Maureen Esisi, a Nigerian businesswoman and former wife of Nollywood actor Blossom Chukwujekwu, recently provided advice to women in relationships. In a recent post on her Instagram account, she cautioned women to be cautious of men who insist on abstaining from sex before marriage, as it should be considered a major red flag.
Additionally, Maureen Esisi suggested that such behaviour is not necessarily a result of divine intervention but rather a product of the devil’s influence, as there is a high likelihood that men who exhibit this trait may be homosexual. In her words:
“Avoid those Church Boys who play the “no Sex before Marriage” card and gets you thinking God has done it for you…. No Sis!!! Nahhhhhi!!! It’s the Devil who did that!!! Your Gender aint his Type. Run.” Reacting to her post, @maobot commented: “All these what do women want and what do men want doesn’t make sense to me. “This is her opinion, she couldn’t possibly be speaking for all women. We are all individuals with diverse viewpoints on things, enough with the gender wars.” See the post below:
Smith Takema advised men to stop discussing their wives with their side chics and stop comparing their wives with their side chics. He also advised men never to eat food prepared by their side chics and also reminded men to always use condoms when they want to be intimate with their side chics to avoid any form of pregnancy. Smith Takema further advised men never to sleep over in the house of their side chics and lastly, avoid falling in love with these ladies. In his words; “Any side chick that has the guts to attack Madam is motivated by the husband of madam. Some mumu men will knack a side chick to the extent that they table their wife for ridicule with the side chick. Do not discuss your wife with a side chick, never compare your wife with a side chick no matter how the knacking carry you go reach. Never entertain any discussion with her about your wife. Avoid eating food specially prepared for you from her. Above all use a condom or make her understand that you won’t entertain pregnancy. Whatever you give her triple madam’s own. Give her limited time and don’t sleep over in her place, meet her in hotels or inns. Lastly do not fall in love with her with your heart but do it with your head.” 
An Igbo woman took to Twitter to write her opinion about her kinsmen from the Eastern part of Nigeria. According to the lady, identified as @Aphrodiety__, Igbo men are very annoying, arrogant, and have a striking dislike for successful women. As expected, her opinion has been met with a lot of criticism and also stirred up a whole controversy. While most ladies agree with this point, the men are unabashedly unrepentant with their egoistic and snarky responses. However, writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi Bartholomew, has come to the lady’s defence, saying that what she said about Igbo men is true, though she should try not to generalise. Solomon Buchi, who is also an Igbo man, took to his twitter page to weigh in on the controversial post and also call out his tribesmen for being control freaks. He accused Igbo men of acting like “demigods” when they have money and forcefully trying to turn their wives to housewives. He said they see women as the “lesser gender” and are obsessed with male children. He wrote, #Thread If I say that Igbos are hardworking, a lot of y’all will nod and agree with me. But if I say that Igbo men are typically misogynistic, you bash and cuss me out. Why would you agree to a conclusive positive statement and not take criticisms that way too? — Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) May 15, 2019 If I say that Igbos are hardworking, a lot of y’all will nod and agree with me. But if I say that Igbo men are typically misogynistic, you bash and cuss me out. Why would you agree to a conclusive positive statement and not take criticisms that way too? First off, there’s really a problem with selective stereotypes. Besides, stereotypes are stereotypes because they have truths in them. We will say Yoruba people love parties. Hausas are hospitable and United. Igbos are hardworking and business oriented. Yeah? Now, in that same light, there are sides to the positives too. Igbo men are highly misogynistic; this is not tribalism. This isn’t fueling ethnocentrism; this is just a truth. If you call it a generalization then let’s look at our hypocrisy.. Nigerians will come online and say the police is tough, bad and tyrannical towards the citizens. The police is mostly painted in bad light. Nobody remembers that’s stereotyping. There are freaking good police men but outnumbered by the bad ones. What am I trying to say? When someone calls out a tribe; criticizing them, don’t even come claiming its stereotyping because we all freaking stereotype and it’s not always bad! We all know every stereotype has exceptions! Do Akwa Ibom people love dog meat? Yes! Many but then not ALL! Are Nigerian politicians corrupt? Most not all! What am I saying? There’s always something peculiar to a group of people! Good and bad! Now back to the main talk.. They usually feel like they are demigods especially when they have money; they feel entitled to a woman and everything about her. Their ego is bloated and honestly usually uncouth. This is the truth. They’d tell you how they can feed you in disdain just because you refused to comply to their proposal. They’d remind you how they have someone your mate that they are taking care of. They’d get married to a woman and turn her to a housewife by force. Control you like you don’t have a mind of your own. The Igbo traditional practices don’t help. They have misogyny so entrenched in them. The woman is seen as a lesser gender. It’s prevalent with Igbos, the obsession with male children is just so much. And even when a there’s a girl child, there are Igbo sayings like: “Nwoke bu ugwu nwanyi”. This means that a man is the dignity of a woman. Like saying a woman is incomplete without a man. There are many instances. Ask women around you. Many of them will conform to you. I am not saying all Igbos are this way but trust me it’s more difficult to make a typical Igbo man to consider gender equality than any other tribe. We are very traditional. Always clenched to how our fathers did it. Always. Well, this isn’t a hate post. This is a call out post that we can do better. There are good Igbo men who are progressive. So yeah, Igbo men should strive to be more open and shed the stripes of misogyny. I know it’s how we were conditioned but you should make the difference. Gracias! 
According to the man, identified as Austin Akpos, ladies who despise their fathers are not safe not to date because they might transfer their hatred and anger to their partners which makes the relationship unhealthy. He explained that such women have damaged emotions and will never see him through a positive lens due to their father’s failures. “Fuck them!! But by every means let them go 2d another guy who’ll fuck them. Don’t try to be a savior. They’ll ruin u. First signs a woman is damaged: 1. A Nigerian feminist 2. Hate men 3. Hate her father 4. Hates people of her father’s ethnic group- That’s where Urhobo women come in,” he wrote. “Once you discover a woman hates her father so much, fuck them vigorously and dump them. No matter what you do, you’ll be seen through prisms of their father’s failures. Fuck them SHEGE and dump them BANZA”, he wrote on Twitter. 
