A relationship guru has advised women, letting them know men are not dumb but rather know the women who will accept their bad behavior and go on to treat them horribly. He shared the video to his Tiktok page, @kingsleyeyitaproduction, where he usually makes videos advising people on dating and lifestyle. According to him, a man who doesn’t put effort to be with a woman remains that way because she tolerates it , saying men are not as dumb as they make it out to seem. Relationship guru, Kingsley Eyita. He explained in an hypothetical example that the same guy who doesn’t put effort for one woman will do the most for another woman because she doesn’t tolerate nonchalance and he would conform to her standards. The relationship guru blamed women who did not set standards and hold on to it, citing that as the reason why men act very lackadaisical with them. See some reactions below… @Geraldine Timkay🥰 said: “my friend will watch this and still make excuses for him. How can I help her ?” @Ekkua added: “I got this wisdom , and I started attracting responsible men…. Men are not complicated, don’t be over excited because a man showed interest you!!!” @S4SS-QU33N wrote: “Then they label you as dramatic or argumentative because you know how to stand your ground” @Kalizya Clara Tija M said: “I learnt this lesson abit late but better late than never,I never understood why I was treated like a door mat, I was the “understanding girlfriend” Watch video here @kingsleyeyitaproduction The goal of this video is to tell women that men are not as dumb as you might think, We know which women we can get away with bad treatment with and which women. We dare not treat badly. These women in general are women with very high standards and they enforce those standards when they need to. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology ♬ original sound – Kingsley Eyita | Life Topics.
“They said my behavior was abnormal and un-Nigerian” – Man recalls how he was arrested at bank for ‘calmly waiting’ while others were rushing
A man has related how he was reportedly arrested at a bank because he exercised patience and calmly waited his turn while other customers were rushing to get their money.
The story was shared by a Nigerian man identified as Najeeb Bello Oyarese on Twitter while responding to a tweet which asked people to share their arrest story. According to the Oyarese, he was at the bank in Benin patiently waiting in line for two hours at a bank on a Friday while others were scrambling to collect their cash. He claimed that some officers of DSS extraction had arrested him because they had found his behavior ‘very abnormal and unNigerian’.
The backstory, as told by the narrator which led up to his arrest, was that the DSS had supposedly been monitoring two men to tender a check at the counter so they can arrest them in the act. They had however noticed that the narrator had been in the bank for over two hours and had not been showing eagerness to take his own money, which led them to suspect and apprehend him. Read his full narration below: “Benin was the craziest because DSS arrested me in GTBank, Sapele Road because I entered the bank on a Friday and calmly waited for hours while others were rushing to get their money. They said my behaviour was very abnormal and unNigerian. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ By the way, this is the worst day of my life and I plan to make a movie about it. It started with me taking a bus from UNIBEN to Ring Road on a rainy day, and the bus parked up inside a big pool of mud at Uselu. Passengers had to come out in the rain and wade through the mud. The day ended with me finally arriving back in Ekosodin and my neighbours came out of the hostel begging me that they had messed up big time. What happened? They took my keys to watch movies in my room, tried to keep the key back on top of my window, but it fell into the room. Anyway, middle of the story….when they brought those 2 criminals out, they used one handcuff to cuff them together, but immediately I got out of the bank, they used a brand new pair of silver handcuffs to cuff my hands together, as per mastermind. It had to be a nightmare! The worst part was the way bank staff I had known for years reacted: “Ah! Sadiq’s brother is among them? You can never really trust people O!” 🙆🏾🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♂️ Only one came out to ask if he could call my brother. I said no. Asked him to reach into my wallet, ‘call General Zibiri’! General Zibiri talked to the DSS team lead, and all I heard was “I’m sorry sir, Yes sir, I’m sorry sir, Yes sir”. After the call he told his men, “Let him go!”. They uncuffed me, and I walked up to him. Asked ‘Is that all?’. He apologized, and that was when I asked him why… He said he was observing the 2 criminals waiting for them to tender the cheque again so he could arrest, then he noticed me having entered the bank for more than 2 hours, I seemed unbothered about getting my money. I wasn’t rushing, wasn’t stressing. Very unNigerian and abnormal.”
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Lagos Benin was the craziest because DSS arrested me in GTBank, Sapele Road because I entered the bank on a Friday and calmly waited for hours while others were rushing to get their money. They said my behaviour was very abnormal and unNigerian. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ https://t.co/xhD4uweKXA — Nejeeb Bello Oyarese (@NejeebBello) April 20, 2023
Portable to face prosecution over rude behavior to Ogun state police officer
Controversial singer, Habeeb Adunni Olawunmi Okikiola also known well as Portable is set to face prosecution for being rude to a police officer. In the early hours of yesterday, some police officers stormed the apartment of the singer Portable to arrest him. A video popped up on social media where Potable was heard shouting and challenging the police. He was heard saying: “I am a federal Government liability. I work with the Government too. I work with APC”. Following the incident, the Nigerian Police Force, Olumuyiwa Adejobi, stated that Portable was likely to suffer persecution over his behavior towards the police officer.
According to Olumuyiwa Adejobi, Portable declined to accept earlier invitations, the reason why some police officers stormed his house to arrest him. While speaking to Linda Ikeji Blog, the police command disclosed that countless invitations were sent to Portable but refused to honor the invitation; leading to his arrest. However, the singer resisted and caused a commotion at his bar. The police command stated that the action of the singer is unlawful and subject to punishment under Nigerian criminal law.
“He has an uncontrollable superiority complex and childish behavior”
“From the queen of bad behavior herself”
Popular reality star, Natasha ‘Tacha‘ Akide, faced backlash at the hands of netizens who condemned her for trying to sound righteous on the topic bothering ‘bad behavior.’
The once-controversial brand influencer took to her Instagram story to lament the social encouragement of bad behaviors, especially amongst the youth of today.
“Bad behavior being constantly encouraged, ignored behavior is condoned behavior,” she wrote.
Tacha’s outcry was, however, meat with criticism from netizens who crowned the ex-BBNaija housemate as the Queen of bad behaviors.
See some reactions below …
“From the queen of bad behavior herself,” @ehimen wrote.
“Coming from Tacha This is funny,” @Wendy_adamma wrote.
“Naso we encourage your own Instagram twerk those days….. 2018 set,” @updategees wrote.
@Vivian wrote: “Just like they encouraged yours until you became a star.”
“The jokes write themselves,” @Ogonna wrote.
“Coming from who pls… dat was ur rise to fame madam,” @Simplylydia wrote.
“See person wey Dey talk. Bad behavior herself,” @Amy wrote.
“Isn’t the Lord great?! This coming from the same Tacha we saw on BBN,” @Deniran wrote.