Lady narrates how 2 yahoo boys she sat with in a bus almost implicated her during a police stop

The day I almost landed in trouble" - Lady narrates how yahoo boys she sat with in a bus almost implicated her during a police stop

A Nigerian lady identified as @Atilolahafeezah on Twitter has recounted a harrowing experience where she narrowly escaped being implicated by internet fraudsters, commonly known as “yahoo boys,” during a police stop. The incident occurred during a trip from Ibadan to Ilorin, as she found herself seated with two individuals engaged in fraudulent activities. According to her narration on Twitter, the lady disclosed that during the journey, the police stopped the vehicle she was traveling in, and one of the yahoo boys seated next to her handed her his iPhone with an unusual request. He allegedly asked her to falsely claim ownership of his bag if questioned by the officers. Confused and frightened by the idea, she expressed concern that the bag might contain incriminating items. However, the fraudster assured her that the police would not inspect the bag. Despite her fear, she reluctantly agreed to the plan as she did not want to draw unnecessary attention. Upon being questioned by the police, both the young lady and the other passenger denied any association with the bag in question. To their dismay, the security personnel insisted on inspecting the bag, suspecting there might be illicit items concealed within. To their astonishment, the officers discovered an assortment of voodoo items inside the bag. In her words;  I sat with 2 criminals (gbona gbona yahoo guys) from ibadan to ilorin. When the police stopped us, the one that sat beside me gave me his iPhone and said I should tell the police men his bag is mine I was like how nahh that what if they check the bag and they see something that can implicate me, he said they can’t check it I was sha scared 😂. Then they asked who the owner of the bag is I said not mine and the guy also denied I was like haa 😂 Alakoba re o. So, they opened the bag and they met calabash, soap, clothes and some books. The other guy didn’t carry any bag but the police was bent on him carrying something. So, one of them entered the car and searched where he seated, geh geh un 😂 the man brought out a small plastic inside nylon 😂😭 i was like hafeezahhh so you sat with criminals 😭. The guy sha rushed to the man and begged him not to cast him to his colleagues. If you are not contented as a lady, you are in trouble and they will use you. I’m sure they will release them and collect money from them. Ki olori sho ara o🙏❤️” See below;

The day I almost landed in trouble" - Lady narrates how yahoo boys she sat with in a bus almost implicated her during a police stop

 

Nigerian man narrates how his supposed fiancée got pregnant for her ex while he was paying her tuition fee

Nigerian man narrates how his supposed fiancée got pregnant for her ex while he was paying her tuition fee

A Nigerian businessman, Dan Baiwa Gassol, who was disappointed by his supposed fiancée has narrated how the lady got pregnant by her ex-boyfriend while he was paying her tuition fee and every other thing financially. Commenting on a post by Linda Ikeji’s blog, the married father of two advised single people to go back to their exes if they are so important to them, rather than cheating on their spouse with them.

Nigerian man narrates how his supposed fiancée got pregnant for her ex while he was paying her tuition fee

File photo: Nigerian man narrates how his supposed fiancée got pregnant for her ex He said, “If I find out my wife is in communication with any of her ex, I’ll end the marriage that day. The lady I was supposed to marry got pregnant for her ex while I was paying her tuition and everything. I will never forget the trauma. If your ex is important to you, go back to them. This is very simple”

Eyewitness narrates drama between Caramel Plugg and Manny

Eyewitness narrates drama between Caramel Plugg and Manny

An eyewitness at a club has shared the true cause of fight between Caramel Plugg and her boyfriend, Manny. In a leaked chat, the lady revealed how she saw the duo fighting seriously at the club despite the crowd watching. Speaking on the reason for the fight, she disclosed that Manny had entered the club with another girl which infuriated Caramel. The duo began to fight and drag each other at the club and afterwards, they unfollowed each other on Instagram. “Lmfaoo. Saw them fighting at the club this morning. It wasn’t funny o. I no record them. I no want wahala. He came with another girl”, part of her messages read. A video which had been making the rounds online showed them arguing as spectators gathered to discern what the matter was. Checking on their Instagram page, it was also found that the two have clicked the unfollow button on each other. See the post below:

Davido’s uncle, Ademola Adeleke narrates how he went back to school to win Osun election

Davido's uncle, Ademola narrates how he went back to school to win Osun governorship election

The Governor of Osun State, Ademola Adeleke, who’s also an uncle to music superstar, Davido, has revealed how he went back to school to earn a degree following attacks from the opposition after he contested for the 2018 governorship position in his state. Adeleke while speaking at the combined 9th undergraduate and 5th postgraduate convocation ceremonies of the Adeleke University, Ede, Osun state, on Sunday said after losing the 2018 governorship election, he was subjected to the worst personality attacks and assaults.

Davido's uncle, Ademola narrates how he went back to school to win Osun governorship election

Governor of Osun State, Ademola Adeleke About 75 postgraduate and 537 undergraduate students were conferred with various degrees at the Adeleke University. The governor while addressing the students added that he had to leave the country to escape the attack and to complete his degree programme, after his elder brother, Dr. Deji Adeleke, insisted he must complete his education or forgo his 2022 governorship ambition. Adeleke advised that age should not be seen as a barrier to pursuing educational dreams, saying one of the conditions he was given before his 2022 governorship ambition was for him to complete his education. He said, “Dr Tajudeen Adeleke encouraged me to move ahead. Before I went on exile, he called me to a meeting where we discussed. He told me that I should look at what I have been subjected to by those saying I was not educated. He advised that I should go to (the United States of) America for studies. “He said the only thing I can do for Osun people if I am ready to be governor, I must get educated, I must complete my education; that without completing it, I should forget my governorship ambition. “At my age then, I successfully re-enrolled and completed my degree programme. I am proud of that achievement and I thank my family and friends for their total support. “I came back to re-contest in 2022 as a brand new graduate. The rest is now history. What is the lesson? Our age must never be a barrier to educational pursuit. What we need is commitment and passion to succeed.” In his remarks, Dr Deji Adeleke, who is the founder of the university, said if Nigerians resolved to change the country for better, it could be achieved. He called on Nigerians that desire a good country to contribute their quota to nation-building and stop apportioning blame to those in positions of authority.

Man narrates honorific experience with Ibadan bolt rider

Man Bolt Rider Ibadan

A Nigerian man named Tizza recently shared a harrowing experience on his social media page, recounting how he was attacked and came close to losing his life by a Bolt rider in Ibadan. According to his statement, a distressing incident occurred a few days ago when Tizzy accepted a ride request from a (Bolt) rider.

While on the journey, a dispute arose regarding the fare for the trip. Tizzy attempted to communicate and negotiate with the rider, but instead of resolving the issue peacefully, the rider resorted to violence. He strangled Tizzy, assaulted him with punches, and nearly caused his death. His statement “Hello everyone, I’m a business man that work within Lagos and Ibadan, one of what I’m into is Uber/ bolt driver…. An incident happened to me yesterday, I picked up a bolt rider opposite university of Ibadan second gate , he was going to oluyole sharp coner close to kuola area.” “This guy strangled me , punch my face and almost killed me yesterday, I’ve to pretend as if I’ve fainted. I picked the guy up and he told me to wait that his friend is joining the ride, his friend came and entered my car and the friend told me that I was going to drop me at Uch hospital, then I told the guy that it’s a different route for where he ordered on the app.” “Then the guy started the argument and I kept quiet but I made my point clear that I’ve been doing bolt driver in Ibadan for 3yrs now , that if the app doesn’t read they will add the price for the trip to drop his friend at Uch to the 3,700 on the app, so after I dropped is friend.” 

“After 5mins of pretending to have fainted he left me and told me that sabi I still get strength now, make I come fight again now, I just ran out of the gate and when to pick up my phone in my car and made a video clip of how my face look” “He told me to call my account number which is opay and he dropped from my car without showing me the receipt for the money he sent , when I was about entering the house, I ask if he had sent the money, he say yeah. Then I checked my opay and found the 3,800 balance.” 

“I went to drop him at his house, when I got to his house, I ended the trip and the price was 3,800, so 100naira was added for the paid waiting time before he entered my car of about 9mins paid waiting, and I showed the guy that the trip didn’t read for the movement of is friend.”  “Then I dropped from my car and opened the gate to the house to call his notice to the money he sent, that it was not our agreement not to add to the fare, then next action was the guy started harassing me and tell my I’m very stupid for coming inside his gate to meet him.” “Before I could realize myself, he already throw me on the ground and started punching my face with my mouth and head, and didn’t stop strangling my neck, I was even shouting at the top of my voice that what will he gain if he kills me, then I just had to pretend like I fainted.” “I tried calling him and he already blocked my line, my friend tried help me chatting him up and he said he’s in Lagos.” 

“I asked for the amount of the trip and he told me 3,700 before I started the ride, then I told me that he’s going to add to the fare for me going to drop is friend at Uch , then we all start arguing that the app is going to read for all the trip and i immediately said app no read.”  “I’ve gone to kuola police station to report him and the police got my statement down and ordered some officers to go along with me to his house, the gate was locked the first time we check, we went back today again and the agent we met told us he dropped the key to the house.”  “@Boltapp_ng a rider almost strangled me to death at his residence, pls legal actions have been taken on this! It’s has been reported to kuola police station and barrister Kunle ishola has looked into the matter, the son to the former governor of oyo state!!!”  WATCH VIDEO BELOW: Hello everyone, I’m a business man that work within Lagos and Ibadan, one of what I’m into is Uber/ bolt driver…. An incident happened to me yesterday, I picked up a bolt rider opposite university of Ibadan second gate , he was going to oluyole sharp coner close to kuola area . pic.twitter.com/NH7tYDhQUe — Tizza (@Tizza_7) July 15, 2023

Lady narrates how she retrieved new phone from brother’s girlfriend who was using him

Lady narrates how she retrieved new phone from brother's girlfriend who didn't like him

A young lady narrates how she used security operatives to retrieve a new phone her brother bought for his girlfriend who had no intentions of dating him. A Twitter user identified as @Justice_E_P_A took to the platform to share the tale of how her brother once bought a new phone for his girlfriend.

Lady narrates how she retrieved new phone from brother's girlfriend who didn't like him

@Justice_E_P_A on Twitter. According to the legal practitioner, her brother’s girlfriend received the smartphone while refusing to be intimate over claims of being warned by her mother to stay away from any man who isn’t from their village. In her words, “Just after the lock down in 2020, my brother met this girl who just finished serviced, he loved her , after few days of talking bros bought her a new tecno spark 4, she came to our house to thank my brother, but she refused to enter my brother’s room, she stood outside to thank. I was angry, because I know the game, so my brother asked her why she was avoiding him, she replied and said “my mum said I cannot have anything to do any man that is not from our village!” Ah! And you still holding the phone my brother bought for you?
You didn’t return it? Is the phone from your village? My brother been a very gentle and nice guy allowed her to go with the phone, but me I will not have it, the phone is not from your village so it must be returned,I began to think and strategies After a few days I called my friend at CIVIL DEFENCE
We made an arrangement and he went to the girls house with some of their officer, arrested the girl for holding a stolen phone, she said ” I didn’t steal the phone oo, Na someone buy am for me, call the person now, she said she can’t cos of some reason( oloriburuku) 😔 She begged and begged, so they released her to go and bring the receipt of the phone, she went and never came back, I collected the phone and gave my guys at civil defence 20k for job well done, guess what phone I am chatting from now? I am a lady but I hate injustice!”

Eye witness at Mmesoma Ejikeme’s JAMB hall narrates speaks

Eye witness at Mmesoma Ejikeme's JAMB hall narrates speaks

An eye witness at Mmesoma Ejikeme‘s JAMB exam hall has shared his experience with the embattled student on exam day. According to Ilumina Light, the student’s computer had a glitch and the examiners had to intervene before she could continue. He further noted that despite that, she was still able to score above 200. He appealed to Nigerians not to demean her brilliance. In his words: “What you don’t know is this. MMESOMA actually scored 249, a high score that can gain admission easily. It doesn’t stop there. During the CBT, her system developed glitches that took examiners quite some time to resolve before she continued, to finish same time with others. “To have scored that high despite probably not finishing, alongside the disorientation, is remarkable. Even more, she has reportedly being carrying first from primary to secondary school. “This is a girl too passionate about, not just studying, but excelling. She has a mentality for perfection and gives her all to get it – therein was the danger by the devil, and a lesson to us all, in the manner we seek anything in life. Avoid desperation. “Watch her interviews, and see the confidence oozing out, though her intellect was masterfully deployed to hide the truth, but then, if we condemn this little girl, we should equally take our minds back, to all those hurriedly sworn Affidavits from fully knowledgeable adults, scattered in billions of papers across the Country. “This young girl is filled with a rare brilliance we should harness for the growth of our society. We should not dim the great lights we have, else we eventually end with darkness and won’t find our way nomore. “As for MMESOMA, I have no doubt that God shall live up to his word and make her imperfection on this matter perfect unto his cause for her life.” See the post below:

Husband drags wife to court, narrates painful experience to judge

Husband Wife Court

A husband has taken his wife to court due to the distressing treatment he endures within their home. Despite being married, he revealed that he has been subjected to significant suffering at the hands of his own wife.

In detailing her actions, he explained that his wife frequently engages in physical violence towards him, seizing any opportunity to do so. He recounted an incident where she asked him why he doesn’t plead for mercy as her father does when her mother beats him. However, he expressed that her father may possess the strength to endure such treatment, unlike himself. Furthermore, the man disclosed that his wife has, on multiple occasions, destroyed all the clothing he owns, leaving him with nothing to wear to work, forcing him to borrow clothes from his neighbor.

Additionally, he accused his wife of engaging in infidelity with one of his friends. Nigerians have responded to the man’s confession by expressing their thoughts and opinions in the comment section. See some reactions below:  @favoredsinner: “No matter how emotional your story is as a man in an abusive relationship, people will hardly help, take you serious or believe you. The game is rigged.” @iamlindagraham: “This isn’t funny. If it was the other way round they’ll be talking about domestic violence. This is the luxury of double standards we women enjoy. I said what I said. I’ve also said that we aren’t ready to talk about men facing domestic abuse in the home too. We’re still stuck on gender wars.” @Taiwo_junzi: “Nothing the pattern! No empathy cos it’s a man! See everybody’s countenance and body language in the video. People will watch the video and smile, let it go the other way you’ll be hearing “I couldn’t watch till the end.” @JimisolaCoal: “Sigh. What’s funny about the situation ? Even the judge is smiling . Kilo funny ? Someone is speaking from a place of pain and they are kikiking. This is why men barely speak up . Eiiish” @chimxy14: “If we reverse this story nobody would be laughing in that court room. That woman even has an evil look. Men go through abuse too and it’s not new.” @iamAyoTomi: “Man be speaking in pain but people Dey laugh. Cos na MAN . Later de, go say speak up, na why most men Dey hide their pain.” WATCH VIDEO: This is heartbreaking 💔 😢 Why are they laughing at him?? 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ pic.twitter.com/hsadzUe7BW — Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) July 9, 2023

Lady narrates encounter after mistaking Range Rover for her uber

Lady narrates encounter after mistaking Range Rover for her uber

Young Nigerian lady shares an unexpected reaction from the driver of a 2018 Range Rover after she mistook him for her uber ride. A Twitter user identified as @_agneeess took to the platform to narrate her encounter after ordering a uber ride who informed her of his arrival at her house.

Lady narrates encounter after mistaking Range Rover for her uber

Twitter user, @_agneeess who mistook a Range Rover for her Uber. Unfortunately, she mistakenly boarded a Range Rover coincidentally parked outside her house and was rudely confronted by the driver of the luxury car. In her words, “I remember one time I Ordered bolt from Genesis GRA and the driver said he’s outside, came outside and the only car I saw was a 2018 Range Rover. I entered and the driver asked me if am crazy.” 

Lady narrates encounter after mistaking Range Rover for her uber

Her tale, however, sparked mixed reactions from users who agreed with the owner of the Range Rover who asked if she was crazy. Reactions trailing lady who mistook Range Rover for uber amb962 stated: “I done enter Lexus jeep from Mama B to Woji. When I came out and saw the car, I no gree enter, I told him that is not the car on the app, but the guy said I shouldn’t worry. Carried me with full A/C reach my house, and paid him his N1k” nii_san232 said: “Your lie no even sweet.😒 The car color model and plate number are readily available on the app so getat” Zekiel opined: “He wasn’t supposed to ask. He should have taken you directly to yaba.” Eze Smawl reacted: “I hope you answered him, yes, that you are crazzzzzyyyyy.’ Omo Iya Kemi noted: “Exactly you must be very very crazzzyy.” Oladipupo commented: “so you no know the motor wey you wan enter, I think you suppose see am for the app but no you go enter 2018 RR. ojukokoro don dey your eyes teytey.” 

How I lost my mother after she finally visited my house — Man narrates tear-jerking story

How I lost my mother after she finally visited my house — Man narrates tear-jerking story

Young man narrates the touching story of how he lost his mother after so much effort to invite her over to see his new house. A Twitter user identified as @lavezzedout took to the platform to share the tale of a painful loss which reshaped his life.

How I lost my mother after she finally visited my house — Man narrates tear-jerking story

Twitter user @lavezzedout The narration was motivated by another user who made a thread asking people to tell the moment when they realized life was vanity. In the case of @lavezzedout, he realized life was vanity after he lost his dearest mother, not long after inviting her over to see his apartment. How I lost my mother “I’m in tears typing this but I just needed to let it out finally. The last time I ever saw my mom was when she visited me at my house for the very first time, last year August. I had always wanted her to come visit me. My dad and all my siblings had been to my place except for my mother. So all through last year. I begged her to come. I was like “mummy just come and spend one weekend with me.” She was a busy woman. She had my dad to take care of and her shop back in our house in Mowe to monitor. There was no time for her to visit. Occasionally I do go home but I was never frequent and my parent complained a lot. Finally she chose a weekend to come, the first week in August and I was excited. I had planned that I was going to at least spoil her silly and take care of her. She had said that she would come on a Friday and leave the following day cos she had to open shop. I wasn’t happy with it but I wanted her to come still. I wanted her to see that I was doing well for myself at least. The only issue about that weekend was that a friend of mine had a wedding that same weekend in Ikorodu and I had promised her I was going to be there. What it meant was that I had only one night to spend with my mother while I headed out that morning from Ketu to Ikorodu for the wedding. There was no way to stop my mother from coming so I took the chance all the same. As long as she came. (Oh giddy, I’m shedding tears now as I remember, but let me continue) My mom got to Ketu that evening and when I went to pick her at the bus stop. I saw her with her bag and then a mat. It was a funny sight as I asked her what the mag was for. “Mum how will you come all the way from Mowe, Ogun state, to Ketu carrying a mat? Isn’t it embarrassing?” She smiled and told me that in case I had more people in my house cos she knew that occasionally people stay with me, that instead of them sleeping on the bare tiles, they could sleep on the mat. We converse in Yoruba so you can picture how that conversation would have ensued. I had one of my cousin, Gift was her name around that day. So it was me and her and as I welcomed mom inside, she was happy to see family also.
She sat on my bed and gave me two big Guavas, it was from one of our guava trees in the house. I was like she shouldn’t have but she was so happy to flaunt to me that our garden and trees in our backyard was yielding fruits. Onwards we began to talk and she brought up the wife issue to me. When will I bring a girl to meet her, I am not getting younger, and the likes and I told her I wasn’t in for those talks. When I was ready, I’ll bring someone to them. That was the last we spoke about it. Thing is that she rarely disturbs me about marriage. She was 54 at the time and I knew that this woman had max of like 20 good years ahead of her to see me get married and her grandkids. I was so confident. My dad in the other hand is like 77 years, so I understand when he bugs me about marriage. He wants to see me get married before he dies. I did everything possible to make her comfortable that day. I had gone to buy chicken and myself and gift made dinner for my mom that night. Bought her favourite drink and gisted with her. I barely watch TV cos I’m always hooked up on my phone, but all through my mom’s stay, my TV did not stop being on Africa magic Yoruba. She was right in front the TV relaxing and watching Yoruba movies back to back in her son’s apartment. It was like a mini vacation for her, something she had never taken before. I felt so good seeing her happy and most especially getting the rest she so badly needed. The most ironical thing that day was that I do not have a couch in my house. I have a big bed in the room and small student sized bed in the living room. My mother laid the mat she had brought for me on the tiled floor and that was where she sat all through. All she used was a pillow to ease her head and that was where she even slept overnight. I had gone to tap her to tell her that she should come to the room, on the bed to sleep. I didn’t even mind leaving the bed alone for her. Gift was going to sleep on the small one in the room so I dressed my bed for her, but this woman refused and said she was fine where she was. She slept off while watching a movie on the mat and I remember putting my blanket over her and muttering to myself, “I love you mummy” before I went to sleep. The following morning I was up and about trying to get ready for my friend’s wedding. My agbada was already dey cleaned and I was ready to go slay and have fun. I thought to myself if what I was doing was making sense. Shouldn’t i just stay with my mother? If I didn’t go to the wedding, no one would miss outrightly. But my friends had called and asked where I was so I had Gift make her breakfast and I counted some money and gave to her for transport. I told her to call me when she gets home before zooming off to the wedding. That was the last time I ever saw her alive. Now she did not die that day. Lol she did not die that month, she didn’t even die the next month. She died in October, October 14th, about 80 days after that day. That’s like 7 weeks after that day, that’s line two months after that day. It was the shock of my life. She had wanted me to come home to Mowe to come visit her and my dad, but I kept giving excuses that I was busy and there was no time. Hell I could have made out time to go see them, even if it was just the weekend. There was times I would say I was busy this weekend, or another but I was fucking doing nothing! I mean absolutely nothing!
Sighs. I just didn’t want to go home yet because I felt I had enough time to go home whenever I wanted. They were both perfectly healthy, except for my dad’s eye issues. Like no one in my family gets sick to the extent
that we get admitted or that we be on drips. That’s how healthy we are. I felt like they were both going to be around for a very long time and I had enough time to go see her anytime I wanted. But I was wrong. I had planned to visit like in two weeks time because my mind was
drawn to her but I couldn’t pinpoint it. I told some of my close friends that I needed to go home to see my folks. That unfortunate night, I was home and asleep while I got a call around 12 from my dad. I was scared cos I felt maybe something had happened to him and my mother
was using his phone to call me only for me to hear my dad crying and screaming that my mom is not responding anymore, that she just slumped and was bringing out foam from her mouth. I wanted to go mad. He cut the call and I tried calling him back but he didn’t pick. My junior brother was home as at then and I called him and he was crying too. He told me what happened that she woke up coughing and complained of her chest and after a while she slumped and foam was from her mouth. They tried taking her to some local medical personnel because where we
live is far from the town, it’s a new site. Those ones couldn’t do much as she was already dead before the brought her. They had to return her body to our house and made sure my dad did not know that she was dead. They all feared how he will take it when he knew so it was kept from him. I called my sisters and told them. Another of my brother was with me in my house and it was like the whole world was crashing down on us. I didn’t want to believe so I called my brother (last born) who was at home and he told me that our mother is gone. like for real. I still did not believe so I asked him to switch to video call so I can see for myself and in tears he did. for the first time in my life, I saw someone i so much cared about, lifeless. I kept shouting “mommy!” “mommy!” but she was just like a log of wood. She really was gone. I couldn’t sleep so by morning me and my brother rushed down to Mowe and some community members saw us and said that my dad was not aware yet and that we should not tell him anything, they would tell him together. They had lied to him that my mum was at a doctor’s place and
that she was getting better. I got to our door and saw my dad sitting outside. The man had cried his eyes out but I think he knew already that the community people were deceiving him. I greeted him and he asked what they were telling me and I said nothing. They didn’t let him enter inside but I was able to go in and I saw my kid bro inside already crying. They put her body in our room and our bed so I opened the door and saw her laying there and that was it. I lost it. Seeing her lifeless body, cotton wool in her nose and mouth, I wept profusely. The one person I swore to myself to protect and take care of in her old age after everything she’s done for me and my brothers, the one person who was a major reason for my struggling and making ends meet was gone, poof! Just like that. There was no prior sickness, or ailment, or a heads up for us to see this coming. It felt like the ground should open and swallow me. I could hear them bringing my dad inside the sitting room and I knew they were about to break the news to him. As soon as I heard him scream “Iya Laolu o!!!” I knew he already knew. Their age difference was about 25 years. He married her while she was young. She was the only man she had ever been with in her life. Utterly loyal to him throughout. The first woman he had been with left him with kids and ran off before he met her and we all have been a family
ever since. He cried that he should have been the one to go and not her. He had spent so much time on earth and she was the one meant to enjoy the fruit of all the labours. My dad took her death harder than all of us. Infact we had to send him away from the house for a few weeks to get himself. It’s been difficult ever since then. This event has made myself and my dad really close like we talk ever freaking day. He’s all we have left now and we’re doing our best to take of him. I’m grateful for friends and those online that stood by me during that period. It was hell for me. I still think about her, how I thought that she would still be around for like 20 more years at least but here we are, she died at 54. We at times feel we have this life figured out, but we don’t know shit. Vanity upon vanity.”