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“The world is designed to kill men” – Deyemi Okanlawon says, netizens react

Nollywood actor, Deyemi Okanlawon has sparked online reactions after stating that the world is designed to kill men. The actor made this statement on the microblogging platform X, formerly known as Twitter.

Deyemi Okanlawon He noted that the world is designed to kill men and it is worth thinking through. He wrote: “The world is designed to kill men… take a minute to think this through.” Deyemi’s statement sparked mixed reactions amongst netizens as everyone seemed to be defending their gender. Reactions trailing Deyemi Okanlawon statement chiagozie_taiwo said: “Young man, I’ve got some harsh dose of reality, no one’s coming to save you. The world isn’t sympathetic to men. Play the cards you were dealt with to the best of your abilities. Opportunities won’t fall on your lap, you’ll have to create them. Sooner you realize this, the better” __ssssunflowerrrr wrote: “So women nkor? Going through those hormonal processes still birthing kids and dealing with the aftermath and still having to be the breadwinner and everything.” nmajiaku penned: “The world is designed to kill women. So many men die due to their own mistakes or stubbornness or a bad lifestyle.” official_glorioux reacted: “Kee men how ? Apart from financial crisis what else do men go through? Y’all just come online and vent all you want” mc.oloro_ said: “Na we know wetin we dey chest on the daily💆🏽‍♂️” SEE POST: This world is designed to kill men… take a minute to think this through 🚶🏽‍♂️ — DeyemiTheActor (@_deyemi) November 30, 2023

Married woman drags women who bill men they are not married to

A married woman has advised her fellow gender, telling them that a responsible woman with good home training will not bill a man she is not married to. She shared this video on her Tiktok page, @ms_raphys, where she drops relationship advice for both genders. At the start of the video, she admits that this conversation is not what a lot of women like to hear. She condemns other women who bill men, claiming it is a sign of irresponsibility and shows lack of good home training. According to her, if your parents and family are looking out for you as a woman, you wouldn’t have to beg a man you’re not married to for money. She insists that a relationship is not a money making venture and it is not your right as a woman to get paid for being in a relationship. The married woman further castigates women who request for monthly allowance from their boyfriends. See some reactions @Moh said: “Soon as you ask me for money, I just know I’m wasting my time.” @✨STAR✨ wrote: “Dey play😂😂 it’s okay for him to tell me to come over to his house but it’s not okay for me to bill him?? Am I his mother?????? 😏😏” @Mama K added: “I agree , don’t bill him. I like it when a Man gives out of the goodness of his heart. He shouldn’t have to be told, before gifting his girl money.” @The Enchiridion! said: “Relationship don turn job opportunity” @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ reacted: “Aunty Billi go think say na Understanding girlfriend talk b this” Watch video here @ms_raphys This is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp ♬ original sound – Rafiah

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Men only want sex nowadays, not relationships

A young Nigerian lady breaks down in tears as she laments the poor state of the dating pool and how men only want to lay with women without commitments. A video making the rounds on social media captured the lamentation of a lady who has had a terrible experience with men.

According to the lady, most men who come her way demand sex almost immediately after the first date even after obvious lies about being intentional about their feelings. She added that commitment in relationships and intention for marriage seem to have been a thing of the past in this generation. “Am I going crazy? What is happening to this world? Every man you meet wants to have sex with you. Is this only happening to me? At this point, I am so mentally drained and weak. Before, men come with relationship, but right now, they are not coming for relationship. You meet someone today and the next thing, they are asking for a date and later to their hotel room for sex. If you go to these men’s house and go to their house, they won’t even sleep and if you refuse, they will send you out in the middle of the night,” she said in part. Watch the video below …

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Man advises women to stop pampering men

A man has taken to social media to tell women not to pamper or pity men but rather give them problems at all times. He made this known via his TikTok handle, @body_shock, where he made it clear that caring for a man is detrimental to the woman. This young man believes that pampering a man is like feeding a lion and the decision will come back to haunt one. In his words; “I pity for women wey dey pamper men, like I pity for you guys. You just pamper men, like when he’s angry, you’re angry. You don’t just like when he’s in a bad mood, you always want to be with him when he’s at his lowest.” “Caring for men is like feeding a lion, when he grow, he go chop you. You don’t pity men, no, you show them shege. They are to be shown maximum and premium shege.” “Men are to be shot on sight. You just dey dig your own grave if you dey care for men
You’re feeding him, you don’t know you’re feeding your downfall. When he grows, he’s going to chop you. My dear show men shege o.” Some reactions to his video: @M&E disagreed: “me i must pamper my husband no matter what you say because i want him to live longer by the grace of God.” @_pohki wrote: “This was the message I needed,this man go see a diff shade of pepper today!” @olabrity💞 said: “He sounds mean but it’s true, they’re always miserable when they’re at their lowest and they’d make it your fault for trying to be there for them.” Watch video here… @body_shock ♬ original sound – BINI BOY👺👺

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Relationship counselor tell men to avoid women who out-earn them

“If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m” — Relationship counselor advises men A popular relationship counselor has advised men to avoid dating women who earn more than them. The relationship counselor who runs an anonymous account on the X app has always preached about staying 5 steps ahead of your woman as a man. He holds the strong opinion that as a man you shouldn’t be dependent on your woman but rather be the leader. His tweet said; “If you drive a toyota corolla, don’t date a lady that is driving a benz.
If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m.
If you’re a BSc holder, don’t date a lady that has a PhD.
If you’ve never left Nigeria before, don’t date a lady that has traveled the world.
End.” He also made a follow-up tweet where he dragged Lekki and Abuja “big boys”, while claiming their modus operandi is to wait for their women to feed them. See post below… “If you earn 500k, don’t date a lady that is earning 1m” — Relationship counselor advises men

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“Do you men even know how to bathe babies?” – Pastor challenges fathers to care for their babies in front of everyone in church

"Do you men even know how to bathe babies?" - Pastor challenges fathers to care for their babies inside church

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In an entertaining event organized by the Holy Land Prayer Ministry Onitsha, a Nigerian pastor challenged fathers to showcase their parenting skills in a lively baby bathing competition, leaving onlookers amused and impressed.
The church organized a special program where four men were called upon to showcase their babysitting skills by bathing and dressing their infants.

A video capturing the event was shared on Facebook, quickly gaining attention and sparking reactions from netizens.
The participants, given bowls of water and baby supplies, were tasked with the challenge of proving that they could competently care for their babies, replicating the tasks typically associated with mothers.

The competition turned into a spirited display of parenting prowess, with each man striving to complete the tasks accurately and efficiently.
One participant notably stood out for his speed and dexterity. The other three fathers followed suit, each showcasing their unique styles and degrees of success in the challenge.
Netizens Reactions
Ofodile Gloria said; “The second man is my winner because he was careful with the child.”
Celina Cyril Olanrewaju said; “The man in green did best because of the way he is handling the baby with so much love and care.”
Chukwu Sandra said; “The man on yellow stripped material is used to the chore, and the baby is so comfortable with the dad bathing her.”
Kabirat Abubakry Sulaimon said; “I love the way the man in green carefully handles the baby.”
Onyinye Lovable said; “The man on green scored 100/100. In fact, he learned work from his mother. Kudos to him.”
Christ Iyke said; “I rate this couples program the best ever. Very interesting.”
Blessing Smart said; “This is lovely.”
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Uti Nwachukwu warns women to stop bullying gay men

Reality star and TV host, Uti Nwachukwu has warned women to stop bullying gay men who have admitted the truth about their sexuality. The actor revealed this under a comment section where an internet user had urged more men to come out of the closet and stop fooling innocent women in marriage. TV Host and Actor, Uti Nwachukwu.
Photo source: siruti / Instagram. Uti Nwachukwu did not agree with this opinion, claiming that the more women bully men who have come out, the more they will marry women to cover up. In his words; “and more women need to stop bullying the ones who have come out the closet!
The more shame u give to men the more they will marry women to cover up. Choice is yours” However many Netizens do not agree with his views, claiming that a gay man should not have to get married to an innocent woman to cover up his sexuality. See post below… Here are some reactions to Uti’s comment below: desmony1 wrote: “There’s a level to this gaslighting…. how’s this about women? Do men support them too?” dygeasy opined: “If anything women enable them more o. Check well. The biggest supporters of Bob and the other shims are women. Mr. Uti what are you trying to say gangan?” thefoodnetworknig2 reacted: “That response no jus tally… You wanna come out, come out with your full chest na😆” onyiaprudence said: “Blaming women for people’s cOwardly decisions. They have chosen to hide it because they are not proud of it. Stop getting it twisted.” jully__mk wrote: “The fact that she didn’t mention your name. Honorable Uti, is this a sign??”

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Lady reveals why men go for a second wife

"What he ordered is no longer what he got" - Lady reveals why men go for second wife

A Nigerian lady educates others on why men consider the option of taking a second wife and why it is the best step to take in a marriage. A Facebook user identified as Florence Chinyere Ogolo took to the comment section of a post regarding a man making moves to marry a second wife right after his wife’s delivery. According to the lady, women are often the factors behind a man’s decision to take a new wife, while referencing dwindling peace in the household. She further added that some factions of men prefer polygamy without a reason while insisting that women losing physical form also plays a role in this decision. “Am not married yet But second wife are the best. For your husband to sought for a second wife that means u are a pain on his neck. Either feeling that u have arrived after giving him a son, or you no longer respect or give him peace. Something is really wrong about Or wat he ordered is no longer wat he got. And above all, there are men who love two wives so We cant erase that,” she wrote.

Reactions trailing why men consider taking a second wife karameltoppings said: “Exactly. So wives should be allowed second husbands too when their first husbands behave like this.” teeto__olayeni opined: “I laugh as someone form a polygamous home 😂😂😂😂. My dear you will see what your mouth cannot say. All of these you have mentioned might be what the man told you and boom when you enter you go see shege,shege banza and also make your children fight battles they know nothing about. POLYGAMOUS HOUSE IS WAR UNLIMITED.” biola_cokerlee noted: “Alot of people have been broken by disoriented families and backgrounds.” mollijudy wrote: “And third wife nko? Fourth wife nko? 😂😂 Dey play even with all the four wives, side chics go still follow una join body. Dey play. 😂😂😂.”

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Why many single ladies like married men – Moet Abebe

Popular media personality, Moet Abebe opines that a lot of ladies like being in a romantic relationship with men who are married. She claimed this while speaking in a new episode of her podcast Bahd and Boujee which she co-hosts with the reality star, Tolanibaj.

OAP, Moet Abebe. Photo Source; Instagram. In her assertion, she claimed that most ladies these days don’t want to listen to their boyfriends whine about how tiring their work had been or whatever financial challenge they are currently going through. She noted further that ladies who are side chicks are more interested in just getting cash from the man than hearing him talk about their problems. In her opinion, Sugar daddies rarely talk about their problems and provide the girls money and that’s why ladies go for them. Watch the video below: “Why are you telling me you had a bad day at the office? That’s for your wife… What I am more interested in is – give me the money” – Moet Abebe pic.twitter.com/OVkDloTGRF — 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) November 17, 2023

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Some men are going through things

A video that has sparked reactions online shows the moment a wife angrily uses the remote control to smash their home’s plasma TV over an unknown issue between them. The couple had apparently quarreled and the wife lost her temper and utilized thWife, e TV remote to smash the Plasma TV screen.

Wife destroying TV. Her husband who didn’t say anything or react in anyway in the video calmly recorded her as she continued to wreck havoc on his television. After utilizing the remote to deliver several heavy blows to the TV screen, she went back and sat on the chair, operating her phone. Their little baby boy was evidently in the room with them as this whole spectacle occurred. QUEEN 👑 said; “some men are also going through things😂😂” bladegalley shared: “I was in this kind of toxic relationship last month I send the lady back to her family…
I’m a happy man now…..” Kc posited: “Any woman who is calm when you are dating has a hidden character,dear men be wise” OB remarked: “This tv can be there for 5yrs without replacing 😀😀😀” Borngreat Jay Snypes wondered: “after destroying the tv I thought she’ll leave….what is she sitting there for” Watch video below … @user2428745429483 I’m sorry for some men that don’t look before they get married ♬ original sound – special Queen

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