A married woman has advised her fellow gender, telling them that a responsible woman with good home training will not bill a man she is not married to. She shared this video on her Tiktok page, @ms_raphys, where she drops relationship advice for both genders. At the start of the video, she admits that this conversation is not what a lot of women like to hear. She condemns other women who bill men, claiming it is a sign of irresponsibility and shows lack of good home training. According to her, if your parents and family are looking out for you as a woman, you wouldn’t have to beg a man you’re not married to for money. She insists that a relationship is not a money making venture and it is not your right as a woman to get paid for being in a relationship. The married woman further castigates women who request for monthly allowance from their boyfriends. See some reactions @Moh said: “Soon as you ask me for money, I just know I’m wasting my time.” @✨STAR✨ wrote: “Dey play😂😂 it’s okay for him to tell me to come over to his house but it’s not okay for me to bill him?? Am I his mother?????? 😏😏” @Mama K added: “I agree , don’t bill him. I like it when a Man gives out of the goodness of his heart. He shouldn’t have to be told, before gifting his girl money.” @The Enchiridion! said: “Relationship don turn job opportunity” @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ reacted: “Aunty Billi go think say na Understanding girlfriend talk b this” Watch video here @ms_raphys This is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp ♬ original sound – Rafiah
American woman says single mother household create bad children
American woman supports the fact that single mother households produce the worst children, quotes statistics as evidence. The black American lady revealed this in a Podcast where she revealed that single mother parenting is a pandemic. She compared it alongside two parent households and single father households, claiming that the single mother household produces the most delinquents. The American woman explains that this is prevalent in the black community and more women need to start valuing the presence of men in their children’s lives. Some reactions to the video: @elmannygram said: “Every child needs their father figure in their life so unless the father of the child is dead, mothers should allows kids access to their fathers. You cannot play both roles. That’s why the kids turn out worse.” @EbisikeIj disagreed: “She is wrong to generalize this. I know some single moms that their kids turned out right” @FOEJ_Swaggie asked: “Is she saying women are not greater leaders?🌚🤐” @ev_reason added: “Not always. But they have the higher tendency of raising badly behaved kids. Single parents easily gets overwhelmed, this could be the cause too” @BamieCent said: “This is true
A child needs both parents” Watch video here Single mothers household produce the worst products — American lady declares
pic.twitter.com/yO0yDbdKtt — Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) November 30, 2023
“How can you ask a legally married woman to drop her husband’s surname- Rita Edochie throws shades
Actress and aunty of Yul Edochie, Rita Edochie has taken to her page to throw some shades while directly it to whom it may concern. Rita Edochie’s cryptic message on Instagram has gotten fans to wonder about the intended target of these remarks. Without specifically mentioning Judy Austin, Rita’s post raised many concerns and unanswered questions about how someone could urge a lawfully married lady to give up her husband’s last name. The post left it up to the followers to figure out that a lady who was allegedly “picked from the street” had the right to carry on her husband’s name.
Rita Edochie, Nollywood actress. Source: Google The complex relationship with Yul Edochie is the foundation of the connection to Judy Austin. Yul was previously married to May Edochie and is currently married to Judy Austin. May keeps using the Edochie surname despite reports that they are no longer together, which may have contributed to Judy Austin’s alleged discontent. She wrote; “HMMMMM I REALLY DON’T GET IT 0000. HOW CAN YOU ASK A LEGALLY AND LEGITIMATELY MARRIED WOMAN TO DROP THE HUSBAND’S SURNAME WHILE YOU THAT IS PICKED FROM THE STREET HAVE THE RIGHT TO ANSWER HIS NAME? JEEEEESUS NO BE JUJU. BE THAT? ANYWAY KEEP PLAYING.” See below;
Man in shock as sympathizers find woman and her children eating hours after husband’s death
Sympathizers who visited the home of a grieving Nigerian woman, following the sudden demise of her husband, were left in shock as they discovered the family eating just 10 hours after the heartbreaking incident. The incident, which unfolded in undisclosed location, drew attention when a Twitter user with the handle @FotoNugget shared the disconcerting experience. According to the eyewitness, mourners had gathered to pay their condolences to the family of the deceased, only to be met with the unexpected sight of the widow and her children having a meal together. Expressing his shock, @FotoNugget tweeted: “Person papa die overnight, dem go greet them the next morning-they met the children & wife eating. It’s not even up-to 10 hours after his death.” The eyewitness went on to share his contemplation on the observed behavior. “I’m just shocked, I understand people grieve differently but just realizing how things really change-people these days easily move on with things & this scares me so much,” the user added. See below;
Woman dragged to court for killing her mother’s four chickens, threatens to set herself ablaze
A Kenyan woman, Mary Waithera, found herself before the Makadara Law Courts facing charges related to a breach of peace for killing her mother’s four chickens and threatening to set herself ablaze. The charges stem from her threatening to set herself and her relatives ablaze during a heated family dispute on November 18, 2023. Waithera, who admitted to creating a disturbance in a manner likely to cause a breach of peace, appeared before Senior Principal Magistrate Gerald Mutiso.
In her statement to the court, she expressed remorse for her actions and attributed the outburst to the depression she has been grappling with since losing her job. According to court records, the confrontation unfolded when Waithera returned home in an inebriated state and engaged in a quarrel with her mother, accusing her of neglect since the loss of her job in 2020. The accused lamented feeling unloved in her own home, escalating the argument into chaos. Amidst the confrontation, Waithera reportedly dismissed the intervention of her young brother, took a matchbox, and retreated to her room, where she threatened to set herself ablaze. Distraught, her mother and brother pleaded with her to reconsider, eventually alerting the authorities, who promptly arrested Waithera. During her court appearance, Waithera’s emotional state was palpable as she recounted the distress that led to the regrettable incident. Her brother, listed as a witness in the case, will only testify if she chooses to deny the charges before conviction and sentencing.
Pregnant woman hospitalized after consuming zobo
A pregnant Nigerian woman recently shared her ordeal about landing in the hospital just days after consuming zobo. In a post by @talk2veee, a media influencer, an unnamed Nigerian woman’s hospital experience was revealed through an image shared in the post.
Nigerian woman. The caption of the image reads: “This was when I spent two days in the hospital after consuming a whole bottle of zobo during my 6th month of pregnancy. I am grateful for my hospital’s swift response.” Also, thankful to God and my family. Initially, we didn’t attribute it to zobo until later. She further warned fellow pregnant women against consuming zobo for any reason unless their delivery date is imminent. Following her statement, concerned individuals took to the comments to share similar experiences. See some reactions below: @justdebby__: “I think it’s the pineapple in zobo. Cause pineapple is something to stay away from when pregnant, imagine having a concentrated chunk of it in zobo.” @FemiElafris: “My wife took zobo all through her pregnancy sha. And pineapple was a good comforter too… Same way MIL said no okro during breastfeeding, she chop okro too nothing happened.” @Yemo247: “I drank zobo and ate pineapple even added pineapple juice and its peel to make my zobo and my chikd still overstayed his due date.” @_kwinne: “mine was pineapple. Caused a threatened abortion at 4 months and that’s all i wanted to eat at that time.” @classicbetty101: “Thank God this has been brought to limelight. I literally cramp & bleed whenever I take zobo when I was pregnant with my second. My doctor and I didn’t know why until a friend pointed it out to me after my son was 3 months old. I’m just grateful to God my child and I made it.” SEE POST:
Woman dies from brain swelling after drinking too much water
A 45-year-old woman, Michelle Whitehead lost her life after consuming excessive amounts of water during her stay at the Millbrook Mental Health Unit in Nottinghamshire, England. The incident occurred on May 5, 2021, just two days after Michelle, who had suffered a mental breakdown, was admitted to the facility. Michelle’s husband, Michael Whitehead, laid the blame squarely on the health facility, asserting that timely intervention could have saved his wife’s life. “Had they acted earlier Michelle would have been taken to ICU and put on a drip. That would have saved her life,” Michelle’s husband, said. Michelle had a condition known as psychogenic polydipsia, characterized by voluntary and excessive water intake, often observed in individuals with psychiatric or neurodevelopmental disorders.
According to Michael, the health facility failed to diagnose Michelle with psychogenic polydipsia, allowing her unsupervised access to water in her room. Tragically, the staff allegedly administered tranquilizers to help her sleep, and Michelle slipped into a coma. The facility reportedly did not realize her deteriorating condition until four hours later. An investigation into Michelle’s death revealed that hospital staff deviated from their policy, with distractions such as mobile phones impeding the quality of care. Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust admitted to eight failings, and the investigation concluded that these lapses “probably more than minimally” contributed to Michelle’s untimely demise.
The coroner overseeing the case emphasized the need for the mental health unit to improve its ability to detect psychogenic polydipsia, aiming to prevent similar tragedies in the future. Ifti Majid, the CEO of Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust, issued an apology to the grieving family, acknowledging the lapses in Michelle’s care. “We are considering the findings of the jury and the coroner. We acknowledge that there were aspects of care which were not of the quality they should have been and will address the concerns raised so that the experience for patients now and in the future is improved,” Majid told the BBC. Michelle Whitehead, described by her husband as “warm, caring, and easy to love,” leaves behind a devastated family. The duo were childhood sweethearts; Michael was 17, and Michelle was 15 when he first met her on a bus. They were together for 30 years, raising two sons, one of whom had Down syndrome. Michelle dedicated 19 years to caring for her disabled son, sacrificing her career as a nursery nurse.
Woman displays pregnancy belly, celebrates quadruplet birth
A Nigerian woman received numerous congratulations for her strength as she proudly displayed her big belly during pregnancy and subsequently gave birth to quadruplets—three girls and one boy. The video captioned: “I am dat woman dat God showed mercy. my 9 months was not in vain. 3 girls and 1 boy. Lord I’m very grateful,” garnered thousands of views on TikTok, showcased the new mother presenting her babies, gently wrapped and placed on the hospital bed.
Mother. Additionally, the video included images of her during pregnancy, displaying the journey before giving birth to the children. Recognizing her efforts, many individuals flooded the comment section to celebrate her accomplishment. See some reactions below: Abisohlah: “Chai. I go faint four times before them go fit stabilize me.” Mary Abaka856: “I waiting for 14 years God bless me with Twins and after two years of having the boys now I have another Twins girls, our God is awesome.” 18 dont talk about love: “you sef you don try for yourself so many battle wey you win for your self.” Onyi Treasure: “I see all d congrats,and all.d luv is so massive,God bless u all and grant u ur heart desire.Pls anything to support us so we can leave d hospital.” Patience Eshun921: “wow Glory Glory Glory be to GOD: I tap into your Blessings in JESUS name AMEN AMEN and AMEN.” Chidera Timothy Chima: “congratulations. I’m tapping from this double blessing. I will be called mama ejima soon amen.” user38414213949811: “congratulations sis you and your babies are Shelded from every evil in Jesus name Amen. WATCH VIDEO: @onyitreasure0 I am dat woman dat God showed mercy…..my 9 months was not in vain….3 girls and 1 boy…. Lord I’m very grateful#goviral ♬ Ginger (Hype Yourself) – Voltage Of Hype
Lady narrates how married woman asked her to become sidechic
A lady has narrated in specific details how a married woman had asked her to become her sidechic. She revealed she had gotten a random DM from the woman on Instagram where she commented on her beauty. She confessed to not knowing she was old or even married as the woman was very beautiful, young and well-endowed. The married woman had told her she came from Kenya and she liked to smoke a lot and she sent the young girl videos of her smoking and vibing. The lady further narrated how the woman had requested for her to come over to her place to hang out but she had to decline because she was in a private university. The young lady. However, the married woman reassured her telling her not be scared as her husband had traveled and she takes her son to daycare. This was when the girl knew the woman was actually married and even with a child. Admitting her marital status, the woman also clarified that she likes girls, a situation her husband is aware of and even likes to join sometimes. The young lady refused her advances to become a sidechic but the woman kept begging so she had to block her on the app. Watch video here…
Nigerian woman married to blind man shares her experience after 3 years
In an exclusive interview with Legit.ng, a Nigerian woman named Anuoluwapo Waziri, the wife of Tomi Waziri, shared her experience of love, resilience, and family life, three years after tying the knot with her blind husband. Tomi Waziri lost his sight several years ago in a tragic incident involving armed robbers. Undeterred by the challenges that lay ahead, Anuoluwapo chose to marry Tomi out of love and embarked on a journey filled with unwavering support and companionship. “I don’t cope with him; I love him and support him. We go everywhere together. When we are walking, he places his left hand on my right shoulder. The only thing I ‘cope’ with is when a sidewalk or aisle gets narrow,” Anuoluwapo Waziri said. Despite the obstacles posed by Tomi’s blindness, Anuoluwapo expressed that being married to him has been nothing short of amazing. The couple, now parents to two beautiful children, has faced the challenges of parenthood with grace and gratitude. When asked about the challenges of balancing motherhood and supporting her blind husband. “It’s been wonderful; I mean, God blessed me with beautiful kids. Even though it can be stressful taking care of children, I am grateful for the stress,” Mrs. Waziri said. Anuoluwapo expressed joy in the fact that their story has inspired numerous people on social media. “It has been a wonderful experience. I am so happy we have inspired a lot of people with our story,” she added.