampering a man is like feeding a lion and the decision will come back to haunt one. In his words; “I pity for women wey dey pamper men, like I pity for you guys. You just pamper men, like when he’s angry, you’re angry. You don’t just like when he’s in a bad mood, you always want to be with him when he’s at his lowest.” “Caring for men is like feeding a lion, when he grow, he go chop you. You don’t pity men, no, you show them shege. They are to be shown maximum and premium shege.” “Men are to be shot on sight. You just dey dig your own grave if you dey care for men
You’re feeding him, you don’t know you’re feeding your downfall. When he grows, he’s going to chop you. My dear show men shege o.” Some reactions to his video: @M&E disagreed: “me i must pamper my husband no matter what you say because i want him to live longer by the grace of God.” @_pohki wrote: “This was the message I needed,this man go see a diff shade of pepper today!” @olabrity💞 said: “He sounds mean but it’s true, they’re always miserable when they’re at their lowest and they’d make it your fault for trying to be there for them.” Watch video here… @body_shock ♬ original sound – BINI BOY👺👺
Relationship guru advises women who accept men’s bad behavior
A relationship guru has advised women, letting them know men are not dumb but rather know the women who will accept their bad behavior and go on to treat them horribly. He shared the video to his Tiktok page, @kingsleyeyitaproduction, where he usually makes videos advising people on dating and lifestyle. According to him, a man who doesn’t put effort to be with a woman remains that way because she tolerates it , saying men are not as dumb as they make it out to seem. Relationship guru, Kingsley Eyita. He explained in an hypothetical example that the same guy who doesn’t put effort for one woman will do the most for another woman because she doesn’t tolerate nonchalance and he would conform to her standards. The relationship guru blamed women who did not set standards and hold on to it, citing that as the reason why men act very lackadaisical with them. See some reactions below… @Geraldine Timkay🥰 said: “my friend will watch this and still make excuses for him. How can I help her ?” @Ekkua added: “I got this wisdom , and I started attracting responsible men…. Men are not complicated, don’t be over excited because a man showed interest you!!!” @S4SS-QU33N wrote: “Then they label you as dramatic or argumentative because you know how to stand your ground” @Kalizya Clara Tija M said: “I learnt this lesson abit late but better late than never,I never understood why I was treated like a door mat, I was the “understanding girlfriend” Watch video here @kingsleyeyitaproduction The goal of this video is to tell women that men are not as dumb as you might think, We know which women we can get away with bad treatment with and which women. We dare not treat badly. These women in general are women with very high standards and they enforce those standards when they need to. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology ♬ original sound – Kingsley Eyita | Life Topics.
Relationship counselor tell men to avoid women who out-earn them
A popular relationship counselor has advised men to avoid dating women who earn more than them. The relationship counselor who runs an anonymous account on the X app has always preached about staying 5 steps ahead of your woman as a man. He holds the strong opinion that as a man you shouldn’t be dependent on your woman but rather be the leader. His tweet said; “If you drive a toyota corolla, don’t date a lady that is driving a benz.
If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m.
If you’re a BSc holder, don’t date a lady that has a PhD.
If you’ve never left Nigeria before, don’t date a lady that has traveled the world.
End.” He also made a follow-up tweet where he dragged Lekki and Abuja “big boys”, while claiming their modus operandi is to wait for their women to feed them. See post below…
Lady calls women to beg God so he can review menstruation terms
A lady has called on other women to seek God’s forgiveness after Eve sinned so that the terms of their menstruation can be reviewed. The famous artist who was inspired by menstrual cramps shared the wonderful idea on her page, @iamrenike, on the microblogging platform, X. She shared her thoughts where she feels women should come together to grow the best apple in the world and give it to God. Her menstruation terms includes God giving women menstruation for only three days and for 45 minutes in those days, women should be put to sleep while God works. She added that women can also ask God for a spiritual operation, either a BBL, breast reduction surgery or whatever the woman needs. Many women have agreed with her hilarious post in the comment section as some of them claim the menstrual cycle is quite strenuous. See post here: Some reactions below: @Favvy_bae asked: “Who will be the spokesperson? Cause I can carry placards 🥹” @scholasticaife wrote: “Sign me up. I have had it for more than half of my life but I still can’t get use to it *Cries in menstrual cramps* 😢😢😭😭” @Lizzycute_ said: “I’m in support of this, we can add goat as burnt offering😩” @Modupeoluwa_O added: “I’m game! Like Daddy, we understand the necessity but can you make it quicker and easier? Why do we have to bleed all through the year and still have to go through the other things that come with it. We barely have a whole week to live normally every month 🤲🏾😩”