A married woman has advised her fellow gender, telling them that a responsible woman with good home training will not bill a man she is not married to. She shared this video on her Tiktok page, @ms_raphys, where she drops relationship advice for both genders. At the start of the video, she admits that this conversation is not what a lot of women like to hear. She condemns other women who bill men, claiming it is a sign of irresponsibility and shows lack of good home training. According to her, if your parents and family are looking out for you as a woman, you wouldn’t have to beg a man you’re not married to for money. She insists that a relationship is not a money making venture and it is not your right as a woman to get paid for being in a relationship. The married woman further castigates women who request for monthly allowance from their boyfriends. See some reactions @Moh said: “Soon as you ask me for money, I just know I’m wasting my time.” @✨STAR✨ wrote: “Dey play😂😂 it’s okay for him to tell me to come over to his house but it’s not okay for me to bill him?? Am I his mother?????? 😏😏” @Mama K added: “I agree , don’t bill him. I like it when a Man gives out of the goodness of his heart. He shouldn’t have to be told, before gifting his girl money.” @The Enchiridion! said: “Relationship don turn job opportunity” @🛣️DOWNTOWN🛣️ reacted: “Aunty Billi go think say na Understanding girlfriend talk b this” Watch video here @ms_raphys This is how I feel about billing a man, it’s probably because I don’t like to beg. Billing a man you’re not married to will bring too much see finish and I never want to put myself in that kind of situation. I strongly believe that you don’t have to ask a responsible man before he will do the needful. I come in peace o, feel free to disagree. #ms_raphys #relationships #marriage #dating #billing #relationshipadvice #fypシ #foryoupage #trending #viral #fyp ♬ original sound – Rafiah
Upcoming artist drags Bobrisky for refusing to promote his song
An upcoming artist has called out celebrity transgender, Bobrisky, for refusing to post his music or reply his messages after getting paid 200k. The artist revealed this on his Twitter page, @gafgold, where he asked Nigerians to beg Bobrisky to refund him. From the chats he shared, he reached out to Bobrisky, asking for his price to run an advert with him. Bobrisky required the sum of 1Miliion, but the upcoming artist pleaded with him, claiming he had only 200k to send. He sent the money on the 18th of November, and since then, Bobrisky had been ignoring him despite promising to post it on the evening he made payment. In his words; “Hi, my fellow Nigerians, please help me beg Bobrisky to refund me. It’s not easy being an independent, upcoming artist. I dropped a new song, “Sokinso”, my first street lamba, and part of the influencer marketing plan involved Bobrisky. Payment was made to her personal account, with a promise of same-day delivery. But it’s been two weeks now, and since the payment was received, she stopped replying to my DMs. I’ve been messaging her every day with no response… This is a scam. You all should stop doing this to upcoming artists. It’s not easy for us… Bobrisky, kindly refund me before I take legal action… Thank you. Bobrisky ignored my message for two weeks after full payment And the deal was that she will deliver same day of payment Please Nigerians help me 😭😭 Below is the screenshot of our chat for proof… Nigerians, come to my rescue.” After Bobrisky noticed the artiste posted the chats, he finally responded to him and warned him not to respond to him again since he had decided to go public. See post below
Father drags his sons to court for stealing his properties when he travelled abroad
Nigerian man Ade Olowopopo has initiated legal proceedings against his two sons, Kunle and Mayowa, alleging that they assaulted their sister, Bisi Olowopopo, and stole his properties while he was abroad. The alleged incidents occurred at the family residence in Lakwe Lekki, Lagos State. The suspects were arraigned at the Ebute Metta Magistrate’s Court on Monday, facing a five-count charge that includes assault, breaking and entering, stealing, and posing a threat to life. According to the prosecution counsel, Paul Ugorji, the defendants committed the crimes in 2019 while the plaintiff was abroad. During the purported incident, the brothers reportedly forcibly entered their father’s compound, assaulted their older sister, and drove her out. Additionally, they allegedly took a block molding machine and a N7 million Toyota 4Runner Jeep without their father’s consent. The courtroom revelations unveiled an underlying family dispute, with information emerging that the sons belong to Olowopopo’s second wife, with whom he has disagreements, particularly regarding the boys’ paternity. Paul Ugorji outlined that the accused violated several sections of the Lagos State 2015 Criminal Laws, including Sections 411, 172, 287, 56, and 168(d). The charges read, “That you, Adekunle Olowopopo, 35, and Mayowa Olowopopo, 33, sometime in 2019 at Lakwe Lekki, Lagos, in the Lagos Magisterial District, did conspire together to commit a felony, to wit assault, stealing, breaking and entry, and conduct likely to cause a breach of peace and thereby committed an offense punishable under Section 411 of the Criminal Laws of Lagos State of Nigeria, 2015.” Magistrate O. M. Ajayi accepted the petition and granted the accused sons bail. They were each released on a bail amount of N40,000 with one responsible surety.
Phyna blows hot, drags Blessing CEO over statement she made about Benin women
Popular BBNaija star, Phyna has extensively blasted controversial therapist, Blessing CEO over the statement she made about women from Benin. The Ebonyi-born socialite had averred that most mother’s in in Benin are irresponsible and only care about making their daughters sell their bodies for money.
Reality star, Phyna. Photo Source: Instagram. Phyna who hails from Edo reacted to this blasted her for tagging all Benin mothers as irresponsible. She warned her to be careful of what she uses to chase her clout.
Blessing CEO. Photo Source: Instagram. The reality star wrote: “Blessingceo I nor say make you nor talk oh or chase your clout as usual but I take God beg nor think say you get gbana for head con carry am play come Benin people side….. how you go open your yeye mouth say all women for Benin na Ashawo!!!!!!!! Say no responsible mama, Omo e be like say you don match line o😡 where you think say your madness stop na there another person own start…
Abi you smoke wrong blunt? Wetin dy work you” See the posts below:
“I dey fund your record label, you get mind dey tell me say you go slap me for airport” – Berri Tiga drags Carter Efe
Popular singer, Berri Tiga has dragged his colleague, Carter Efe for threatening to slap him despite being the one funding his record label. It would be recalled that the beef between both artists dates back to last year, 2022, when they duo released a song, ‘Machala’ together.
Singer’s Carter Efe and Berri Tiga. Although they had once settled, Berri Tiga has come online to drag him. He revealed that Carter had threatened to slap him while they were at an airport, even though he has been instrumental in funding Carter Efe’s label. He also spilled how Carter Efe tried to take over an investor he introduced him to by telling the investor that he, Berri Tiga’s, career is dead. One of his posts read: “I Dey fund ur record label… Dey follow your plans . you get mind dey tell me say u go slap me for airport .. dey talk to me like say I be ur pikin.. as Werey no see money collect from my head like he expected .. ENERGY CHANGE..” See post below:
Caramel Plugg drags married men for following small girls
Popular content creator, Ogechi Ukonu, popularly called Caramel Plugg, has lambasted married men, calling them out for lying to young girls that they’re single. The content creator made a video which she posted on her Instagram page, dragging these married men. She questioned married men, especially the ones in Lagos, wondering if they were forced at gun point to get married. Caramel Plugg was pained at the fact that they’re wives are very beautiful but they’ll go outside and lie to young girls that they’re single. Popular content creator, Caramel Plugg. She asked if they needed help or therapy or assistance with washing their head in a river or at least pastoral assistance. See some reactions: nehchee agreed: And their wives dey fine ehhhhhhh ftargetofficial wrote: I wish I meet you before my wife na their code Buh una still give number 😂😂😂😂😂 clema9671 said: I like you bcas u don’t follow boys around stay loyal to only me a meanwhile werey don marry wife for house so werey wan tie the young girl down make she no marry 😂😂 adetomiiee said: Y’all forgotten that it’s the same cheating boyfriends that you people are following now, that will turn to cheating husbands. And the single girls will be wondering why he is outside when you are at home looking all pretty. RINSE AND REPEAT euphe_mya asked: Did they force you to marry???? Every girl literally has a married man on her matter! They will now say it’s their nature 🤦🏾♀️ Watch video here:
“Omugwo is not vacation” – Lady drags mother-in-law for over staying during visit
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A Nigerian lady has vented her anger over how some mother-in-laws use “Omugwo” as a vacation and overstay during visits.
She said in a video that the mother-in-law ought to be providing help and support during their visit for Omugwo, not expecting the son’s wife to cook and clean.
The woman underlined how critical it is to acknowledge the toll that childbirth has on women’s bodies and minds.
She also spoke specifically to African men, advising them to defend their spouses and speak out for their postpartum welfare.
Lady warns mother-in-law over omugwo. Photo source: Google
She restated that it was unjust to force women to shoulder all of the family duties and obligations at this critical juncture.
She went on to say that husbands should actively support and take care of their spouses, making sure they get the help and relaxation they need.
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Man tells girlfriend to terminate pregnancy, she drags him to court
A Nigerian man named Miracle has been dragged to court by his girlfriend after he urged her to terminate their second child, following her decision to abort their first child. Miracle expressed his unwillingness to embrace fatherhood and made it clear that he was not ready for such responsibilities.
The lady, whose identity remains undisclosed, refused to proceed with the abortion. She cited complications arising from the previous abortion as well as her recent job loss as reasons for her decision.
Despite Miracle’s insistence, she stood firm in her choice not to terminate the pregnancy. In response to her defiance, Miracle informed her that she would be solely responsible for the upbringing of the child if she proceeded with it.
This dispute eventually led to their appearance in court. See some reactions below: @ibeno irep: “what is ebuka’s role in the court? plus, why did the judge not take into account the full cost of taking care of the child? is 10k enough?” @Etoromi Prince: “And I Dey complain say 120k no Dey reach me a month: people are really suffer1ng.” @joy_ben: “the judgement to me isn’t fair enough. the country is hard 10k with a child per month.” @Okieriete Okoro: “seriously ehn she should just locate his place of work and go there with the baby to cause a scene. because this is unfair.” @user3899580153267: “I love this judge. but their story tire me. 30k, 40k earners in this economy.” @georgebecky843: “Ebuka telling her to bring receipt no be issues but do u think 55000 is enough for someone that is taking care of a child?” @Ena_re10: “My own worst Cus Na 1k or 2k him dey send and before him send am Na quarrel. Thank God say I get work I for the chop shit with my baby now she’s 4yrs.” WATCH VIDEO: @judgingmattersshow You Impregnate a lady and tell her you are not ready to be a father? #judgingmatters #judging_matters #yourthoughts #court #Justicecourt #everyone #gotocourt #weloveyou #announcement ♬ original sound – Judging Matters Justice Court
Husband drags wife to court, narrates painful experience to judge
A husband has taken his wife to court due to the distressing treatment he endures within their home. Despite being married, he revealed that he has been subjected to significant suffering at the hands of his own wife.
In detailing her actions, he explained that his wife frequently engages in physical violence towards him, seizing any opportunity to do so. He recounted an incident where she asked him why he doesn’t plead for mercy as her father does when her mother beats him. However, he expressed that her father may possess the strength to endure such treatment, unlike himself. Furthermore, the man disclosed that his wife has, on multiple occasions, destroyed all the clothing he owns, leaving him with nothing to wear to work, forcing him to borrow clothes from his neighbor.
Additionally, he accused his wife of engaging in infidelity with one of his friends. Nigerians have responded to the man’s confession by expressing their thoughts and opinions in the comment section. See some reactions below: @favoredsinner: “No matter how emotional your story is as a man in an abusive relationship, people will hardly help, take you serious or believe you. The game is rigged.” @iamlindagraham: “This isn’t funny. If it was the other way round they’ll be talking about domestic violence. This is the luxury of double standards we women enjoy. I said what I said. I’ve also said that we aren’t ready to talk about men facing domestic abuse in the home too. We’re still stuck on gender wars.” @Taiwo_junzi: “Nothing the pattern! No empathy cos it’s a man! See everybody’s countenance and body language in the video. People will watch the video and smile, let it go the other way you’ll be hearing “I couldn’t watch till the end.” @JimisolaCoal: “Sigh. What’s funny about the situation ? Even the judge is smiling . Kilo funny ? Someone is speaking from a place of pain and they are kikiking. This is why men barely speak up . Eiiish” @chimxy14: “If we reverse this story nobody would be laughing in that court room. That woman even has an evil look. Men go through abuse too and it’s not new.” @iamAyoTomi: “Man be speaking in pain but people Dey laugh. Cos na MAN . Later de, go say speak up, na why most men Dey hide their pain.” WATCH VIDEO: This is heartbreaking 💔 😢 Why are they laughing at him?? 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ pic.twitter.com/hsadzUe7BW — Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) July 9, 2023
Lady connects ‘gorimakpa’ hairstyle to cheating, drags Banky W, others
A Nigerian lady likened the hairstyle of famous entertainers, including Banky W, 2Face Idibia, and Yul Edochie to cheating while urging her prospective future husband to avoid the ‘gorimakpa’ hairstyle. It would be recalled that on Saturday, June 24, singer Banky W found himself in the midst of controversy when allegations of infidelity towards his wife, Adesua Etomi, surfaced.
A media account is known as Gistlover had posted on its page that a well-known celebrity was cheating on his wife with a fellow celebrity based abroad, who is also recognized in Nigeria. Although the media account did not mention any names, however, some Twitter users speculated that Banky W and Adesua were the subjects of the allegations due to their fame, the description of the wife, and the circumstances mentioned. In the midst of this controversy, a Twitter user named Ugochi with username @Oforma19 expressed her views on her own media page by issuing a warning to her future boyfriend. She accompanied her message with photos of two other Nigerian celebrities, Banky W, 2Face Idibia, and Yul Edochie who have faced accusations of having multiple partners. “See all 3 of them on gorimakpa🤔Dear Future hubby, please avoid this hair style🙏🏽😑,” she wrote. See all 3 of them on gorimakpa🤔 Dear Future hubby, please avoid this hair style🙏🏽😑 Adesua Seyi Niyola Fave Niniola Susu Gistlover Yansh IDME Simi NIN and BVN Banky W Cheating Yemi Alade Prigozhin Mbaise David Hundeyin pic.twitter.com/maUgJguht3 — UGOCHI (@Oforma19) June 25, 2023