Lady calls out boyfriend of 8 years who has refused to marry her

Lady calls out boyfriend of 8 years who has refused to marry her

A Nigerian lady has sought advice from netizens regarding a dilemma she is currently facing with two men in her life. The woman, who has been dating her partner for eight years and shares a child with him, is frustrated that he is yet to meet her family. She explained that every time she brings up the topic, he claims he cannot afford it. She recently met another man who has expressed his interest in meeting her family. However, she is still in love with her long-term partner and does not want to hurt him. She asked netizens for advice on what to do. In her words: “Gud day guys I am new here I need your advice please, I am dating a guy for the pass eight years now I am staying with him we have one daughter I love him but the problem is that he dont no my family. “Any time I ask him to go he we say he dont ave money, along the line so I meet this guy not up to one  month  he said that he want to see my family so wat will I do and I love my baby father.” See her post below:

Why you shouldn’t marry man who carries family’s problem – Lady

Why you shouldn't marry man who carries family's problem – Lady

A woman advises ladies on why they should not make the mistake of marrying a man who adopts his family’s problems. In a video which surfaced online, the unidentified woman explained to women why it’d be a lifetime mistake to marry such men who still adopt their family problems after marriage.

“Why you shouldn’t marry a man who carries his family’s problem” – Lady. Credit: Instablog/ Instagram. According to the woman, most women would begin to notice these things in the man’s behavior prior to marriage, and when they do, they should ensure they don’t marry the man. She explained that the man’s wife would only suffer because he would be using up his money and resources to take care of his immediate family’s need, neglecting that of his wife. Watch her speak; Reacting to the clip, dkokopee wrote: “But you want a man that will adopt your own family problems Most women once you marry them , you don open redemption camp for her family” wilsluv11 wrote: “FOOlish people everywhere on social media if you don’t have content just go do hOOkup, marriage is not for everyone……” julibeaut wrote: “Oh please shut up! But your brother can carry his family problem on his head and Marry someone else’s daughter abi? Make una dey reason before una talk o” dr_phili wrote: “What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Then the wife should also not bother the man with her family. The truth is, we can never leave our family totally. Yes, a couple will have autonomy over their lives but you cant just away your family.” vivianadoli wrote: “Men please don’t marry any woman that thinks helping or seeking advice from mother, brothers and sisters is crime, and again women make your own money” thekingtamuno wrote: “Stop this nonsense with your big lips. Not every man is like the one u married or didn’t marry so allow people make their choice . Instead of you to carry your own family problem on your head you are putting you railway nose in other people’s business”

“They both love me” – Confused Nigerian man seeks advice on who to marry between his two girlfriends

“They both love me” – Confused Nigerian man seeks advice on who to marry between his two girlfriends

A young Nigerian man has turned to the online community on Facebook to solicit counsel regarding his dilemma in choosing between two potential life partners. The perplexed individual disclosed that his initial partner demonstrates traits of kindness, assistance, self-reliance, and possesses a specific expertise. However, she struggles with managing her anger.

Nigerian man seeks advise regarding which one of his two girlfriends to marry On the contrary, his second girlfriend displays unwavering loyalty and a submissive nature. Regrettably, she lacks employment or a particular skill set. The young man finds himself at a crucial juncture where he is unable to determine which of these two women he should ultimately choose to marry. Taking to a Facebook group on Monday June 19, he wrote, “Help a brother, I have two girls that I am currently dating now. They both love me like bad, but am just trying to make a good choice, out of them, the first one is good, she is supportive, she always understand, she care so much, she doesn’t demand too much, and she have a hand work, but if she is angry with you or she suspect u of anything, they is always a war, even if u apologize, before she accept things as already been destroy. “The second one she is not yet working, she is caring too, and she always have a good plan for the feature, she is loyal, she ask question before getting to action, so guys which one is good to settle down with?” See the post below:

Man earning N100K salary ask lady earning N34 million to quit job and marry him

Man earning N100K salary ask lady earning N34 million to quit job and marry him

A Nigerian man who earns N100K monthly salary has asked a lady earning N34 million yearly to quit her job and marry him. The story was shared by the lady in question identified as RejiYates. She disclosed that the man told her to quit her job because she cannot earn more than her husband. Man earning N100K salary ask lady earning N34 million to quit job and marry himMan earning N100K salary ask lady earning N34 million to quit job and marry him. Photo credit: RejiYates. Source: Twitter The lady disclosed to him that aside from her salary, she loves her job because it makes her happy. However, the young man insisted she resigns from her job because her reason is not realistic. She tweeted, “This guy in Nigeria that knows my family asked if it would be okay for him to speak to my parents about marriage and I said no. I don’t have an interest in marrying him. “He asked why and I have my reasons. He focused on the financial reason. I simply said we aren’t in the same financial place and I don’t think it’s fair on both of us. “One, I don’t want to limit my lifestyle and he shouldn’t have to be pressured to earn more. It’s just unfair for both of us imo. He asked if I would give up my work for love and I said absolutely not. I explained I love my job, it’s something that brings me happiness and makes me who I am. It’s also part of my personal brand so it simply cannot go.  “He said my reasoning is not realistic. He gave me a range of his annual salary in naira which was around 100,000 – 200,000 which is fine and I said that isn’t bad. That’s what he earns and good on him. “I gave mine in naira which is 28 million – 34 million and he said I can’t earn more than my husband. “I called him insecure and he said a man is supposed to be the provider and there is nothing insecure about that. So I told him to go and provide for someone within his bracket. He can’t provide for me so he said he will report me to my family. “I don’t care if he reports me ’cause my family would legit laugh. The mentality alone is even madness. Why can’t I earn more and why would I give up that salary and work? He said women of nowadays want to be like men. Is this what Nigerian women deal with?”  Am I in the wrong here. Small story. This guy in Nigeria that knows my family asked if it would be okay for him to speak to my parents about marriage and I said no. I don’t have an interest in marrying him. He asked why and I have my reasons. He focused on the financial reason — Ok Go And Bring My Purse (@RejiYates) June 6, 2023

Lady clashes with man who says he will never marry a woman who spends N15k on makeup

Lady clashes with man who says he will never marry a woman who spends N15k on makeup

A young lady has clashed with a young man on Twitter after he disclosed that he will never marry a woman who spend N15,000 on makeup. The clash between the young lady and the man came about after she posted on her Twitter page that she found a makeup artist who will b charging her N15,000  for her makeup. 

Lady clashes with man over N15K makeup. Photo credit: Child of Thanksgiving. Source: Twitter The young lady initially disclosed that the earlier price she got from a makeup artist was N25,000 which she couldn’t afford. Hence she searched for a makeup artist who will charge her lesser. In response to the photo, the man, identified as Ridwan Aremu Adedapo, expressed his disapproval, stating that he cannot marry a woman who would spend N15k on makeup. “God knows I can’t marry a woman that will use N15k to do makeup, never!” he wrote, quoting the lady’s photo. In response, the young lady fired back saying, “That’s why I’m not and can never be your wife.” The young man, who was unwilling to let the issue slide without a response, wrote, “You don’t have what it takes to be my wife.” See the banter between the young lady and the man below.

Read some reactions from other social media users. @Morri_and the_bird commented, “You people are suffering in Lagos sha”. @Dixta also commented, “Truthfully speaking, this isn’t nice enough for 15k. You look good, BTW.” @The boy is good: “You do 15k makeup, wear clothes to advertise your [email protected] just to get men’s attention. Dem gives you attention, chops your clean mouth, and still throws you into the trash by moving on. What’s your gain Kofoworola?” @Alphaoteri: commented, “No. But as he tweeted, God will not allow me to date a woman that has to spend so much to look pretty for just one day. Forget the amount. It Screams, has no sense of value, and insecurities… (MY own thoughts) don’t come after me.”

“I can’t marry a mummy’s boy” – Angela Eguavoen

I can’t marry a mummy’s boy – Angela Eguavoen

Beautiful Nollywood actress, Angela Eguavoen has explained why she can’t continue a romantic relationship or even marry a “mummy’s boy”. Angela Eguavoen in an interview with Saturday Beat said that while she wants a man that has someone in his family that he respects and listens to, she wouldn’t be marrying a mummy’s boy.

I can’t marry a mummy’s boy – Angela Eguavoen

Actress Angela Eguavoen releases new photo. Source: Instagram She said; “I cannot marry a mummy’s boy. He has to be a man of himself. Of course, I want a man that has someone in his family that he respects and listens to. He has to be someone who keeps to his words, and cannot be easily swayed.” Angela also revealed that she won’t allow any relatives in her home. She said; “No family member will live with me and my husband unless she (mother-in-law) is sick and is in need of attention. I am a busy woman and not the type that would sit at home to take care of anybody. I am of the opinion that in-laws living permanently with a newly-wed couple is not good.” On fake friendships in Nollywood, the actress said; “I don’t know about them. I do not keep many friends. I have just a few of them and they have all been true to me. I believe friendship should not be a one-sided thing. If we (friends) are benefiting from each other, the person won’t think I am using them.

I can’t marry a mummy’s boy – Angela Eguavoen

Actress Angela Eguavoen. Source: Instagram “But, one way or the other, one person will outdo the other at some point. However, that one person is doing better than the other does not mean they cannot do better later.” She had also said in the past that she would rather remain single than be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect her. Angela said; “I love relationships, I love love. But I’d rather remain single than be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect me, have my back, or support me and most importantly my career. It’s a NO! NO!. For marriage, I am going to get married to the love of my life someday. But for now, I am single as they come.”

“Don’t be afraid to fail” – Polygamous pastor encourages men to marry more

“Don’t be afraid to fail” – Polygamous pastor encourages men to marry more

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A polygamous pastor, identified as Seraki Kemmonye Seraki has encouraged men never to fear to practice polygamy.
The Bostwana pastor who is married to two women says men should not harbor fear in their hearts when they want to marry more than one wife.
Polygamous pastor encourages men to marry more. Photo credit: Google. Source: Google
According to him, polygamy is not as ‘pretty and nice’ as he portrays it on social media; while disclosing the numerous fights and jealousy his two wives portray at home.
This comment from the pastor comes after a follower asked if his polygamous marriage was rosy.
He said;
“I never said polygamy is easy. I mean, I live polygamy daily, I know it’s ups and down. I am not the standard of polygamy, my failures and successes do not guarantee anything to any other person out there,” he said.
“If I fail, it does not mean you will fail. I have done so many things people told me I can’t do and aced them. We live once…if you strongly believe in something, do it. At least you would have tried.”
He further said;
“Just like any family out there, we fight, and I came across a few fights! We also differ on certain issues! From simple things as naming of kids to investments! It’s a whole array of feelings! We don’t like our past, or the past! We do everything in our power to avoid the past, but this morning I realized that my past, my past with my wives have so many beautiful memories.
“Once in a while, sit alone and revisit your past with your partner, there are so many good memories over there! What is happening right now does not represent everything about you guys, at times, use your past as a spring board to love each other again! I love you Kagiso. I love you Mpho.”

Fuel subsidy: “Marry him if he gives you lift and puts on AC for you”

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Radio presenter and rapper, Nnamdi Nwabalisi, well known as N6 has shared a piece of advice to ladies as Nigerians face hikes in fuel prices. The President of Nigeria, Bola Tinubu during his speech at his inauguration at Eagle Square, Abuja, yesterday announced the removal of subsidy on petroleum products, highlighting his administration’s focus on economic growth and reform.

N6 advises ladies to marry men who give them lifts. Photo credit: N6. Source: Instagram Barely 24 hours after he made the announcements, some filling stations in Nigeria have increased to N600 per liter. In the midst of the fuel brouhaha, rapper N6 has advised ladies to marry any man who agrees to give them a lift in their cars and also go further to put on the AC for them. “Dear ladies, in this new dispensation of N600 a liter, any Naija guy wey give you lift come ON AC for you in his car truly loves you. Marry him”.

Bella Okagbue lambasts fan who quizzed about plans to marry Sheggz

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Bella Okagbue lambasts fan who quizzed about plans to marry to Sheggz

Popular BBNaija star, Bella Okagbue stirs reactions following her response to a fan who asked how soon she plans to marry Sheggz. It is no news that the love birds, Bella and Sheggz have been together since the 2022 BBNaija show they participated in and are still waxing stronger in love.

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In a post via Twitter, the reality star shared photos of herself taken months ago from their trip to South Africa. “Pictures I never got to post during the trip to SA! 🤍,” she wrote while sharing. In response, a fan wrote, “That’s not my Problem, my problem is When are you getting Married to Sheggz ?”

Bella, however, reacted with, “Your problem should be how to fix your teeth, hairline and entire face ❤️.”

Bella Okagbue lambasts fan who quizzed about plans to marry to Sheggz

The post has since stirred mixed reactions as many insisted that the fan did not mean any disrespect and does not deserve to be body shamed. See some reactions below …

“Always playing with boys in the bush, advised to marry”

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A Nigerian mother has shared her daughter’s result slip online and the remarks from the class teacher and principal with her daughter. The mother shared the result slip which showed that her daughter failed all the subjects. However, the remarks from the class teacher and principal caught the attention of social media users.

On the result slip, the class teacher disclosed that the girl failed in all the subjects because she does not concentrate on her books but was always seen playing with a group of boys in the bush. In relation to the class teacher’s remarks, the principal of the school also advised the mother of the girl to get married. “Always playing with boys in the bush. Very lazy in all types of sports. Advised to marry”, the teacher wrote. Read some comments from social media users below. @jacob Nwose said: “She needs to take the remarks seriously. How can a child fail all subjects?” @Matthias Ugwu commented: “One of the reasons I dread having a daughter in this generation. This generation is more possessive of the female gender. You hardly see good ones these days.” @Deremie_ commented: “Please she really needs to marry.” @Dennis Okwukwe reacted: “Always playing with boys in the bush? And what did you do as a teacher?” @Pascal James added: “If my daughter returns with this she’s certainly becoming a dropout on that same day.”