A gay man has advised fellow gay men in Nigeria to get married to women as coverup because of the condemnation they face in the country. He shared the post which has now received backlash on his Twitter account, @chimeeadioha. This is coming just after Toyin Lawani exposed Nigerian gay men who get married to unsuspecting women and still cheat with other men. The young man believes it is a means to escape the constant homophobia in Nigeria and these gay men should do all they can to survive. In his words; “Please, if you’re a homosexual man in Nigeria & you have the capacity & ability to marry a woman, please marry. Navigating an intense homophobic society where heterosexuality is forced upon you requires anything you can do to survive this oppression you can’t control.” However, many Netizens have strongly condemned his actions and refuted his advise. SEE POST HERE SOME REACTIONS TO THE POST @sophiaposh wrote: “You’re a very wicked man, I hope she cheats on you severally and births twin boys as a result of her infidelity” @phychem111 said: “This is unfair to the unsuspecting woman who have sexual expectations from her spouse. Make this kind man no near any of my people o” @KingTaiwo_ asked: “How does marrying a woman fix this?” @LupinIkenga commented: “This is pure wickedness and I don’t wish this on any woman” @exoticmadam advised: “Under the agreement that she knows you are homosexual and she is okay with the marriage”
“Change the IG surname, build your own identity” – Yomi Casual’s wife advises May Edochie
May Edochie, the first wife of Yul Edochie, has been advised by Yomi Casual’s wife, Grace Makun to change her surname on Instagram. She offered the counsel after May used her page to reflect on the previous year, 2023, claiming it had stolen her flesh and blood and left her in the most terrible condition. Even though the businesswoman and the actor are no longer together after the actor’s marriage to Judy Austin, a colleague, Yul’s surname is still on her page as they are yet to divorce officially. Kambiichukwu, the 16-year-old son of May and Yul, died tragically last year after collapsing during a game of football at school.
May Edochie, First wife of Yul Edochie, Source: Google On Monday, May shared a worship video on her Instagram account, sharing the sorrow and destruction this year has brought. She wrote; “Dear 2023, you were pregnant on the very first day of Jan unknown to anyone what you would deliver. You dealt with me in the most catastrophic ways…. Too many adversities/misfortunes and the worst of it, you stole my own flesh and blood, leaving me in the most devastating, miserable, and confused state that I could never have imagined. I lost all hope and nearly gave up, I had too many questions eating me all up but I kept hearing that voice echoing, ‘Who am I to question God?’ I struggled so hard and stood on God’s words commanding us to give Him praise in every situation despite how difficult it is. Truly, I appreciate all the good people you made me cross paths with (my family, friends, strangers turned friends and my online family). I cannot begin to list names because it is endless but I want y’all to know that I will forever remain thankful for the incredible level of love and support showered upon me and my family in our most difficult times. I’m grateful to God Almighty for being God in my life, in other words, I’m so glad that man is not God. 2023, it is with all that is within me, I say goodbye to you forever as I embrace the new year 2024 singing my song with a life of thanksgiving, a life of forgiveness, and a life of commitment to God. I pray that God in His infinite mercy and goodness will bless us all and shield us under His constant love.🙏 Afflictions shall never rise in our homes in Jesus’ name🙏, I wish you all a happy and prosperous new year! ❤️” Reacting, Grace said the first step towards healing is for her to take down her estranged hubby’s family name and take up her own. “Make we comot this IG name first…. 2024. Grab your own identity and flourish with it. May God continue to strengthen you,” she wrote.
“Manifest a rich handsome man this 2024” – Joro Olumofin advises ladies
Popular love doctor, Joro Olumofin has dropped a vital piece of advice for ladies not to chide away from desiring a rich and handsome man. Joro stressed the value of women achieving their goals and asserted that they have the right to manifest riches, love, and happiness.
Joro Olumofin The relationship expert counselled women against compromising in 2024 and urged them to never allow a man diminish their value. Joro Olumofin advocated for women to follow their own desires, regardless of whether they want taller men or want to be with a wealthy man. He went on to say that women should stick to their preferences and shouldn’t feel bad about having high expectations. In his words: “Ladies, In 2024; Don’t settle You deserve all the Happiness, Love and Riches. You deserve it. It’s your right. Manifest a Rich handsome man. Don’t let any Man make you think you deserve less. Don’t compromise in 2024. (1) If you like tall guys, wait for a tall guy (2) If you believe you should be a rich man’s wife, don’t date a guy who doesn’t have plans to be rich (3) Don’t apologize for having good taste. For you to manifest a handsome, rich man. Make sure you have ” Good Character” and great Qualities yourself.” SEE POST:
Ebuka Uchendu advises Nigerians over 30 years to prioritize enjoying themselves
Popular media personality, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu has stirred reactions as he advised Nigerians over 30 years to try enjoying themselves. Ebuka stated that, with an average life expectancy of almost 70 years, turning thirty marks the beginning of the second stage of life.
Ebuka Obi-Uchendu He urged those in Nigeria who are in this age group to prioritize living life to the fullest. Ebuka also emphasized how crucial it is for those over 30 to cherish their life experiences. He wrote: “If you’re 30+ in Nigeria, you’re probably already in the 2nd half of your life based on our life expectancy. Try dey enjoy” See netizens reactions below: Tony C Nwabufoh wrote: “No be if money dey?.. But by his grace man must survive.” Thelma Abraham penned: “You are Scaring me Sir 🥺🥺, Na Only this year I carry myself go chop pizza on Christmas Day” Flawlessammy said: “At all age try manage, be contented, happy and enjoy the little you have even while hoping for the best either above or below 30 because nobody can actually do anything about the length of life but it’s depth and breadth” SEE POST:
Daniel Regha advises Nasboi on skin care, he reacts
Controversial Twitter personality, Daniel Regha has given his two cents on how skitmaker, Nasboi can take care of his skin this season. Daniel Regha, who is known for not minding his business, advised Nasboi to take care of his skin in his recently uploaded photo.
Daniel Regha Daniel sent a direct message to Nasboi, advising him to use moisturizer as his skin was a bit dry. He went on to stress how crucial it is to maintain hydration of the skin’s outer layer. Sharing a screenshot of their conversation, Nasboi informed Daniel that it was an old picture.
Nasboi The comedian pleaded with his fans to help him beg Daniel Regha to leave him alone. Daniel Regha wrote: “Pls normalize applying a little more moisturizer this season, especially if you often use an AC. Couldn’t help but notice that your skin was a bit dry in your recently uploaded post. It is very important for the outer layer one’s skin to stay hydrated.” SEE BELOW:
“How to catch any man you desire” – Jude Ighalo’s ex-wife advises women
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The ex-wife of footballer Jude Ighalo, Sonia, has taken to social media to dish out some relationship advice, offering insights on how to capture any man in a relationship.
The mother of three took to her Instastories to share her wisdom on the crucial elements that can make relationship work well.
In a post on her Instastories, Sonia speaks on the importance of respect in a relationship, noting that it goes a long way.
According to her, men appreciate respect, and it plays a key role in strengthening the bond between partners.
Sonia also mentioned that using kind words is important in a relationship. She emphasized the power of speaking kindly, suggesting that avoiding harsh words can make a significant difference and endear a lady to a man.
Sonia also touched on the significance of a nice approach, stating that how a woman approaches a man matters. A polite and respectful manner, she suggested, can go a long way in establishing a connection.
Additionally, Sonia talked about submissiveness, expressing that a woman who can humble herself and be supportive is more likely to attract and keep any man in a relationship.
She wrote;
“Nothing catches a man like Respect, Soft words, Nice Approach and Submissiveness.
Apply this and enjoy your relationship.”
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“Don’t get married; it’s a scam” – Maureen Esisi advises
Nigerian entrepreneur, Maureen Esisi, a.k.a Red Vigor has advised those looking for a partner never to get married because it’s a scam. The businesswoman made a long list of requirements and things to consider before getting married.
Maureen Esisi Maureen Esisi gave some advice on her list: prioritise morality over religion, don’t ignore moral failings, have sex with your significant other before heading down the aisle, and learn to save money for a rainy day. The ex-wife of actor, Blossom Chukwujekwu also noted that transparency in marriage is sometimes unhealthy. She said divorce on the grounds of adultery is not a sin, be sexually compatible before marriage, do not marry a liability for the sake of love and respect is as important as food. She added that understanding that your mother-in-law is not your mother, being respectful of each other’s privacy, and having money in a marriage are all very important. Above all, Maureen declared in her conclusion, marriage is a fraud and no one should get married. SEE POSTS:
Thierry Henry advises Mbappe to stay at PSG beyond 2024
Kylian Mbappe – Getty image As Kylian Mbappe approaches the final six months of his contract at PSG, Thierry Henry has advised he remains with the club beyond 2024. The France icon made the comment following the player’s looming transfer speculations to Real Madrid. Henry tells Mbappe to reject the mouthwatering offer of Real Madrid and fulfill his Champions League hopes in Paris. He said, “I would like him to finish what he started. Why would he leave? He loves PSG and he’s from the city, you have to understand that.”
Kylian Mbappe – Getty image The France captain faces a critical decision on his future, with Real Madrid eyeing a free transfer deal at the end of the season. Real Madrid has reportedly set a deadline of January 15 for Mbappe to make his decision, exercising caution after the player’s previous choice to remain in Paris in 2022. Mbappe, who has secured five Ligue 1 titles with PSG, is lacking a single Champions league trophy.
US based Zambian man advises Africans what not to do in America
A US based Zambian man has supplied Africans with a list of things not to do when arriving America for the first time. He shared the video on his Instagram page, chanda_dwayne_bwalya. At the top of the list, he warned Africans to not fall for those adverts that offer to sell phones at ridiculously cheap prices. He insists even though it might seem free at first, one will pay for that item one way or another. The Zambian man He also states that Africans should never get into an ambulance. The Zambian man understands that it might be a unique experience for Africans who have not had the opportunity to be in one, but it is a very expensive venture. Finally, he ended it by saying Africans should make sure to ask around if they get a job as the Americans can tell when one is new. Watch video below
Pastor advises women to have access to husband’s phone
Pastor Femi Lazarus has advised the women in his congregation to not marry a man whose phone they cannot have access to. He warned women against subscribing to the idea that for them to have peace they should not go through their husbands’ phone. The pastor further explained that although he is at Ibadan, his devices is Lagos have his WhatsApp installed and his wife has liberty to see his chats. Pastor Femi Lazarus. According to him, many spouses should be accountable to themselves and have spiritual fathers or mothers who can call them to order if they go wrong. Some reactions to the video below oluwakemi._o said: “She can’t go thru your phone cos is private but u can go thru her private part hun??? Make it make sense.” veronicasdaughter wrote: “Nothing pains me more than the teaching women are given. Ur husband phone be like onions, if u open am, u go cry. Akuko. So I can open ur boxers but not ur phone? Marriage never hungry una.” asangba_jenny asked: “What do I need his phone password for? Special advisers everywhere” damilola_a_ reacted: “Apostle Lazarus steady shaking tables. This generation is not ready.” misshembe added: “I’ve never felt the need to check anybodys phone honestly.” Watch video here