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Lady in tears over inability to have children after alleged 35 abortions (Video)

Young Nigerian lady is faced with marital crisis after reportedly carrying out 35 abortions which led to her childlessness.

A video making the rounds on social media captured the confession of a lady who alleged to have carried out 35 abortions during her life leaving her with a scar to carry on forever. She stated that the implication of her abortion rampage has left her with an option of divorce as the doctor confirmed to her to she can never have a child of her own.

”I have aborted 35 kids at the age of 20, now am married and the doctor said I can’t give birth again. Now I have to get a divorce,” she wrote while sharing the video. Watch the video below …

“Too smart to be managed by one woman” — Kenyan man with 8 wives, 7 concubines and 107 children boasts

Kenyan man, David Zakayo Kalukhana, a resident of Teresia Village located at the periphery of Kakamega County, has 107 offspring from his eight wives and seven concubines.

The 63-year-old, who hails from a village situated on the vast Nandi escarpment in Kakamega North sub-county, entered into his first marriage in 1987 but later decided to take on more partners. “A head like mine cannot be managed by one woman. It is like a big sack of maize which has to be divided into smaller parts for ease of movement. I need many wives so that they can manage the amount of brains and ideas in my head. I am too smart for one wife,” Mr Kalukhana told the Sunday Nation. Mr Zakayo’s Financial Status: Provision for Family

Although he has 107 children from his multiple wives and concubines, David Zakayo Kalukhana does not consider himself wealthy based on local standards. He mentioned owning only a half-acre plot of land where he grows maize to feed his family and sugarcane. To provide for his large family, he undertakes menial jobs, such as landscaping activities. His compound comprises three semi-permanent houses that have mud walls and iron sheet roofs. Despite the challenges he faces in providing for his extensive family, Mr Kalukhana remains resolute and compares himself to the biblical King Solomon, who had 700 wives and 300 concubines. “I have wives in different places, including in the neighbouring Nandi County. When I’m not farming, I go out to do menial work, including constructing stone fences around people’s homes. The work is well-paying and it has helped me make some money to keep my family going. They will never sleep hungry as long as I’m alive,” said Mr Kalukhana. Motive for Marrying Multiple Wives “When I married my first wife Jesca Asembo in 1987, I felt like she was not up to the task. I have added more but I still have the urge to add more. All my children of school going age attend school. I toil daily to raise money to ensure they are in school to get an education for their future. I don’t believe in religion. I live my life through my own intervention because I am a genius,” he said. Jealousy Amongst Wives The wives of David Zakayo Kalukhana, who belong to various age groups, work and dine together, sharing their meals. They also collaborate on household tasks and treat their husband with great reverence. In photographs, they are seen laughing and teasing each other while feeding each other joyfully.

According to one of his wives, Ms Asembo, she has never experienced any jealousy towards the other wives. “I love my husband and that is all that matters. Even if he brings in additional wives, I will not be bothered because I understand him. He is a responsible man and whatever he does is always right because he takes his time to decide on what to do,” said Ms Asembo. Dorine Kalukhana, Mr Kalukhana’s seventh wife, admitted to feeling envious when she first got married but eventually grew accustomed to the situation. “Today, there is no jealousy. We all live in harmony and no woman feels jealous of the other. Our man treats us equally,” she said.

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“When he dey pay your children school fees, e no be thug” — Dayo Amusa shades colleague

Popular Nollywood actress, Dayo Amusa, terms a colleague of hers a ‘bloody ingrate’ for referring to her former sponsor as a thug.

The actress took to her Instagram to call out a particular colleague who used to receive financial support from someone she now calls a thug. Without mentioning anyboy’s name, Dayo Amusa insisted that the colleague she is referring to knows herself. “When he dey pay your children’s school fees, e no be thug.
When he dey pay your children’s birthday party bills, he no be thug!!
When he dey pay your house rent, he no be thug!!
When he dey sponsor your fight tickets, he no be thug!!
When he dey lodge you and your children for hotel for weeks when depression wan kill you, he no be thug!!
When he dey pay your new house mortgage, he no be thug!!
BLOODY INGRATE!” she wrote.

In a follow-up post, she clarified that her post had nothing to do with anyone’s choice of presidential candidate, rather, the person in questions knows who she is. “Eyin oya bebeto (Too forward people). My last post was not to justify reasons for voting BAT or any candidate. E lo fokan ba le (rest your mind). The ingrate sabi himself,” Dayo Amusa added.

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Kaduna couple and six children perish in fire accident

A tragic incident took place in the Sabon gari area of Zaria, Kaduna State where a family of eight, including a couple and their six children, lost their lives in a fire that destroyed their home. The incident occurred on February 23, 2023, around 2 am in the Hayin Ojo area while the family was asleep. According to a report from Daily Trust, Mallam Junaidu Mohammed, a neighbour, confirmed the tragic incident on Friday. “Though we could not ascertain the cause of the inferno, it started around 2am on Thursday when everybody was asleep. “But we could not rescue the family alive. All efforts to get the fire service to the scene were not successful. We didn’t see firefighters until we buried the victims,” Mohammed stated. Elder brother of the deceased father, Adamu Mohammed, said, “Those who lost their lives in the inferno include his late brother, Mallam Rabi’u Mohammed and his wife, Fatima. Others were his six children, Rabiatu, Ibrahim, Abubakar, Hauwa’u, Hindatu and Baby Umar, who was about 34 days old. We actually could not identify the cause of the fire, but the whole house was completely burnt.” All the possessions in the house were entirely destroyed. The deceased family members were laid to rest in accordance with Islamic customs.

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Why I was banned from posting my children

Nigerian dancer, Korra Obidi, has revealed why she was banned alongside her ex-husband, Justin Dean, from posting their children, June and Athena, online. Recall, in a court document dated January 19th 2022, the ex-couple were banned from posting videos, photos or live-stream of their children, or any content that has their children in it on social media until further notice.

However, in a recent post, a follower questioned Korra to know if her last daughter, Athena, had already started walking. Reacting to this, Korra Obidi noted that no information about her children will be shared online again because some netizens called child protective services from different parts of the world to complain whenever she posts her children. In her words: “Is Athena walking yet? You will never know, you will never know if she’s walking, you will never see her again because some of you were foolish enough to be calling from the UK calling child services 50 times. “Now they have blocked you, you can’t see them anymore how does it feel to be a fool? You can’t see them anymore, they are gone. Out of the media eyes period.” Watch the video below:

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Jasmine Blocker ties her fallopian tube; gives reasons she doesn’t want children (Video)

A 30-year-old American athlete, Jasmine Blocker, gives reasons as she medically ties her fallopian tube to prevent having children. She took to her official TikTok page to share the journey of her fallopian tube surgery known as Tubal Ligation – a reversible medical surgery. The athlete revealed that she made the decision because she does not feel what every other woman feels when it comes to having children of their own.

Sharing a comment from one of her followers who stated that she on her end loves kids for no reason, Jasmine stated that she lacks what it took to feel the same way. “This is beautiful and it’s actually comments like this that really made me realize that mom life just isn’t for me 💕,” she wrote. Watch the video below …

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“Homosexuality is not a crime; we are all children of God” — Pope Francis

The head of the Catholic Church, Pope Francis, argues that homosexuality is not a crime in the face of the law but only in sin in the church.

The revered priest made this known at an interview with The Associated Press on Wednesday, January 25. The Pope emphasized the love God has for all his children while calling on Catholic bishops who support the laws to welcome LGBTQ people into the church. “Being homos£xual isn’t a crime; Yes, but it’s a sin. Fine, but first let’s distinguish between a sin and a crime. It’s also a sin to lack charity with one another,” Pope Francis stated.

Speaking further on the discrimination against the LGBTQ community, Pope Francis encouraged bishops to embrace tenderness for the rainbow people. “These bishops have to have a process of conversion, tenderness, please, as God has for each one of us. We are all children of God, and God loves us as we are and for the strength that each of us fights for our dignity,” he added.

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Court bans Korra Obidi and Justin Dean from posting their children on social media

A California court in the United States of America bans the famous dancer, Korra Obidi, and her ex-husband, Justin Dean, from posting their kids on social media.

The couple have been through a back and forth social media battles during their marriage before it crashed last year. Korra Obidi informed her followers earlier this week that Justin Dean started another court case in an attempt to take her kids from her after their daughter complained about hunger under her mother’s care. A day after, Justin released a photo of him and their daughters with a caption that appeared to taunt Korra. In a court document dated January 19th 2022, the ex-couple, who are parents to June Dean and Athena Dean, were banned from posting videos, photos or live-stream of their children or any content that have their children in it on social media until further notice.

The court order partly reads, “Neither party may post any videos, photos or live-stream the minor children on any social media platform nor allow the minor children to appear in any picture, video or live-stream posted to any social media platform without further Court Order. Neither party may take video, photos or live stream any interaction between the parties in this matter until further Court Order.”

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Husband to lecturer who delivered seven children shares wife’s post birth experience

Mr. Celestine Uzodike, the husband to the UNIZIK lecturer who gave birth to septuplets reveals his wife was unconscious for three days as he narrates the traumatic experience which followed postpartum period.

He said that his wife went unconscious for three days after giving birth to the infants at Obijackson Women and Children Hospital in Okija on Sunday. In an interview with punch, he said; “For three days, she was very unconscious, but between yesterday and today, she appears stronger, and I hope her condition continues to improve.” The couple were charged a total of 19 million naira before they can take charge of the seven infants who had survived. Recall it was reported that the couple welcomed 5 girls and two boys, but one of the girls had died.

Speaking on why he appealed to Nigerians for help, he said; “The cost of caring for the babies is enormous, and we have exhausted all we have. The babies came out prematurely at 26th week gestation period and the hospital said they will need to be placed under intensive care unit and each of them will cost N3m. One of them has died, leaving six survivors. Their organs are still developing, and they will need to be placed in an intensive care unit to be given adequate care. I have had a series of meetings with the management of the hospital, and they told me that I should be expecting approximately N19m at the rate of N3.2m per child. This is to care for them for two months. I have spent all I have, and we don’t really know where to get the money from, which is why we are seeking the intervention of the government and every well-meaning individual.”

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Father of three undergoes vasectomy only to later discover none were his children

Father of three undergoes vasectomy only to discover none were his children

A father of three reportedly undergoes vasectomy only to find out afterwards that none of his children biologically belongs to him.

A Twitter user identified as Doctor Penking took to the platform to share the ordeal of a patient of his whom he encouraged to get a vasectomy. The intention was to ease the struggle of family planning on his wife who had all their kids through the Caesarian section. About a year later, the man in question was hit with the heartbreaking truth about the paternity of his children after a DNA test. Read the full narration below … “I’ve battled so much to avoid saying this but I still got to say it because the guilt is enveloping me. February 11, 2022 at 9:40am, a young man approached me here on Twitter and asked to consult me. I gave him instructions and after making payment I set up a virtual consultation. It was nothing serious, he just wanted to inquire about how safe vasectomy is. He had completed his family size, a boy and 2 beautiful girls. I assured him that it is completely safe with no major side effects apart from mild discomfort and some bruising which can actually be well-managed. I went ahead to encourage him that it is a sacrifice he can make for his wife to spare her the clouds of disruptions associated with female hormonal contraceptives. I felt even more pity for the woman when I learnt that all the 3 children were birthed through CS. The strong woman had already gone under the knife thrice. It would have been perfect if the couple had made the decision to stop procreation before the third CS, then, immediately after removing the baby, the Doctor would have carried out Tubal ligation like I always do,
Thereby Killing two birds with one stone with no extra surgical risks. Unfortunately, Their decision came way after the third pregnancy and I felt it would be inhumane to advise him to send back that poor woman back under the knife for the fourth time, for tubal ligation.
Hence, I used every drop of saliva in me to convince him to bear the brunt for his wife this last time. He listened to me!!!! This man contacted me on Sunday 8/01/2023, without much words, he sent me the DNA Paternity Test Results of “his” 3 children.
Till today I’ve not been able to reply him. I act like I am okay but My days are disrupted and my nights are long and cold. Last night specifically I woke up more than 7 times.

All I can read on the result is.
Probability of Paternity:0%
Probability of Paternity:0%
Probability of Paternity: 0% Dear Nigerian Women, why do you make our job so difficult? 😥. Why????😥😥 Today 11th January, 2023, I hereby withdraw every support I threw behind Vasectomy. My Dear Nigerian Audience, please Vasectomy is not an option for you. Firstly, how sure are you that the children you are boasting of are truly yours? I am currently writing a Paper on Sociocultural Banes Discrediting Vasectomy in Africa using Nigeria as a Case Study. I pray it is accepted for publication in the International Journal of Reproductive Medicine. The world needs to know what is happening in Nigeria and when
medical tycoons all over the world are preaching Vasectomy, they need to learn to keep Nigerian Men out of their mouth. Or another valid suggestion is, if you ever Vasectomy, do paternity test for your children first before going under the knife. Vasectomy in itself is very safe and effective. Nigerian women are the ones changing the practice of medicine with their lifestyle. Odogwus 🙌🏼 🙌🏼 Why don’t you just divorce your husband and get married to the man that is impregnating you inside your matrimonial home? Why y’all so w1cked? Just imagine nursing a Post CSection woman for three different times not knowing you aren’t the father? Why?????”

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